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DaniPepper87
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posted April 02, 2016 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there people!

I'm a little down lately. I really spending my time doing things to my parents. BUT the thing is: my mom threw in my face that I'm not doing nothing! This nothing that she says is about the way she wants me to do. I don't like to do many things she loves, and because of this, I'm not worth being her daughter...

From the cards, I'd like to know what do I need to act, because talking to her is impossible! She always start to fight when I speak about this with her...

I can do tarot or Leno in exchange!

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lilypad18
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posted April 02, 2016 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi Dani, do you mind if I'm in?

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DaniPepper87
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posted April 02, 2016 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ho Hi Lily!

Sorry for not responding your email... But sure you can!

Ask me how many questions you want

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lilypad18
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posted April 02, 2016 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahahaha don't worry about that email


brb with your question

mine: Will I have a bf soon?
-Will I have some job this summer?

place more if u want to!

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lilypad18
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posted April 02, 2016 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
About your mom, the cars keep telling me over and over again for you to take action. They tell me that you should do the things she loves, to sacrifice a little bit and do, at least some of the things she likes to do, even if you dont. Even if you "lie" about it a little, take some time in your life to fulfill her expectations. That way, you will make her veeeeeery happy, and you two will stop arguing.

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posted April 02, 2016 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Dani, I can't offer you a reading because I can't read but I can understand what you're going through. I go through the same thing with my mom. Since I'm not married my mom relies on me for many things. If it's not her standard or what she wants then an argument ensues. It's frustrating. All I can say is I just try to get through it. Yes her to death and ignore it. A lot of it comes from their frustration of not being able to do what they want when they want. It's hard and at times I do lose my temper with her. You could try talking to her as well. She might not see your point but honestly it's not you who needs to change. She's probably afraid to lose you as well. I know that's how it is in my circumstance. I wish you well and hope you get through this ok! I understand how you feel!

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posted April 02, 2016 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Lily...

Thanks for the reading. The thing is: I already do this. I do this almost all the time and she tells me that I'm ungrateful....

For you I got:

3 of Cups - 3 of Wands - 3 of Pentacles

Yes, you'll be dating someone soon. The nicest thing here is the 3 repeating... You'll meet this new love in a party, that you may even think of let it go, but you'll be going to it. You'll have a lot in commom, and that's the right thing, because you will go and observe the world together, doing all the things together...

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posted April 02, 2016 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi hi FairyDust75!

This is the same thing! I don't know if your faher is still around, but mine is like a child: and now the worst is happening, he doesn't want to eat, and he needs a heart transplant... The thing at home is hard for me. And when I say No for just one time, they go mad!! I hope that this situation, for us, gets lighter with the time...

All the best and thanks for your words!!

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posted April 02, 2016 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My dad is healthy but my mom is ill. She can get around but no longer drives. So if my dad isn't around its up to me. It's very hard. For example she just asked me what I was doing today. I said I wasn't sure. But she has things she needs to do so either I don't make any of my own plans and take her or do what I want to do and take her. It's hard! My siblings don't get it. They don't see what the big deal is but they don't give up their time either to do things with her. I feel ya totally!

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posted April 02, 2016 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi Dani, sorry for not doing your reading right, Ill try again, give me some minutes

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DaniPepper87
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posted April 02, 2016 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lily, don't say your reading was wrong, but you picked up the thing I already do...

Let me know if you have more questions

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posted April 02, 2016 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to try again with your reading, I would feel really bad since you've always did such great readings for me

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posted April 02, 2016 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dani,
I'd like to see what the cards say in this instance. Will be back with your reading.

Dog, Child, Fox - clarified with Bear
This message is similar to the one I gave before on this issue.
Dani, in order to be a friend to your mum you will have to be a little false - wily as a fox. How? You need to be the mother, the Bear, who lays down rules for her children. Which means tell her that her behaviour is unfair and unacceptable. Tell here this in a calm way, just as a parent should, but lay down boundaries. Tell her what you would like to change and how she must treat you with consideration and respect.

She needs to see herself through your eyes. This will restore her sense of balance and it will help her to realise how difficult she is being. Simply trying to please her is not going to work.

I pulled an Angel Message:
Athena
"It is safe for you to be powerful. You know how to be powerful in a loving way that benefits others as well as yourself. You have worried that others would disapprove of you or leave you if you allowed your true power to shine. You have also been concerned that you might absuse your power and that your masculine energy would become unbalanced. I am here to help you reveal your power to yourself and others in a way that enhances your relationships, self-esteem, and life purpose."

Good to see the message reflecting the previous cards .


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posted April 02, 2016 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would you like to exchange, Dani?

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posted April 02, 2016 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you thought of bringing your father into this discussion? There is a liiiiittle possibility of him making your mom reasonable again, but it is also true that you will all start to fight between each other before resolving the problems.

I also got an idea, from the cards
What if you, on purpose, make your mom and dad more close to each other and make them remember how their relationship was when they first met or at the beginning of their relationship? You know what I mean? Maybe what your mom needs is "her other half", and she is looking for it in you, but her other half should be your father, and she kinda feels abandoned by him maybe.

Try and talk to your dad, or not even talk, set them up for dinner, a romantic dinner, so that your mom can feel things for your dad again, maybe then she will try stop acting like that towards you

what do you think?

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posted April 02, 2016 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi hi MM!!

Sure, but I have another question: if someone appears in the love department, how things will be with my family??

Let me know yours...

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Would you like to exchange, Dani?

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posted April 02, 2016 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How will my April go in terms of my job hunt?

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posted April 02, 2016 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
2 of coins - king of wands - ace of coins

clarifier = the high priestess.

I think you'd keep it secret from them, as per the high priestess.

I do not see any fighting with any family members when you're at the initial parts of the relationship. I think you will be spending a lot of time with the family, so they will not feel neglected.

What happens when Dani tells them about the relationship?

page of cups - queen of cups - 7 of wands

There will be some aggression/fighting because you kept it secret. Clarifier is the 3 of cups which shows that they will eventually accept it as long as you still spend time with them.

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posted April 02, 2016 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dani, I posted something above

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posted April 03, 2016 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump

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DaniPepper87
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posted April 04, 2016 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi people!!!

I was at a reiki course, now I'm a reiki healer... So now I'm going to start the readings I owe

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posted April 04, 2016 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi hi Astro!

Thank soo much for your insights and readings.

Thing is: I hate to be false! And as a mom, she knows when I"m not telling the truth! But I'm hardly trying to make her seeing me as I do. She's 28 years older than me (see, she was having her 1st Saturn return when I was born). But I noticed this manipulative way of hers very very soon I start to think as an adult!

I'm gonna see if I can do something to better... Thanks!

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posted April 05, 2016 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi hi MinceyMouse!!!

You April in terms of job...

5 of Swords - Lovers - Queen of Wands

Seems like you'll be fighting a lot to get a chance. There will be some job offers for you, you just need to use your wise side to get the ones you really identify. Don't be a shy person, show them all your potential, use the fire inside you to get it. This queen has a lionesss by her feet... Feel like her: have the world on your feet!

All the best, and thanks for all!

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posted April 05, 2016 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi hi lilypad18!!!

Just now I saw your second question

For your job hunt in summer...

8 of Cups - 8 of Wands - Chariot

Seems like you'll have one at this summer, but you need to undo some feelings of not worth this job. Keep on trying girl!!! Things will develop very quickly, you will get one. I'm feeling that you need to take a long journey to get into this job, you need to take a bus, or by car, but it will be far away from your home... Sorry!!

All the best dear!

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posted April 05, 2016 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Dani. Have we exchanged before? If not would you like to?

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