posted April 03, 2016 09:37 PM            

This is an exchange.

posted April 04, 2016 01:23 AM            

The rest of this year you will be thinking of how you can break free from something. You want to but I see you are torn in how you can do it.. many options but no clear choice for you. this is a problem for the universe because it brings to you what you have decided you want from your heart. I do see you feeling sad at times because you feel this way, but you should remember you are creating your own world here, and you can easily change it. Just look toward the long term and make up your mind.

posted April 04, 2016 02:04 AM            

I have removed what I said because I'd rather use my effort and passion where it belongs and where I'll be understood.

I simply recommend watching Teal Swan's videos on:

Spiritual bypassing - http://youtu.be/0ErlTinKrQw
Today's Great Epidemic - http://youtu.be/PeOZA2xztw4

Give it a try and then after you watch it I will then find it worth arguing or discussing about all this.

posted April 04, 2016 02:11 AM            

In response to why do we use tarot when we create our own reality. The answer is simple, the tarot describes the here and now and thats it. Nothing is set in stone, not even predictive readings and its all up to the individual to shape their own world and make it what they want.

And I'm sorry you are dealing with pain, believe me I know what pain is. But you know what REAL pain is? Not having any food and water for one. Thats how i make myself feel better. Nobody is responsible for my life but me and if I want a better life then I do things to make it happen.

Your cards simply show the Two of Swords which means you are not sure which direction to go and thats why I brought up the universe because I know for a fact the universe will only bring exactly what you want after you have exactly made up your mind.

posted April 04, 2016 02:25 AM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Well tbh I dont care what her reaction is and I expect it to be bad so it doesnt hurt me.

In response to why do we use tarot when we create our own reality. The answer is simple, the tarot describes the here and now and thats it. Nothing is set in stone, not even predictive readings and its all up to the individual to shape their own world and make it what they want.

And I'm sorry you are dealing with pain, believe me I know what pain is. But you know what REAL pain is? Not having any food and water for one. Thats how i make myself feel better. Nobody is responsible for my life but me and if I want a better life then I do things to make it happen.

Your cards simply show the Two of Swords which means you are not sure which direction to go and thats why I brought up the universe because I know for a fact the universe will only bring exactly what you want after you have exactly made up your mind.

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posted April 04, 2016 02:27 AM            

And you are taking it way too far by saying I said 'it doesn't matter what other people think about you'..

posted April 04, 2016 02:37 AM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I wasn't spiritually bypassing I was explaining what I saw in the cards which was saying you haven't made up your mind for your life.. and you are saying I said it to make you feel better.

And you are taking it way too far by saying I said 'it doesn't matter what other people think about you'..

You don't know anything about my situation and what is going on with me. Some things are in my control such as if I am unhappy or depressed I can change it. However I was asking about her because this is an issue where other people are involved yet they are not in charge of if I am happy or not.

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When I said "you shouldn't care about what she thinks about you." I was being sarcastic. I thought you would have understood but some things can't be expressed properly by just typing.

posted April 04, 2016 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Well I watched some of the first link and I don't agree.. I mean I do think processing negative emotions is healthy such as childhood abuse and trauma.. of course you cannot just ignore them and act like they dont exist and many people do that. But Pain is there to provide growth. Its one thing to ignore pain and its another to learn and grow from the pain and decide to be happy... the point is stop making choices that are making you unhappy continuously. Unfortunately people have karma to deal with and we are all trying to evolve out of it consciously or unconsciously. Are you going to evolve out of you pain or keep letting it rule your life?

And as an example I couldn't find a job for the longest time. I kept applying places but I didn't really want to work anywhere i was applying. Some time after I decided working at a temp agency for now would be best for me because I really didn't want a long term job. And guess what less than one month later I got a job with a temp agency and they didn't even interview me for my first job they started me right away.

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You are still misunderstanding. Feeling your true emotions is not equal to focusing negatively by purpose. It is a way to move on from the negative emotion.

When you distract yourself from negative emotion and just focus positively, it is an act of avoiding your true feelings and the feelings only get suppressed and denied. They don't go anywhere they just grow bigger.

That is why Jerry Hicks died of cancer.

Then taking drugs and always focusing positively are both types of ways to avoid feeling the emotions that come up. You never deal with the issue, you just dismiss it. This is called spiritual bypassing. Never said to always focus negatively.

There is a difference between genuine positive focus and positive focus done out of avoiding or running away from an emotion.

posted April 04, 2016 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
keep doing your spiritual work, stripping away all that is not you, working through the bad habits and negative thought patterns that keep us away from our highest potential, and you will most definitely have a lovely year <3

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That is what I always do and I am not having a lovely year.

posted April 04, 2016 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Hi spica would u like to exchange??

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Yes

On the same question I originally asked pls.

posted April 04, 2016 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Spica sorry delay. I don't see too much excitneney for this year I see you will be trying to juggle a lot of things so I don't know if you work or in school...but that will be obstacles I see you being very...Alone isolated 😔 I do see possible vacation trip to someone where warm 😄

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Thank you for the reading. It's so true.

I got: The hierophant - the hanged man - two of pentacles

posted April 04, 2016 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Thanks lmk if you have another.....

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