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Topic: Can someone please answer this for me? (Exchange)
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NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 04:28 PM
Im reflecting on things and I'm full of confusion right now in regards to issues I have had with certain people from my past.I understand that in life some people will always be quick to judge and attack you without even knowing you, but can someone please explain to me WHY I had to go through this with this particular group of people? It doesn't make sense. Its almost as if there is some past life thing going on. Why was I accused of being sneaky, conniving, suspicious, and untrustworthy when in fact I was being nothing but friendly, helpful, and someone who had nothing but the best of interest for others? Why was I accused of being a troublemaker, when in fact I was being nothing but observant? A lot of these people didn't know anything about me either. Some people who started off as friends suddenly turned on me and accused me of things that were never real or true, It doesn't make sense. Out of that entire group only ONE of them ended up being my closest friend, and even he understood what i was going through. If anyone can do a spread for me I would really appreciate it. I would even exchange. If you need initials for those "group" of people, its OC. Why was i being targeted? IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 04:36 PM
IDK why this is bothering me so much guys. I know some of you are annoyed because a lot of my questions have been repetitive lately. But I'm just confused. Maybe I should see a real doctor about this?IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 05:04 PM
Hi NYCdodger! I am more than happy to do a spread for you but it wont be until tomorrow night- its just i really want to ask something now thats all ahahaIP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 05:04 PM
whats your questionIP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 05:07 PM
Also im sorry you had to go through this. Ive been through something similar before and its so frustrating! The way i dealt with it was leaving it until time healed. But right now i know thats annoying advice, so ill ask the cards later if you like IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 05:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by NYCdodger: whats your question
Thanks, my question is how does B.L see me now after today but also generally. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 05:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Also im sorry you had to go through this. Ive been through something similar before and its so frustrating! The way i dealt with it was leaving it until time healed. But right now i know thats annoying advice, so ill ask the cards later if you like
If you can i would really appreciate it. I got 3 of pents and ace of cups
There is a building attraction between you two and a new set of feelings. I would say that they are interested in you if this is a romantic question.. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 07:28 PM
bumpanyone? I'm still offering exchanges IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 973 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 07:29 PM
Hi,Im inmy question-> what should I expect if: -I quit college and go to America to start pursuing a career -I stay in college and go to America in the 4rth year of college, with the opportunity it brings IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 973 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 07:37 PM
King of Cups Clarified by 8 of Swords - 3 of Cups clarified by 7 of pentacles- 3 of Wands clarified by 9 of swordsFrom what I see they literally saw you as an emotional manipulator. Also, they think you always wanted to "get your way", not being actually interested in what the other persons from the group actually thought or felt in that moment, not taking into consideration their feelings. Also, when they wanted to have fun, make plans, have a great time, it looks like you always had something to say about it, something bad, as in "I dont like this", "I dont think this is a good idea", and so on, when they just wanted to have fun and not thing about anything that could be wrong or not good. And when they were going somewhere or doing something together, you were always protesting or something like that. I also think they were more casual friends, or like to have casual hang-outs, something informal and just for fun, to forget about everyday stress, and when you went with them, you made everything really heavy, bringing into the hangouts your feelings, your problems, talking about your problems... So this basically says you [you-group] werent looking for the same things. You wanted something more deep and serious and they wanted something more casual, informal IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 07:40 PM
Hi dodger would you like to exchange?IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 973 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 07:57 PM
hi??IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 08:19 PM
Thanks lily. Im going to answer your question soonand yes harmonic we can exchange IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 973 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 08:19 PM
soon is now? or tomorrow? just so I know how to organize my timeIP: Logged |
harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 08:21 PM
Okay mine is what is going on between IC and TP? No quote will edit after
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NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 08:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: Hi,Im inmy question-> what should I expect if: -I quit college and go to America to start pursuing a career -I stay in college and go to America in the 4rth year of college, with the opportunity it brings
Your first question I got 10 of Pents and The Chariot. Seems like you'll prosper from this..
Your second question I got Wheel of fortune clarified by 6 of swords. Honestly its up to you and what you want to do. But theres still promise from your first option.. You should go for it (your first option stuck out to me more) As for your response, I'm trying to understand why things were that way. I once had a dream that they were planning to attack me (they failed in doing so) and there were false accusations against me. It seemed like one day they were this, and then the next day they were "that". They were blaming me for suspicion yet over time they were the ones who appeared suspicious towards me. As for being an emotional manipulator i don't see how I was so. Do i enjoy deep conversations i can learn from? Yes. But i never "wanted" anything from them..
thank you by the way IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 973 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 08:36 PM
well those cards didnt say you ARE an emotional manipulator. Those cards only said what they thought about you. That doesnt have to be the truthIP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 08:36 PM
@harmonicvibesQueen of wands clarified by 5 of wands Looks like there is something passionate going on with them. Depending on the type of relationship they are having will answer what that passion is. Could be sexual, or competitive/ambitious IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 08:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: well those cards didnt say you ARE an emotional manipulator. Those cards only said what they thought about you. That doesnt have to be the truth
Do you believe something was my fault, or theirs? Or was it just one big misunderstanding IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 973 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 08:43 PM
If I had to go for one, Id say the second one. I just think you werent the right person in their group and they werent the right group of friends for you. So, think about it. They were more than 1 person, and you were kinda alone in this thing, so of course they would start talking crap about you and treating you bad. If it were only one person against you, that person wouldve left. The cards were saying that they saw you like that, maybe you did something and they misinterpreted it and exaggerated it, or maybe in their eyes your behaviour is one of that person, you know what I mean?IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 08:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: If I had to go for one, Id say the second one. I just think you werent the right person in their group and they werent the right group of friends for you. So, think about it. They were more than 1 person, and you were kinda alone in this thing, so of course they would start talking crap about you and treating you bad. If it were only one person against you, that person wouldve left. The cards were saying that they saw you like that, maybe you did something and they misinterpreted it and exaggerated it, or maybe in their eyes your behaviour is one of that person, you know what I mean?
Go for it! Reason why i say that is because the chariot is the goal achiever. I see/understand what you're saying. IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 973 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 05, 2016 08:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by NYCdodger: Go for it! Reason why i say that is because the chariot is the goal achiever. I see/understand what you're saying.
Oh, the "If Id go for one" thing was for what you posted about the friends group hahaah IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 05, 2016 09:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: Oh, the "If Id go for one" thing was for what you posted about the friends group hahaah
Oh ok i see. Thank you for your insight. I just felt alot of vindictiveness from them. Even when i separated myself THEY would come back to ME. Thats what mind boggled me the most. They would act friendly when it was just me and them, then act completely different when they were grouped up together. Everything felt phony and whats worse is that i had to put up with it everyday. Even my dreams confused me. I had several of them showing them trying to attack me (but they would fail every time). IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 06, 2016 06:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by NYCdodger: If you can i would really appreciate it. I got 3 of pents and ace of cups
There is a building attraction between you two and a new set of feelings. I would say that they are interested in you if this is a romantic question..
Thank you so much! I got a reading the other day on here that said he didnt like me at all because of something that happened and i shouldnt contact him but something accidental happened so we did chat a tiny bit. So this could also mean forgiveness or something you think? I will defo do yours as soon as i get back dont worry- im on a trip right now thats all ill be back with my cards soon
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NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1943 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 06, 2016 09:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Thank you so much! I got a reading the other day on here that said he didnt like me at all because of something that happened and i shouldnt contact him but something accidental happened so we did chat a tiny bit. So this could also mean forgiveness or something you think?I will defo do yours as soon as i get back dont worry- im on a trip right now thats all ill be back with my cards soon
Yes, theres a chance for a fresh start just take your time.. And thank you, i would love to hear your input on my situation IP: Logged |