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posted April 08, 2016 01:51 PM            

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Hey, would you be interested in exchange? I had a question and your name came up in my mind during the meditation so I decided to ask for your help
I have been doing some spiritual work on my relationship with MM (ex lover, complicated situation for 3 years) and I am going to the bottom of the problem, like really deep, but I am not sure if this will help, as somehow I feel I lack energy when thinking or doing something in regards to that. Should I keep doing what I am doing or really let this go, and do nothing about it? I don't know if my effort will bear fruit from it so I'm torn, any insight would be helpful

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posted April 08, 2016 04:36 PM            

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I'm short for time so I'll come back to this later tonight but something you said stood out to me. You asked if your work would bear fruit. Any work you do with your greatest good in mind will bear fruit. Whether it's only planting a seed now or you have faster results, work with pure intentions can only help you. I'll focus on this tonight when I have some quiet time but in the meantime think about what it is you really want to accomplish. Free yourself? Strengthen a bond? Think about it and let me know.

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posted April 08, 2016 11:02 PM            

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I am not sure, i would like to free myself but somehow talk to him and clear everything out, i would like to clear everything out! I dont know what i should

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posted April 08, 2016 11:44 PM            

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Now I think I understand why my name came to you. I recently went through something similar to this. Without going into the whole backstory, I left this guy but we have a connection that just won't end. That connection haunted me through telepathic conversations, dreams, 'Seeing' him places but it would turn out not to be him. It seemed he was constantly on my mind or in my dreams. I was feeling really powerless and lost. This went on for close to two years that we didn't speak.

One day I got the inspiration to write to him. I'm not sure why, but I felt the need to tell him the truth about how I felt when we were seeing each other. I'd bottled up a lot of my true feelings out of fear. I told him everything...the things that worked, those that didn't, the things I appreciated about him and I apologized for what I needed to. It was very cathartic.

That was the most empowering thing I've done for myself in a very long time.

So if you feel this need, open a dialogue with him. Tell him whatever it is that's inside of you that needs to come out. Don't hold back the truth, whatever that may be.

But here's the catch. Don't get a reading about it. This is about you and for you and what he does or doesn't do as a result is irrelevant. You're doing this for your greater good, not to elicit any particular response or reaction from him. Letting go of the outcome and the "what ifs" and just focusing on what your needs are right now is a big part of freeing yourself. Don't overthink it. Just let it flow. Trust me on this.

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posted April 09, 2016 02:09 PM            

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Thank you so much! I would really like to talk to him sincerley, but face to face, not trough messages, but I am somehow affraid, I fear that a bit. But yes, I agree I should do that for myself.
But I don't know how to get to talk to him, we say goodbye to eachother last time, and I just can't approach him first, this is no way, do you see maybe this happening, he contacting me?

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posted April 09, 2016 04:15 PM            

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You can talk to him / approach him first. This isn't about him. It's about you being true to yourself. It's about you being proactive and taking whatever steps you need to in order to accomplish what you want. Being in a state of waiting isn't where you want to be.

I recall reading for the two of you sometime back and didn't feel it was over then, that there was more to come. But you shouldn't wait for him to contact you. You need to take your power back, generally speaking. This ties in to what we talked about last time. It's a progressive road and this is the first step.

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posted April 09, 2016 04:18 PM            

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I have a question for you. Has GP read the msg I sent him on FB yet? We're not friends on there so I'm not sure if he even knows I've sent him one yet.

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posted April 10, 2016 08:15 AM            

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I got this as a no, he didn't even saw it.
Is he someone you've been with? The lovers card appeared.
Please ask another questions, I am late with my response.

Thank you so much for your explanations. I know this is about me but I don't know how can I get him to talk to me, this is the thing. I'll see what future brings :/

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posted April 10, 2016 10:10 AM            

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I know this sounds overly simplistic but can you contact him and just tell him you'd like to talk about some things?

So I'm not with GP but he is a man I'm interested in. Can you ask what will happen after he does read the msg?

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posted April 10, 2016 10:20 AM            

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I can't. I gave so much into this, any more effort from my side....he won't get it. He will think I want him still, I know him well. I am sad, as I think there is not much I can do.

Ohh ok. I don't know what is the context but it will touch him in a way. This will be rewarding for you, and I think you may hear some good news from him. He'll react postive to it. Is there some travel involved between you two? I think from the point when he read the message, you will be able to see things clearly and plan with confidence, there is a great leap forward in the future.

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posted April 10, 2016 10:27 AM            

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Thanks. That is good to hear about GP.

I'm sorry your situation is difficult. Some people suggest that writing it down, then reading it out loud and burning it in a candle flame will release the energy and get the message to the person.

I do think he'll be in touch someday and you'll have your opportunity to talk to him (you'll still have to set him straight about not wanting him). I just worry about the turmoil you may go through while waiting for it. Try the candle thing and then just let it go. Give it to the universe to sort. Wish I could help more 😔

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posted April 10, 2016 10:30 AM            

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On the travel with GP, we do live in neighboring towns so we would have to travel a bit to see each other. But how we met is by visiting other towns and riding our horses with groups so there is an overall travel theme with us.

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posted April 10, 2016 10:30 AM            

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Thank you. I've tried that also. I don't know what else to do, I've tried everything I know but this situation is not solving. Thank you for your help. <3

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posted April 10, 2016 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by SpiritualSadie:
On the travel with GP, we do live in neighboring towns so we would have to travel a bit to see each other. But how we met is by visiting other towns and riding our horses with groups so there is an overall travel theme with us.

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Ok yes, this has shown that you'll travel so you can see each other.

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posted April 10, 2016 01:10 PM            

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Thanks!

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