posted April 09, 2016 08:03 AM            

My question (with several subquestions) is this: why can't I get S out of my head? What does S think of me? Should I let things go the way they go or better find a way to avoid S?

posted April 09, 2016 02:34 PM            

what does S think of andstuff?
-> 10 of swords lovers rx 2 of cups
Ahh.....he thinks it's all over, a hurtful end up considering the swords but hey, you see the dawn in the card? Also, 10 means end of a cycle- it could also be for better.
The lovers speak for themselves. Since it's rv it could indicate a blocked situation, lovers who can't be together
The 2 of cups again proves his profound lovey-dovey feelings for you. He still likes you a lot definitely- would love to approach you again

should andstuff let things go the way they go?
3 of cups 5 of wands and 2 of wands
-> not really. Of course the 3 of cups is a yes card and also in indicator for the advise to enjoy yourself a more, maybe even attending a party.
The 5 of cards however indicates that you would struggle with this any ways, you won't be able to let go sooo easily and the 2 of wands, no sorry, an indicator to look for him, to look for another point of view, to expand your horizon when it comes to him

posted April 10, 2016 05:16 PM            

Let me post yours first

I thought a Celtic Cross might be appropriate, seeing how many cards you pulled for me =)

Queen of Wands crossed by the Sun
Crowned by 3 pents
4 pents at the root
6 cups on the left
8 wands on the right
4 wands - Page of Pents - 7 pents - Knight of Wands

I also rearranged them in a circle to form a snake biting its tail, 1 through 10

Basically what I see is two charismatic self-confident people fascinated with eath other, both aware they have qualities that fascinate. Desire is definitely there, as well as a certain jubilant vibe. However, I'd be inclined to see this connection as a learning experience.

Seeing the layout is for you, I would assume 4 pents at the root describes your ulterior wishes/motifs. So it seems you are the kind of person that wants every investment to pay off, which does not make you insecure per se, however, this might perhaps block you from growing or complicate your life (or both?). You know what true love is and you want it in your life again, and with this guy things will be evolving quickly, communication and flirting and whatnot, despite your fears that it might only result in useless waiting, like it has in so many cases for so many people.

The problem with him seems to be exactly what his immediate charm is: the Knight of Wands is quick on the uptake and enjoys new challenges etc., he might come across as if he were slipping through your fingers. This, as the relationship evolves, might be discouraging. I am not saying it will not work out (because take a look, in some respects he will be up against his equal aka the Queen of Wands), but for now it seems to be all about learning this crucial thing, to not feel deceived if your investments do not py off, sort of start being more chilled out about the possibility of this happening, letting it go with grace, even if he's not the one you will have to let go. I'd say it's too early to say what kind of ending is on the cards, but there is defs a lot of desire (in a good way) and you are bound to have fun and experience true joy from being desired, from being around another stunning person. I'd also add that it's a good sign there are no swords, so it seems no one is going to get hurt, which I suppose is pretty awesome =)

I thought of this song for some reason
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GsJqDgSY1ME

posted April 10, 2016 05:28 PM            

I basically have a choice between keeping seeing him under the circumstances we run into each other or avoid him altogether (which is also technically possible). Re: broadening the horizon is interesting, because I am really freaked out and only want to run away and hide. My idea of a man I'd like to meet and keep in my life was (oh wait, still is) super-different, so I am capital-C confused to say the least. I am just not sure I need any of this going on, and yet I also feel like I might be learning something.

Please don't quote, I will prob edit this out later =)

posted April 10, 2016 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
andstuff u still exchanging?

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posted April 11, 2016 09:41 AM            

thanks a lot for your celtic cross, wow, didn¡¦t expect that since it¡¦s really early. I will update you on this if you want. So far your spread is spot on however. I tend to be insecure resp. give up very early and since I have mars in gem + moon in aries, I lose interest pretty quickly. I should learn to relax fare more. Thank you for the spread. I still need to dig into it (both emotionally and mentally).

I am glad that my spread for you did resonate ļ

Oh, I see¡K. Maybe the spread shows that struggle with the immediate environment (3 of cups + 5 of wands). The 2 of wands is definitive an advise to look for a solution. I don¡¦t know your situation exactly though. But what I see from the spreads is, that there were/are definitive real feelings between the 2 of you- I am normally very skeptical and hesitate to make such statements but in your case, I feel no hesitation at all