posted April 09, 2016 10:19 AM            

Back to the topic, to have someone guide you, answer all your questions not only requires their time and energy but also share their knowledge. IMO it's fair to consider paying them in exchange for their wisdom/energy. I think what you're looking for is something like mentorship and I don't think anyone would do this for free unless it was someone you personally know. In my case I slowly branched out and got to know the other readers/psychics in my area, that's how I found my mentor. Another suggestion is to join a mediumship class as this would help you develop a stronger spiritual foundation.

posted April 09, 2016 10:30 AM            

She's able to pick up on things that I don't even tell her, and she'll pull cards (for example) and make sense of a situation. She's never been blunt with me and where she has told me things that I didn't really want to hear, I have just written back to her (expressing my thoughts) and that was the end of the matter.

She also specialises in horary and chart readings.

I generally find pure psychics weak and unable to pick up on situations (with the exception of Intutive Fish).

posted April 09, 2016 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Just curious how asking for advice is different from getting a reading

Basically I second everyone who said it's fair to pay if you want someone to spend their time and energy to render you a service. For some people "thank you" won't do, and I believe they are right in thinking it won't

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Well since I'm not asking for someone to read on to something, I just need help so I want to ask for advice.

posted April 09, 2016 12:03 PM            

Helping you with that is going to be a commitment and therefore, it's not going to be 'free' (in the long run) unless you've built up a relationship with that person and you're exchanging the same amount of energy in a similar/different ways.

My advice would be, firm up your concerns. Get your concerns down to 2/3 key questions (maybe 4) and then exchange on here or via email with someone off here. Someone who you know can help and someone who you know you can do something for too.

I don't necessarily think you need someone who is purely psychic or intuitive. You just need someone who gives a damn, is empathetic and good at their craft. That's just my take on it.

posted April 09, 2016 12:08 PM            

I dont think anyone can help me on here

posted April 09, 2016 12:10 PM            

On the other hand, we just had a conversation by email where I tried to help you and answered your questions, and seeing this thread is not a pleasure for me, when you say that "no one" helps you this doesn't sound right at all, sorry.

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posted April 09, 2016 12:21 PM            

I really do appreciate what you do. And thank you for that help.

posted April 09, 2016 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Well, you didn't say what exactly you wanted from that person. If you just need to discuss what you experienced, then obvs it's different. Quite a few people here on LL among those who claim to be psychics are indeed super-gifted, but perhaps they are more on the semi-pro side (either way... define pro), plus there are defs sub-boards on spiritual experiences and such, so why not just ask around? Most users are genuinely nice and happy to share =)

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posted April 09, 2016 01:36 PM            

If it's about spirits and ghosts, I think you opened the topic before, and everyone told you their opinion, me included, I told you that I know ghosts don't exists, for this is what I see in the astral and in my practices, including spiritism, but other people think otherwise, and it all depends on what you believe too, and what you are willing to learn.

Despite ghosts not existing, there is the possibility to receive a message from someone's spirit, which continues living in many forms. And you can try it with your cards too.

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