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posted April 12, 2016 06:58 PM            

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Would you care to exchange?

I have a couple of questions..... will R contact me anytime soon and is he interested in just sex or something more?

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posted April 12, 2016 07:41 PM            

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hey honey I just did your reading in the other thread..

I do feel that R will contact you soon... I don't think that he is just interested in sex either, he feels to me that he enjoys your company quite a bit... but the thing is, once you've gotten in the habit of having sex with someone it does tend to be difficult to break that habit and just "hangout".. although I do feel that if you include some element of physical activity, that you two should be able to hangout quite fine. Maybe going to an arcade or going bowling or something like that... I am getting the feeling of a sun /mars synastry aspect, like it is great when the two of you do some physical things together (so with that it is quite easy to see how the sex thing would easily happen)

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posted April 12, 2016 10:15 PM            

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Thank you. Right now it's complete silence from him and he ignored the last couple of messages I sent so I gave up.

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posted April 13, 2016 01:20 AM            

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it's ok to give up for a bit sweetie keep your head up and let me now when you do hear from him

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posted April 14, 2016 09:12 AM            

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I sent him a text this morning just saying morning and asked how everything is going. He read it but did not response so I think it's completely over since he ignored me.

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posted April 14, 2016 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I sent him a text this morning just saying morning and asked how everything is going. He read it but did not response so I think it's completely over since he ignored me.

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honey, our minds like to be quite extreme. and this is okay for you to think for now, but in reality it is just one event on one day... he could text you that he loves you and you'd assume one thing and then a week from now never respond to you again! or he could answer but have been totally fake... do you see what I am saying? you can't take one event and draw grand conclusions from it! the reason your mind is doing this to you is because it is mirroring your own insecurity... my BEST advice to you is for you to look in the face the feelings this brings out in you and to process through them and release them... look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. I LOVE YOU JUST AS YOU ARE...

have a bit more faith in the universe sweetie! I think it is wise to back off for a bit because he just seems to have his energies focused elsewhere, but don't take that personally as it really does have nothing to do with you... his treatment of you is only a reflection of HIS current mental state.

let me tell you sweetie, before my ex and i got together, he pursued me for very long. I was, at the time, ignoring him and interested in his best friend... a boy who did not treat me well and was a total junkie!!! I had a selfless, sweet, handsome guy looking right at me, but because of MY own insecurities, i was only able to see the guy who didn't treat me right... now he could have drawn all sorts of conclusions- that I didn't have interest in him, that we would NEVER be together... But once I did a bit of healing work on myself, I was able to see the love that was in front of me! We ended up getting married and having a child together! let me tell you, no one would have predicted that!!! but you see, your answers only begin to become clearer as you begin to work on yourself, until then you will stay in this fog

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posted April 14, 2016 02:59 PM            

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What an inspiring story! And yes you do speak the truth

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posted April 14, 2016 10:25 PM            

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he has ignored me off and on for a week. So I do feel a lack of interest if he's being this way. If he is in fact interested, when will he reach out to me and when will things start to be consistent like they were?

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posted April 14, 2016 10:54 PM            

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I cannot tell you exactly when because it depends on many factors, just know that when yours and his energies are in the right place you guys will be brought together... I see him being annoyed in general right now, consider it a blessing that you aren't communicating with him, lol!

I do see you guys meeting again at some point, but don't sit around and wait for it to happen either!! Do some great things for yourself and let him go be grumpy and when he is in a better place let things unfold

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posted April 16, 2016 11:08 AM            

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Sometimes, ignoring actually means he's interested.

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posted April 16, 2016 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Sometimes, ignoring actually means he's interested.

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I have never heard of that....normally ignoring means not interested

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