posted April 14, 2016 05:58 PM            

I feel that things will be okay. I am sorry that he hurt you, but I think he is confused and in a panic. The fact that he still wrote you after he deleted you is positive in the sense that he still wants to talk. I think to be honest, missing out on your life and giving himself a hard time is more likely the cause of the deletion. Not trying to hide something away from you.

posted April 14, 2016 06:00 PM            

41. Reduction

Reduction.
Have confidence,
it is a source of good fortune.
Without fault,
it allows for persistence.
It is beneficial to have a goal to move to.
How to do this?
Two bamboo bowls are suitable to be used for sacrifice.

There is a reduction of something. It is not a real problem, one can use this situation to one's advantage and go on. It's a good idea to have a plan. One can well do with something more simple.

(Changing lines are not relevant here, as there are too many.)

Hexagram is changing to:

63. Already Across

Already across.
Progressing.
Little benefit in persisting.
At first good fortune,
eventually disorder.

posted April 14, 2016 06:00 PM            

I will put a post up to keep everyone who helped updated.

posted April 14, 2016 06:02 PM            

changing to
24 36
24. Return

Line 3:

Urgently returning,
danger.
Without fault.

posted April 14, 2016 06:04 PM            

2. Land

Land.
A foundation for progress.
Beneficial is the persistence of a mare.
The noble one has a goal to move to.
Being confused at first,
later acquiring mastery.
It is beneficial that companionship is gained in the southwest,
companionship is lost in the northeast.
Calm persistence brings good fortune.

There is a new potential, for you to develop. At first you'll not know your way, but you'll gain a handle on the situation and eventually master it. Just calmly proceed. It is beneficial to make partners and allies, and not to move on with people who have different interests.
(At the original place and time of the I Ching, allies were in the southwest, territory they wanted to conquer was in the northeast.)

posted April 14, 2016 06:53 PM            

So the Reduction was the deleting of FB, the Already Across is essentially him freaking out and realizing that bad times are already over.

The Return is that he wants you in his life.

The Land is that things will stabilize. (I feel the fact that throw also acknowledges companionship is also good.)

I feel that though it's not good that he deleted you on FB. It is more because he has not completely admitted how he feels about you to you. This outburst in some ways shows how he feels, he cares, and a lot. Though it also shows he is not completely ready emotionally. I feel that in the end it is not as bad as it seems. What is important, is the Return and Land which suggests to me that things will be fine in the end. You will remain level headed and have the foresight to see it through. Plus, we are all here for you and rooting for it to work out!

posted April 15, 2016 12:25 AM            

Does he know how much you care? I can't imagine that if he knew he would want to hurt you. Could you tell him somehow about it?

I feel that it's best not to react to him though it's painful. It's best to take some space and take care of yourself.

posted April 15, 2016 12:33 AM            

I had a thought maybe his ex is back in the picture and she threw a fit. So he deleted me to avoid drama. She was mean to him.

posted April 15, 2016 12:48 AM            

I feel that more will reveal itself. I feel that you have been patient for so long that it seems like this is the last straw. However, I feel that you were happy about how it was progressing so it seems that to let it go over something like this would be sad. Though I understand as well. I am sorry I don't have any better news.

posted April 15, 2016 02:20 AM            

If you have more questions, I am here. I also have cards but I use them less now, so my interpretations may not be as accurate as with I ching.

Maybe check in with Leeloo? She is my go to besides you. Her leonormand deck has been eerily accurate without her knowing but on my side.

posted April 15, 2016 06:58 AM            

I mostly now feel disappointed in him and hurt by his action no matter how trivial it is, he singled me out not someone else but me.

Before this happened he was saying about coming from aborad for a short trip. We were excited to see eachother, ( in May)

posted April 15, 2016 03:51 PM            

Then I threw and this is what I got.

--

changing to
25 10
25. Without Pretense

Line 2:

Not plowing yields uncultivated land.
Thus, it is beneficial to have a goal to move to.

posted April 15, 2016 04:00 PM            

I feel that what it says above about talking is square on. That is, not talking or avoiding conflict doesn't really help you get closer to a relationship. What you want is a relationship. You want the two of you to be together.

10 or Treading speaks about walking on a tiger's tail, but that it won't bite you. So you needn't worry about things changing his feelings. He still feels the same.

I feel that it is important for you to let him know he hurt you, but without fighting or nagging. It is important for him to know that you want to build a relationship on caring and being there for each other not hiding.

This does not seem possible at the moment, but you will figure out a way to do it. I feel that you will find a way to teach each other how to be there for each other and stop cycles or patterns of hurt.

Have you looked to see where each other's Chiron's are?

posted April 15, 2016 04:06 PM            

Yesterday in the midst of all this I h
Got bad news about a death.
I told him this. His reply was short. A "😳"
So I mean what does one say to this.
Its like he wants to talk but he doesnt say anything.

posted April 16, 2016 02:40 PM            

I feel like things will slowly reveal themselves. Take it easy. It's a long time coming.