posted April 17, 2016 12:57 AM            

I asked why it is so difficult to move on from a certain guy; he is only guy that I've ever thought about nonstop. I usually have a little better control, but not about him.

1. Why we parted ways- Queen Of Wands
I was afraid to get a court here because I think maybe he wanted someone else? Maybe we both wanted more passion and feelings.

2. Why it's hard for me to move on from him- 6 Of Cups
So I don't know if this is saying it's hard for me to move on because he's my soulmate (which this card is often referred to as) OR if he was a past soulmate who needed to sort out karma in this life but not stay.

3. What exactly am I waiting for? 8 Of Swords
I think I'm waiting for clarity.

4. What do I feel about him now? Reversed Sun
He did show his mean side which shocked me since he seemed like he was too nice to ever be so hurtful.

5 Spirit's message about this- Reversed 7 Of Swords
I shouldn't ignore advice from people who know more about a sticky situation than I do. Spirit wants me to listen.

posted April 17, 2016 01:06 AM            

Sorry to say but probably because you were way too confident and straightforward for him. I know the Queen isn't reversed but when upright she's very bossy anyway.

2. Why it's hard for me to move on from him- 6 Of Cups
Because you are remembering the good things. Have you seen 500 Days of Summer and how Tom only remembers Summer in this warm and fuzzy light? It could also be hard because you felt like he was actually your friend.

3. What exactly am I waiting for? 8 Of Swords
I think I'm waiting for clarity. << I agree with that, or the truth, or him not to be afraid of stepping up to the plate.

4. What do I feel about him now? Reversed Sun
He did show his mean side which shocked me since he seemed like he was too nice to ever be so hurtful. << Agreed more or less. You're hurt so you don't feel as positive or happy towards him.

5 Spirit's message about this- Reversed 7 Of Swords

8 of Swords and RX 7 of Swords - wake up and smell the coffee, Sunshine (hence the RX Sun as well. Aside from the place it was drawn it indicates avoidance of the truth or going into hiding / holding back / being blinded)

6. Spirit's love advice about the situation and signs to look for regarding the advice- 5 Of Wands