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Topic: Can anyone help?
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MillyX Knowflake Posts: 1909 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 25, 2016 11:22 AM
Hey all! I asked this guy out, told him I liked him and we went on 3 dates. We were supposed to see each other yesterday but heard nothing from him. In person we talk alot but he doesn't text me at all. He'll sometimes go days without talking to me and I'm the one always initiating the dates.I would like to know: Is B into me and does he want a relationship with me? Out of all the guys I have dated, he is the most distant and I just don't want to catch deeper feelings for someone that doesn't feel the same. I'm also very tired of being the one who puts in all the effort, my past relationships have been like that & I will walk away if history repeats itself. IP: Logged |
imeanj Knowflake Posts: 2162 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 25, 2016 12:02 PM
I feel like you already know the answer, but are avoiding listening or trusting your inner voice? Listen to it! I remember you being a giving and good reader. Also, men are strange birds they like to initiate and lead. The thrill of the chase or hunt, even if that isn't happen you have to make them think its their idea. Though I am sure you know this already!I will confirm though with a reading, perhaps we will get a different answer? Be right back. Please do not quote. IP: Logged |
imeanj Knowflake Posts: 2162 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 25, 2016 12:11 PM
So actually, your initiating is working just fine I stand corrected. However, make sure you let him make some moves and they go according to his speed. Let him do the pacing. If things happen too quickly then you will lose him/relationship.Also to note, there are no changing lines. So this aspect of you initiating in the relationship will not change. And you may always feel a little tinsy bit off kilter or insecure about it. However, I feel you can do great as long as you are aware of how he is doing or communicate with him about it. May I ask do you have Venus in Mars in Leo or another fire sign? Again please no quoting! -- 19. Approach Approach. A foundation for progress. It is beneficial to persist. Arriving in the eighth month will bring misfortune. Approaching someone. This will help progress, it is a good idea to persevere. It's not so beneficial if it happens prematurely, though. (The eighth month refers to premature birth of a baby.) (No changing lines.)
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MillyX Knowflake Posts: 1909 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 25, 2016 03:06 PM
Thanks Imeanj! I feel like the roles are reversed between the two of us, I feel like I have the masculine energy & he has the feminine energy. He is also a shy person, younger than me (he is 18 & I'm 22) also very inexperienced. And yes I do have mars in a fire sign, Sagittarius. My mars is exactly conjunct my sun which makes me very impatient. I guess I am used to having things rushed in relationships. I have always been in 'fast lane' relationships meaning we do the kissing, sex etc. very early on but it also burns out quickly too and this is the first time that I'm with a guy who is slowly taking his time. IP: Logged |
imeanj Knowflake Posts: 2162 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 25, 2016 03:47 PM
Well maybe let him lead and do the pacing. Especially if he is shy let him come around. It will be nice for you too. Might drive you a bit crazy in the process but then perhaps he's a keeper!Good luck and happy for you. Keep me updated. IP: Logged |