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Topic: Death in chart
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Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted April 22, 2016 08:41 PM
Is there something in my chart that causes me to feel like I want to die? Before you tell "Hey suicide its not the solution blabla", I want you all to know that I love life, I have the most amazing girlfriend wich is also my twinflame, 4 dogs that love me, a fulfilling life to be honest. Im a very spiritual person also, very intuitive. I can feel people, feel certain things before happening. Yet, I have this strage feeling and wish sometimes that I would die. It hits me in the strangest moments. I was thinking, it might be something in my chart. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6417 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 22, 2016 09:08 PM
Hey there, Gundahar! I stumbled upon your post, and I wasn't sure why. I'm very sorry that you're feeling a deep anhedonia. I'm curious, too -- you say you've found your twin flame. That seems pretty incredible, right? Rather exceptional and super rare? IP: Logged |
Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted April 22, 2016 09:36 PM
Hey there! I don't think I have anhedonia, I enjoy every little things in life, im a very positive person, I am not depressed. I had a rough childhood tho, abuse by my father, constantly telling me I am not good, but I turned into the opposite of him. I had drug problems too, I went trough 2 withdrawals, BY MYSELF! No professional help. Everything bad I went trough I embraced and learned from it. I love life And I dont think my wish for death is caused by some hidden childhood trauma in the subconcious or something, im over it. Everything is perfectly fine with me psychologically, and spiritually too, otherwise I would feel something is wrong, I always do. I dont know when I will reach this psychic or shaman again, not very soon anyways.And yes, I found her and its truly amazing! First time I met her, was an instant connection! We are opposites but share so many similarities, especially details from our lives, things we went trough, our parents and best friends are the same signs, have the same problems, we are drawn by the same things, we feel eachother, the state of mind and spirit, we feel everything! I feel even her pain and she feels mine. I felt some hidden bad things in her life that she did not see, and helped her out. We grew so much in so many ways since we met this summer. We visit eachother on the astral very often, sometimes we dream the same things. I went to a psychic and shaman for insights, and I have so many past lives with her. Its so amazing and so many things happened I could write a book about it. Also, I experience the split-soul, she actually posted about this too I wonder, it might be because these two other parts of my soul represent the way I expressed before, intellectually and verbally (Andreas) and the attitude I had (Andras) ? These things are the only one that frustrate me but still, they dont stand in the way of my happiness. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/005090.html But its so weird tho, why do I feel like it? I still dont understand IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 4500 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted April 22, 2016 09:39 PM
Gundaharyou might want to read about the Sigmund Freud's theory on Death Wish, or Death Drive, or "Todestrieb" in German. It's about out innate drive to die, sometimes expressed more strongly in some people than in others. He says that the death wish is in all of us, sometimes expressed in self destructive behaviour ( reckless driving, smoking, drinking, etc), or on a more mundane level - we all have felt it when we stand up close to a cliff edge and look down, there is this very quick and passing thought of - "what if I just jump and fall to my death", but at the same time our survival instinct comes to rescue and pulls us away from the edge.
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Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted April 22, 2016 10:03 PM
Hey Orange! You know, I always was an adrenaline junkie, I did skydiving, dirtbike, I like the idea of living on the edge. I cheated death 8 times so far, trough accidents mostly. I was never afraid of death, since I was a kid. But I dropped this lifestyle 1 year ago when I had the last accident with my bike and hit my leg very bad. I was a few inches away of hiting my head to a pointy rock. Weirdly, I hurt my leg, and this winter I found out I have bone cancer, located in the same leg... A sign maybe? It's alright tho, surgery is on the way.IP: Logged |
llewsacm Knowflake Posts: 335 From: Cleveland, Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2015
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posted April 22, 2016 11:01 PM
Gundahar, how far back did this start? Within the past year or has it been consistent since adolescence? IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5973 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 22, 2016 11:12 PM
Maybe you just unconsciously long to go back where you came from.IP: Logged |
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 462 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014
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posted April 23, 2016 04:29 AM
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Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted April 23, 2016 05:03 AM
llewsacm, im 25y old now, this started around... 16-17, but as years passed, it happened more often. Psychologists say that I am ok, even tho wishing to die and not being afraid to die is not normal.athenegoddess, I guess so, my inner self is tired I guess. Im an old soul, I know it and feel like I dont belong in this society and new world, not even this planet. In nature I feel at home tho. It might be an inner call somewhere, back to the roots. ilunatique IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 17441 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 23, 2016 09:32 AM
Gundahar, so sorry to hear you have bone cancer.My chart is similar to yours, our ASCs are conjunct. I have Pisces filling my 8H. I can relate to what you are saying. I prefer to just take whatever comes and relax. The hysteria generated around the whole idea of dying is scarier to me than death itself. If I got cancer, I like to think I would handle it with acceptance, grace, and humor, the way you are handling it. Best wishes though. And please do try and stick around, because life is good. And you've only made 18 posts here. Not enough. IP: Logged |
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 462 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014
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posted April 25, 2016 03:50 PM
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athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5973 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 25, 2016 06:50 PM
I feel the same way. In nature I feel really happy especially in remote areas away from the noise. I want to leave too but people like us are needed here to help. Many are depending on someone to make a spiritual change and bring our divine self on earth to eliminate the lie the same way Jesus did. He said his mission isn't yet complete and others would come after him to bring God back to earth. So as much as you feel bad, don't let it kill you because you have a purpose for being here... At times if may feel like the struggle may succeed in killing you so like it has so many. But just trust and be strong. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 64700 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 25, 2016 08:46 PM
This Forum is for synastries. Moving this to Personal Readings.IP: Logged |
Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted April 26, 2016 04:44 PM
@Faith Exactly! Death is not a punishment, its not erasing, eliminating something, is returning to the primordial form (energy), back to the roots and continue our ascension.Positiveness and humor are one of the best medicine around! It may sound hyporithical for some, but I laughed about my cancer, made jokes. I don't think is a death sentence or a burden for me, but a warning, a wake up sign in some way. Thank you kindly for your nice words @athene Thats so very true! People like me, you, all around these forums and around the world that are awaken spiritually, are here for a reason. To take humanity to a next step, somewhere we forgot about... within us, our hearts To bring harmony into this new world, go back in sync with the source. Thank you! IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 17441 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 27, 2016 09:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gundahar: @Faith Exactly! Death is not a punishment, its not erasing, eliminating something, is returning to the primordial form (energy), back to the roots and continue our ascension.Positiveness and humor are one of the best medicine around! It may sound hyporithical for some, but I laughed about my cancer, made jokes. I don't think is a death sentence or a burden for me, but a warning, a wake up sign in some way. Thank you kindly for your nice words
My pleasure, and I know exactly what you mean. If I ever get diagnosed with cancer, I have my reaction planned out! You doctors with your sad faces won't control me! I'm gonna laugh in defiance of your over-seriousness! We are eternal after all, I do believe that. Yes....laugh, enjoy, love and heal. Trust God. It's all anyone can do. *Hug* IP: Logged |
KoreAbyss Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Apr 2016
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posted April 28, 2016 09:07 AM
I once read "The reason we love the ocean is because we long to go home."How fitting for Pisces, no? Death is the acceptance back to wholeness. Like in astrology we see the cross of matter chopping us into parts, it is our cross to bear like Jesus bore the cross, you see the symbolism. Life is pain. It is natural to look forward to sleep after a hard day just as it is natural to look forward to death at the end of a hard life. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 28, 2016 12:08 PM
In my opinion the Sun/Jupiter conjunction in Cancer in opposition with Saturn in Capricorn can possibly be the reason/one of the reasons. Generally speaking, Sun/Jupiter (especially together!) represents the "sunny", bright, positive side of life and Saturn represents dark thoughts, depression, death, etc. Opposition is always a very intense energy, both in a good and bad way. This can mean that when you are in a good mood (thanks to the Cancer placements you can be moody) you are grateful for everything your have and appreciate all the good things in life, but once the Capricorn side of the opposition becomes dominant you wish you would die (Saturn is the anti life force, and since yours is in Capricorn, in its own sign, it's super influential). Just like the Moon (the ruling planet of Cancer) is always waxing and waning, always changing brightness and shape, you experience these negative thoughts coming in waves. Btw, one of my close friends has almost the same natal chart, I suppose (from the placement of the Moon) that she was born two weeks earlier than you. She suffers from the very same issue. IP: Logged |
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 462 From: neptune Registered: Jun 2014
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posted April 29, 2016 01:50 PM
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aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 366 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 01, 2016 04:12 PM
You could have also had some kind of Pluto transit going on too. IP: Logged |
Gundahar Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Moon Registered: Aug 2015
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posted May 02, 2016 07:46 AM
@koreabyss Beautifuly said. Its very true, wanting to escape this plane and go back to the source, its like being in a foreign country for too long and getting homesick.@diamondbaby Hey that was a big eye opener, thank you very much! I am very cappy when it comes to matters like this. Thank you very much for your insight!! @ilunatique thank you for everything, for being here, for showing me what true love is @aquagembaby Pluto in Capricorn in this period, no wonder. I would like to thank all of you for these responses, truly a morale booster. Yet I thought alot about whats happening, and I will go one last time to live on the edge, my inner self craves for that. I will go bungee or skidiving next week, wish me luck, its now or never! Im thinking also to take a deep datura trip, but this time go intense, anything that makes feel that kind of "alive" when you are between that thin line life/death. Much love IP: Logged | |