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posted April 27, 2016 01:01 PM            

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Hi!

Figured I'd start a different thread for our conversation. I don't really have any questions right now, but I'd be glad to tryvand answer 1 or 2 for you.

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posted April 27, 2016 01:07 PM            

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Thanks!

I have an interview Monday and wondering how it will go and if they will offer the job to me with the amount of money I need to make.

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posted April 27, 2016 04:17 PM            

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Feels like it will go well but that there may be some negotiation between your desired salary and their offering bid. Dont be afraid to haggle a bit.

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posted April 27, 2016 04:49 PM            

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Thank you. I'm afraid that what I need to make might be more than what they want to pay but will stick to my guns for sure!

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posted April 27, 2016 08:32 PM            

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Can I ask 1 last question.. with everything that's happened with R, I don't feel like dating which I'm ok with. It's not a good thing for me right now so I reached out to F Monday because I know him although it's been a couple of months since we've talked. What did he think of me contacting him and is he still wanting the NSA?

Thank you so much!!

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posted April 27, 2016 09:24 PM            

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I totally get where you're coming from here (and for what tiny bit it may or may not be worth, I'm really proud for you - having the self-awareness to make that conscious decision)

I like F's energy. So yes, and as long as you keep your head and heart in check and keep in mind exactly what this is, I think this will be a great, fun and fulfilling arrangement for both of you.

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posted April 27, 2016 09:29 PM            

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Thank you. I'm still very sad about R and knowing that even if he were to come back it may be years....I was a bit shocked to hear that but I needed to. Others have said within 3 months but I don't want false hope...

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posted April 27, 2016 09:31 PM            

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I know honey, and I understand. My 'spidey sense' is not science, but I'll never deal in false hope - it's not fair and it hurts. (((HUGS)))

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posted April 27, 2016 10:02 PM            

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And I appreciate that A LOT! Although I do hope it's in the 3 month time frame....I just feel like there is a pull there for me for some reason. I try to not think about him, but it's difficult....it's like I want him to realize he misses me and contact me, like I would and want to with him. Or remember that I have surgery tomorrow and check up on me....wishful thinking

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posted May 02, 2016 06:17 PM            

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wanted to let you know, R reached out to me today. Is it possible for you to read and see why he reached out to me, what is the real purpose? He contacted then disappeared again.....

Thanks!

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posted May 02, 2016 06:28 PM              

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wanted to let you know, R reached out to me today. Is it possible for you to read and see why he reached out to me, what is the real purpose? He contacted then disappeared again.....

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posted May 02, 2016 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
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what?

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posted May 02, 2016 07:13 PM              

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Originally posted by dustib:
what?

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just that he reached out

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posted May 02, 2016 07:23 PM            

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I was very shocked as well! Honestly didn't expect it but don't know what his intentions are either....

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posted May 02, 2016 08:06 PM            

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miss...are you able to see/feel why he reached out and what his intentions are?

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posted May 07, 2016 12:29 PM            

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bump for Lost....so R contacted me the other day and we talked pretty much all day long then he did his famous disappearing act the next day. Why did he even contact me? It is a game he's playing to see if I will respond but he's not interested? Thanks!

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posted May 07, 2016 12:43 PM            

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bump for Lost....so R contacted me the other day and we talked pretty much all day long then he did his famous disappearing act the next day. Why did he even contact me? It is a game he's playing to see if I will respond but he's not interested? Thanks!

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Hi dustib!

I hate to say, but it feels to me like he had some extra time on his hands so he reached out. I don't want to say it was a reaction to boredom because that sounds so cruel...but it's what it feels like. I don't much care for his energy in general. I'm sorry..

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posted May 07, 2016 01:24 PM            

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Hi dustib!

I hate to say, but it feels to me like he had some extra time on his hands so he reached out. I don't want to say it was a reaction to boredom because that sounds so cruel...but it's what it feels like. I don't much care for his energy in general. I'm sorry..

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Kind of what I thought but hoped I was wrong. He's just not interested and it's a game.

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posted May 07, 2016 01:31 PM            

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Kind of what I thought but hoped I was wrong. He's just not interested and it's a game.

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He feels very shallow, self-obsessed - all flash, zero substance. So in this case, it truly isn't you; it's him. Being completely candid, he's no big loss to you or any woman. At. All.

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posted May 07, 2016 01:43 PM            

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Hello LT,

I lover your insight on things they always seem to resonate. WOuld you like to do few exchanges? If so, I will start a new thread so not to disturb dustis.

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posted May 07, 2016 01:45 PM            

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We can give it a try HV.

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posted May 08, 2016 10:50 AM            

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He feels very shallow, self-obsessed - all flash, zero substance. So in this case, it truly isn't you; it's him. Being completely candid, he's no big loss to you or any woman. At. All.

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Thank you. I am friends with him on facebook and I see what he's adding....I say what because most of these women you can tell are strippers and have no class. I am learning to let it all go and move on because that is not what I need or want in m life. Maybe one day I'll meet a good guy....

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posted May 10, 2016 09:20 AM            

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LT, do you have any questions?

I was wondering: I decided to send R a message last night and just said that I hope he finds what he's looking for and that I was done. And I truly was giving myself closure. He responded that he's been busy and I told him I get that but I also know that people make time for who and what they want and he's already proven to me that he can do that but that I wasn't asking for that, that I was just telling him how I felt and moving on. So he texted me most of the night and I told him that I never wanted more than what he could or would do but that by ignoring me, it has prompted me to let go and move on. So...is he just in the moment again and will disappear again tomorrow or in a few days? We texted a few times this morning, I asked how he was and he told me but didn't ask back so figured there was no need to continue the conversation.

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