posted April 30, 2016 09:23 AM            

As I stated, a lot has been going on in my life since I have last been on this site. It's a bit of an up and down thing, meaning some good and some bad, but that's life. Overall, mostly good things have happened.

I am at a point in my life where I am slightly confused as which step to take next. I was in a relationship with someone named B, but he broke things off and eventually we decided to take things slow. Somewhere between that my feelings for him started to lessen and I believe now he is wanting more. Then there are two other people that are interested in me, J and B. I work with J, but B is someone I met elsewhere.

The thing is, I met another J, but not to cause confusion I will use his initials as JS. This person and I met and the connection was something different. I really like him, but he has pulled back a lot from what I've noticed. And I don't know what's happening.

Is he not interested in talking to me anymore? Or is does it has to do with something else that doesn't involve me and he plans to reach out again soon?

I've never been in a situation like this before and I didn't know what steps to take next. As I mentioned, JS is the person that I am interested in, but I'm not sure what will happen.

posted April 30, 2016 11:45 AM            

I feel that JS is a very inward person, a pretty mysterious and weird one...
the kind that gives you a chocolate piece promising the rest, but runs off after, letting you just with a bit of taste.

I literally got a headache when i focused on him more. He has so much negative energy stuck in him. You know, relationships are all about helping you learn a lesson and help you become a more evolved spirit. What you attract or are attracted to is mirroring you. You most probably have to resolve some personal negative issues of yours that could be seen in a way in this JS. Or there is some kind of mutual karma that has to be resolved.

He gives me such a capricornian vibe, with a bit of that freaky aqua mix. Deep down he is a prisoner and the stress caused by a personal situation of him continues to grow in him. The more he shakes the bars to free himself, the greater pressure becomes. He has so many issues with himself that holds him back.

Focusing more on him, i believe its more of an existential crisis, a retreat right now that was born from past negative experiences. He has to find his own way, he has to find himself in order to solve his issues. All the solutions are found within himself. In the same time, JS comes across as kind of twisted to me, with hidden intentions. I dont really like this.

I'll come back and try to feel you two together and i'll write what i see

posted April 30, 2016 11:49 AM            

Ever thought why all people try to find the ONE? The perfect ONE... They look and look... but in reality no one tries to be the perfect one for someone else

I myself went through relationships, that taught me all kinds of lessons. But i was smart enough to realize what was the lesson, and I grew. I now found my twinflame, after so many lessons and horrible painful times. We are so similar but complimentary, and we still help ourselves learn all kinds of stuff, but this is going to be forever, we are inseparable

posted April 30, 2016 11:58 AM            

When you say that he is mirroring me, can you explain that a bit more because I'm not quite sure I understand.

He does own his own store, so that could be where some of this stress is coming from on his end.

posted April 30, 2016 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by ilunatique:
The mirroring thing, I explained it above.

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Oh sorry, I see that now. Lol. My fault.

posted April 30, 2016 12:20 PM            

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ProxyxBlue:
Oh sorry, I see that now. Lol. My fault.

Do you believe once we are both at a balanced place among ourselves that we will come together?

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POSSIBLY, but you need to have patience. What I get is

NOT NOW
NOT GOOD
WAIT

posted April 30, 2016 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ilunatique:

POSSIBLY, but you need to have patience. What I get is

NOT NOW
NOT GOOD
WAIT

You need to wait, and first focus on yourself. Give him space. If it has to happen, it will. Just WAIT, if it has to happen, it will naturally, if not, wait some more.

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I understand I know for this sort of thing I do need patience, which is something I have to learn to develop. As my last relationship with B, everything moved very quickly. There was no need for patience, but because everything happened quickly things died out a few months later. I feel that things with JS will move at a slowly pace, this is something I felt for a while. I wouldn't be surprised if things as far as a relationship happening, doesn't happen until late this summer. As I am fine with that, but I just didn't know how things were going to get there judging how things are now, with him not talking to me much lately.