posted May 15, 2016 06:06 PM            

Mine: How will TF respond to the email I sent earlier today? (insight: it's work- and project-related, not personal)

posted May 15, 2016 06:14 PM            

It feels like you've tended toward a bit of self-imposed isolation these last months but that you're finally sort of playing with the idea of getting back out and socializing a bit. Feels like you may fear just a little that your friends won't 'accept you back in' - they will.

Look for opportunities to engage in outdoor activities - cookouts, bonfires, and anything to do with water. Feels like a summer romance relative to water is out there for you. It doesn't feel especially serious at all, but will be a lot of fun and a huge ego-booster.

I like this vibe, so if this resonates at all I'd encourage you to follow it!

posted May 15, 2016 07:13 PM            

It's nice to know that about friends, good. Yes, I'm getting a bit more social right now and looking for opportunities to do something fun.
Something to do with water, hmm... interesting, it might be some summer activity or something.
Well some summer romance sounds great . Let's see...

My answer to your question:
Is TF a man? I am going to assume it's a man or this person has a manly energy since I got the king of wands.
He has received it with much enthusiasm and interest; then he has read it attentively, but as if blocking or holding back how he feels about it. I think he didn't want to interfere in it with his own thought. He might just have been keeping his feelings in a safe place, as someone who would simply read an article or a piece of news by routine.
Finally I think he didn't properly understand the general idea of it, he doesn't know how to feel about it. It has led him to be confused as to what it's purpose was and where it led. He probably thought it was unclear, impractical or hard to materialise. Probably too 'fantastic' even.
I asked whether he'd be happy about it and I got a negative response. I don't think he is very happy about it, I'm sorry lost Taurus.

posted May 16, 2016 06:51 AM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Lol...it's okay!! It's a project (pretty sizable) that I'm developing, and I had to sort of 'put him to the wall' in committing to his company having a role in it or not. I know the potential of the project and I know its potential value to his brand. But I also know he tends to drag his feet a bit and this is time-sensitive. He's in or he's out. Either way, my project happens.

Thank you

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posted May 16, 2016 07:28 AM            

So what the theme of this reading is socializing. I think you will be socializing and just go to places. Could be you will be trying to socialize and trying to meet new people.

So I see that you're in the reading and you're next to a house so I think that this means there is something about socializing that you either want to feel comfortable doing or that this is something comfortable that you feel like doing.
I also see that you're looking for something permanent and it has to do with love and being caring.. This could mean for a relationship, a long term love that doesn't fall apart in one day.

So when I put it together, you're looking for something that is stable, that is permanent. I'm thinking that you're looking.. For right now.

So when you're socializing and meeting new people you may end up meeting someone that makes you feel comfortable around then, that will make you feel safe and that this person would be loving and caring towards you.. Unless it would be safe, stable and very loving feelings between you and someone else.

Anchor - woman - house - heart

posted May 16, 2016 08:11 AM            

There's an overall theme of a 'time out' and taking some time for your own healing. This is emphasized very strongly. But it's really good that you're coming back out again and socialising. Just remember to pay attention to your needs and most important, clarify what it is that you really want. Maybe write a list if you have to, as clinical as that sounds. There's no time limit on this, by the way. I hope you're not feeling that you have to rush out and find someone. The important thing most of all is that you become the best version of you. And to be open to whatever comes, trying not to have expectations. Like when you said you think you won't find someone 'like him' well, what if you met someone better? You never know. So maybe it means not to put limits on what it is that you want and are looking for.

Having said that, I'm not getting a message that Mr Wonderful is going to magically show up next month . I'm thinking that this means the emphasis is on you, feeling better and having a good time. Take care of yourself and have fun next month. It will be good.

posted May 16, 2016 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Sikanda:
Okay so that was the vibe of the card in the end (8 of cups), that he doesn't know whether he'd be able to fulfil your expectations. That's why he didn't like your message . I got a 5 of pentacles, so he felt left out.
I only said it was too fantastic or impractical because those are things this card can refer to and I didn't have much context. But thank you for clarifying it to me .

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I can definitely see where the magnitude of this project could seem intimidating to him, so I get the "fantastic or impractical" influence. The reality is that, if he wants his brand to expand like he says he does - and in the direction he says he does - this content is exactly what he's looking for. He probably did feel a bit 'left out' because I said in the email, "I'm giving you first right options, but I'm doing this project whether you opt in or not." While I suspect that stung, it had to be said.

All of that to say this: very insightful and makes complete sense. Thanks very much Sikanda! If I can help again, let me know.

posted May 16, 2016 10:37 AM            

You know what, each of you picked up well a side of the situation. So it makes sense.

Ilovepoems

On the one hand, I am definitely trying to go to places, meet people and have fun. Yes, socialising. Although finding people that would genuinely appreciate me and "take care" of me has been present in my life for quite some time now (not necessarily as a boyfriend, but since the guy that I loved did separate from me, yes, I would appreciate a person who would always be there for me). Stable relationships for me are very important because they have helped some aspects of myself to flourish. I do have this kind of interactions at work and I feel very comfortable there, so you might have picked that up too.

Magikaal

posted May 16, 2016 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
The garden in the middle can talk about work as well, but I thought it would mean socializing, hanging with friends.. Meeting that special person I would think you will meet someone but talking to people since the heart was shown on the right side and some people think it would talk about the future but I also got the feeling that it talked about what you're looking for deep down.

If you're up for it, what is the connection between me and E.L.W.? Anything you get.

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Yep, I think a lot about meeting that special someone . And I like meeting people far beyond appearances, good-hearted people, that's what I need to establish deeper connections. So you were right about that too.

Sure, here is my answer.

I get you are both disappointed about the connection itself and about where it is leaded right now. You don't know which way it could it go, or whether it's worth even trying.
You feel like your emotions are disengaged, not open to the other, and still you don't want to invest much in it anyway, for you know nothing of value can come out of it.
You don't know whether to risk it and face whatever the truth it is about the connection or to continue in doubt and stuck in it.