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dustib
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posted May 20, 2016 10:34 AM
  
hate to bother you but didn't know if you had had time to do the charts for R and myself. Also, did you have any more questions? Thanks! IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 20, 2016 11:38 AM
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Originally posted by dustib:
hate to bother you but didn't know if you had had time to do the charts for R and myself. Also, did you have any more questions? Thanks!
Hi dustib, I don't know if you are gonna believe that, but honestly I started looking at them earlier today and will be back with some first observations later ! Hope you understand, no problem and you didn't bother me at all, I didn't forget you! 
I have no questions at the moment, but maybe in the next days, haha, who knows? Thanks very much for asking!
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dustib
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posted May 20, 2016 01:02 PM
completely understand! And feel free to ask anything anytime!Thank you IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 21, 2016 05:53 AM
Ok, dustib, so sorry about the delay, here are some first observations about his chart! His chart 
His Sun is in Leo in his 10th house : So R as a leo might be generous and warm, might also like being the center of attention, and loves life, drama, creativity etc., but the fact that his sun is in his 10th house might indicate that his career might be really important in his life. Is he career-oriented? This might also mean he is a bit materialistic, really wants to achieve his goals in that area and loves social status, money etc.
Mars in Cancer could mean that he is a bit slow in his reactions, maybe he doesn't like changes. This might manifest as passive-aggressive behaviors as well, does any of this resonate? He might also be over-sensitive and closed up and over-protective of his self (or others). This might also manifest as manipulative tendencies or emotional bursts.
Mars in his 10th house : The importance of his career in his life might be also highlighted a bit by the fact that his Mars is in the 10th house, too. This might be his main focus. There is also a possibility that he is a bit conservative with money, although the fact that he has Sun and Mercury in Leo might balance this out.
Venus in Virgo in 11th house : Venus in Virgo is known for being rather picky and this creates some problems to her "owners" so to speak. The fact that Venus is in the 11th house might complicate things a bit, since this gives him some aquarian traits, as well. He might be really detached, logical, reasonable and analyze many things through his mind mostly. This is because Virgo is ruled by Mercury, plus the 11th house is an air house, too. His needs for space are increased, he might have detachment tendencies and can really appreciate cleanliness, schedule etc. in a woman. He might also appreciate really clever women, with feminine looks and hard-working, too.
Venus in Virgo might suggest he is a bit shy, too. He needs time to adjust and digest romantic situations and when overwhelmed, he might be totally "off" or be very critical and hard to tolerate, lol.
Mercury in Leo in 11th house : He might come across as a "know-it-all" or might have a really special style of communicating. But of course, again the fact that Mercury is in 11th house highlights the detachment tendencies and might "shy down" his leo side a bit, too. On the other hand, he might be rather persuasive and warm, good-willed, proud of his ideas and opinions and self-expression might be rather important to him.
His Moon in Pisces in 5th house : This man has rather contradictory parts of his character, as it seems. Moon in pisces is a super-sensitive moon. And the fact this is in his 5th house, leo house, might add some dramatic or exaggerative tendencies, as well. May I ask what kind of work he does? He has a rather creative side, as it seems. His 5th house Moon means he has an emotional need to create or hobbies might be a central part of his life. Does he behave as a drama queen sometimes? lol. He might also be a risk-taker or even an occasional gambler.
On the other hand, his Moon in Pisces is about hypersensitivity with others and/or himself, too. He might be really compassionate and understanding and also can be hurt rather easily. It's possible he daydreams often and has escapist tendencies, an active imagination is present as well. He might be more difficult to handle when he is stressed and needs a lot of emotional and nourishing support.
I will edit this post with the extra info I have gradually. I am really interested in your feedback, maybe I got something wrong, but I'll try to fix that depending on your feedback, ok?
Oh and I wanted to ask you, I took a glimpse in your synastry, do yu feel like your meeting was "fated" by any means or do you feel like an inexplicable pull to him from the first moment without knowing why?
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mar1982delta
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posted May 21, 2016 08:17 AM
Moreover, he has Sun trine Uranus, sun sextile Chiron and sun square Saturn.
Sun trine Uranus might indicate a person with a progressive mind, original thinking and a taste for outsiders, it can also give strong intuition.
On the other hand, sun square saturn might give him feelings of inadequacy, bad luck or struggling to accomplishing his goals. He might face challenges in his life, feel that he doesn;t get what he wants or he could also try to control his environment and/or others. He might crave for success and looking important to other people, at the same time he might be his own worst enemy, so to speak. He can have trouble dealing with failures and need to appear accomplished. He might even put too much pressure on himself and try to avoid others' harsh judgement.
Additionally, he has venus square uranus, which makes his venus a bit more difficult, too. He might have a need to break the rules, be unconventional etc. when it comes to love. He might behave like on and off in a relationship and confuse his partner. His need for freedom and loneliness, detachment etc. is highlighted, but he can also alienate his partners by behaving with a "I dont care what you do" attitude.
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dustib
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posted May 21, 2016 08:49 AM
wow! Ok yes his career and hobbies are the center for his life. His is very goal oriented when it comes to his career, he is a basketball coach after years of playing the sport himself. He is very detached and now it seems ****** at me bc I went out with friends last night, one grabbed my phone when playing pool and sent him a stupid text like it was from me so he's angry. I explained so it's on him to talk to me again or not. So yes you explained him perfectly! You asked if I felt a pull to him...yes! I would normally NEVER deal with this crap he's doing yet there is a pull there to him. I have only had that pull with 1 other person so it's frustrating to put up with this crap. I say put up with it....I am not putting my life on hold for him but I also haven't shut that door completely and that is the frustrating part! IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 21, 2016 09:00 AM
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Originally posted by dustib:
wow! Ok yes his career and hobbies are the center for his life. His is very goal oriented when it comes to his career, he is a basketball coach after years of playing the sport himself. He is very detached and now it seems ****** at me bc I went out with friends last night, one grabbed my phone when playing pool and sent him a stupid text like it was from me so he's angry. I explained so it's on him to talk to me again or not. So yes you explained him perfectly! You asked if I felt a pull to him...yes! I would normally NEVER deal with this crap he's doing yet there is a pull there to him. I have only had that pull with 1 other person so it's frustrating to put up with this crap. I say put up with it....I am not putting my life on hold for him but I also haven't shut that door completely and that is the frustrating part!
Oh, I am glead that it resonated but sad that yu get through it! But hang in there, try to deal with it calmly and a bit patiently, he seems like a weird personality after all. Of course I am not a professional, but this is what I get as a first impression from his chart, complicated and a bit odd, lol. I don't think this is going to end any time soon, except if you decide to cut it off completely! Since you said about this pull, I saw one particular aspect in your synastry, that's why I asked, this pull is so magnetic and inexplicable with logic, so I guess that's why you feel like you can't walk away, although he does things you wouldn't tolerate otherwise. I have experienced this particular aspect myself in a synastry, so that's why I can understand what you feel, at least partially! It's like a magnetic force, totally irresistible, intense passion mixed with strong feelings, too? Right from the start? This is the Vertex and I can find some links for you to learn more about it if you are interested.
Other than that, I'll try to add some things later today, but, as you probably already know natal and synastry interpretations need time, so that's why I can't rush and be back with concrete answers right now!  Although I would want to! So I hope you understand after I described the procedure for you, brb with more soon!
Thanks so much for the first feedback!
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