posted May 23, 2016 11:24 AM            

Will you have to move for this job: Cherries, butterfly and rabbit. Yes you will. Butterfly is about a transformation and the rabbit is positive.

Where are you moving: chair, lock, heart, train, spider. Are you applying places that are quite far from where you are now? There will some feelings that come up that make you rethink the moving because it does look a great distance from where you are right now. But this is going to be a positive for you because it is going to get rid of the feeling of being trapped.

When is this going to happen? I am not good at timing but will try! 23/mice which is a fast moving card so I think this is going to happen very soon.

posted May 23, 2016 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
for the DC job I got:

apple, angel and spider. The angel is about a message of good news but then the spider is about being tempted or distance. Is this job a distance from where you are now?

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posted May 23, 2016 07:29 PM            

Ru sure this is goodbye....I think he'll pop on real soon

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Originally posted by dustib:

did not see him tonight....he disappeared like he has done the past several times. I am cutting my loses and moving on. I just don't think he will ever change unfortunately and I can't do the games anymore from him. And that is what it feels like....

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posted May 23, 2016 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
There wasn't any message from him?

Ru sure this is goodbye....I think he'll pop on real soon

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posted May 23, 2016 07:34 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Yes. I'm in CO

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posted May 24, 2016 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Can I ask, when do you see him reaching out to me and if he does, will he be any different or the same as he is now with not being consistent or making time?

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posted May 24, 2016 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Ugh...will it ever change or am I wasting my time?

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posted May 24, 2016 01:02 PM            

Please excuse me for barging into this thread, but I wanted to share something with you. I recently experienced a relationship which is very similar to yours and got terribly fed up by the end. All the same, I thought incessantly about whether I was making the right choice. I then asked a very dear acquaintance for a channelled message. She channels the Archangel Michael and I trust her completely. This is what she said, and it helped me in my decision. There are some key messages that apply to anyone. I hope you can gain something from this too.

"You have responded to your own instinct and recognised your need to withdraw from the situation. It is central that you reflect on the gains acquired and consider how you may use them. What do you feel you have learned from the experience of the last two years? How does it equip you to clarify your own expectations of the future? For example, is there anything you would do differently when engaging in a new relationship? Try not to ponder too deeply on the reasons, motives, needs or expectations of the other. Nothing in your behaviour, personality or own needs will change those. Do not second guess, or try to predict. Allow the other their entitlement to live by the rules they choose. If these rules do not comply with yours, then it is time to make a decision regarding whether you change your own rules or stay with them, which will lead naturally to your own choice of action.

You were not presented with a challenge other than that which you set yourself! You have the ability to determine your own choices, but have no ability to create those of others. Always look for the match – if there is a mismatch, rate it for its value to you. How far can I tolerate this mismatch? Do I choose to relax my own rules in order to reduce the mismatch? Would I be happy continuing to live with the mismatch? For example, if you believed that truthfulness was essential at all times and under all circumstances, and the other believed that lying was acceptable in certain conditions, what would you do? Is there any mismatch that is not tolerable? For they must be either tolerated or rejected, not changed or challenged. Further, no-one will appear to offer an alternative if a battle to change is ongoing – that does not bode well for the balancing and synchronicity of new circumstances! So, the answer is to recognise that which you choose not to accept and to allow yourself to be open to new options which may ensure a more tolerable matching of factors."