posted May 23, 2016 02:32 PM            

I had an argument with someone that I very much care about (P.) and we haven't spoken in about 1/2 days, which is unusual for us... I highly doubt that I'll be the one reaching out - and yes, I admit that pride is also getting a bit in the way of that - but I never say never because I have a soft heart. Although I really don't want to be the one doing so due to several reasons.
I'd like to know what is going on in his mind regarding this and if/when he will contact me please.

You can leave your questions aswell. I mostly use intuition, but can use some cards for guidance.

posted May 23, 2016 06:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Hey all,

I had an argument with someone that I very much care about (P.) and we haven't spoken in about 1/2 days, which is unusual for us... I highly doubt that I'll be the one reaching out - and yes, I admit that pride is also getting a bit in the way of that - but I never say never because I have a soft heart. Although I really don't want to be the one doing so due to several reasons.
I'd like to know what is going on in his mind regarding this and if/when he will contact me please.

You can leave your questions aswell. I mostly use intuition, but can use some cards for guidance.

Thanks in advance!

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PAST 3 of wands
the tower present
2 of cups future
I don't know the nature of your relationship, but clearly things are bad between you two (the tower) as is with my guy) but you have a bright loving future ahead of you and the chance to reconcial (2 of cups) Not sure what happened in the past, but there seemed to have been decision (3 of wands)that caused the present sistuation between you and him.

When he'll contact you

King of swords
10 of wands
the Hermit

It may be a while for him to contact you.
I think you are both taking your own road. If you feel that he is in the wrong, that should validate your anger towards him and you not feeling the urge to contact him. If you feel you are in the wrong...then contact him.

Let me know if these cards make sense to you.

My question is, Will J came back around and decide to want a committed relationship with me? If so, is there a time ETA?

posted May 24, 2016 06:50 AM            

Thank you so much for your kind reading. Just to let you know that I will leave you some feedback and look into your question later on today. It's late morning here now, so probably in the late afternoon!

posted May 24, 2016 03:44 PM            

The tower for the present made sense because we were facing much more tension than we usually have between us. We have our small moments of tension occasionally, as with most close relationships, but nothing that we can't sort out... This time was very different, specially regarding my attitude. I was very mad and blunt in the way I dealt with things, which rarely happens. I'm not sure I would say it was a decision that caused the argument... He asked me a question that suggested that he was doubting me on something, although he denied it. I was already feeling a bit frustrated about a few other things, regarding him but not only, and that was just the last drop for me on that day.

As per him contacting me, he ended up doing so today, in the early afternoon... He said sorry that he hasn't been communicating with me, he is just not having a good moment. I asked why but he is a bit closed up about it, so I've been maintaining my distance... All I know is that it seems to be serious stuff. Anyways, I still don't exactly feel on good terms with him but I'm sure we'll eventually be.

posted May 24, 2016 04:49 PM            

I'm glad he contacted you first and apologized!

Best,