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LunarLove
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posted May 23, 2016 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just got told via phone that I essentially got fired and that they legally don't have to have a reason for letting me go. I have worked diligently here for over a year and through different managements and changes I have really helped it aesthetically. About 17 people quit on their own accord the last year...and though it was not the happiest place to work for me it ga e me stability and I enjoyed the community that shopped there. I am going to seek legal action or at least find out why I got fired. I am a hums being and deserve a reason. This is a total shock and I am supper depressed. I really need some advice, hope anything, please. Thank you.

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dustib
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posted May 23, 2016 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
depending on where you live, most places do not have to give a reason on why they fired you. I am in HR and it sucks but that is how it goes. Getting legal counsel won't do anything either honestly. Sorry

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Magikaal
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posted May 23, 2016 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Magikaal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi - that really sucks. I'm sorry.

I did a tarot reading for you.
For the past, I got 8 cups. This clearly shows trouble brewing in the background and a negative atmosphere. The advice is to leave this situation because it does not serve you. It may have been stable but the writing was on the wall.

For the present, I got 3 cups and 10 cups. Both of these seem to show what I think of as divine light/ help shining on you but because you are (understandably) in shock and pain you may not realise it. The advice here I would think is to focus on what is working in your life, no matter how small it may be.

For the future, I got Prince of Wands (bring out your inner daredevil), 10 swords (put an end to the pain and the past) and 3 of wands (being confident, look to the future and tackle new goals). This clearly shows that you have to find something better for you. I think it says that you must try not to stew about the past. I don't know any legal things so can't help there but the cards are clearly showing that there will be more for you. You just have to find it. So maybe focus on that for the moment?

I am sending you good vibes for now. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you were a great asset to them. I think you can bring these gifts to a new workplace that is much more harmonious. You deserve something better!

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LunarLove
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posted May 25, 2016 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks dustib for the advice though I may still seek legal help at least for unemployment.. :/ And magicaal, I really appreciate your read it makes a lot of sense and is very encouraging. I guess I am just worried about slander about me because I think one woman I worked with is most manipulative and I never trusted her and my intuition tells me she had something to do with it. Thanks again.❤️

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LoadedPistil
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posted May 27, 2016 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How you holding up, LunarLove?

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LunarLove
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posted May 27, 2016 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LP, thank you for checking on me... I feel unwell. I have not leaving house all week. I see no purpose here. I really do not. I work all these jobs that I work hard and diligently and I get burned. I don't know what I am who I am. I feel as if I am a disposable garbage liner. I take in everyone's trash but then get thrown out with it all over me and they get left cleaner me dirtier. I feel like I have shown so much care and love and energy to so many people and yet I guess they do not remember me or I'm invisible. I get bursts of energy like " I should get college degree and get a salaried job so I can be protected by this disposable laws like at will you get fired for no reason" Then i feel i may take acting classes or something this summer.
I am nearly 30 and starting to panic. Like part of me wonders will I ever have my own family? A good future? Friends? Purpose? So much thinking I just go to bed and dream of life beyond this one.

I don't think I ever been this dark before. Almost so dark that it seems light if that makes sense.

It seems sunny outside but I feel ashamed to even walk around in it like the rays would just highlight my failure. I sometimes look out my window or sit on the floor near one and hear people outside with friends, laughing, talking and I feel so distant.

I wonder if anyone who I have helped and cared for ever thinks about me or looks at my windows and thinks about me. I wonder if I have ever been loved or if I will ever feel loved- not such coldness.

Sry I wrote too much... I appreciate u asking about me. Thank you.

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LoadedPistil
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posted May 28, 2016 03:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have two college degrees and I'm still captain of the ship you're trying to jump off. Don't go down that rabbit hole, honey. Nothing down there but more corporate beurocracy. Income inequality will always keep a person willing to work just as hard as you next in line. Always be ready to move on. There's no such thing as job loyalty in 2016. That went out with pensions. Dust yourself off and get that next gig, sweetheart. GET. UP.

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LunarLove
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posted May 30, 2016 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh how I wish I was a Leo!!! Lol... I agree with u I need to get up. I needed that.

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LoadedPistil
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posted June 07, 2016 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.good.is/articles/issue-37-just-checking-in-again

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Randall
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posted June 10, 2016 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Most states are at-will employment, so they need no reason.

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MinceyMouse
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posted June 10, 2016 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Randall, depends on the contract signed. A clause stipulating dismissal with cause is the one you look for- however this is more typical for C-suite exec contracts.

The law varies from state to state, so check you state's law about it. And, again, check the contract (if you had one).

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LoadedPistil
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posted June 10, 2016 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Most states are at-will employment, so they need no reason.

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