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Topic: @LostTaurus
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 31, 2016 04:07 PM
Didn't know if you'd like to exchange. I have a couple of questions if that's ok. 1. will I get the job that is super close to my house? It's a new prospect that I applied for today. 2. I met someone new...L name. There is some drama surrounding him right now and that worries me. Is he someone that is bad to be around and I should walk away or will anything transpire between us? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 65872 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2016 01:52 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 02, 2016 06:07 PM
bumpIP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1727 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 02, 2016 07:47 PM
Hey d, I'm here! Are you around? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 02, 2016 09:53 PM
I am now. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 04, 2016 09:48 AM
I think we are playing tag! IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 06, 2016 10:09 AM
last bump: am wondering if things are done between him and I since we had 2 misunderstandings this weekendIP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1727 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 06, 2016 10:20 AM
Hi dustib. Doesn't feel "over" right now, but it does (honestly) feel like more of a pain in the butt than it may be worth for either of you. Just feels like there's too much difference between you. Also feels like, if you stick around longer, you're going to find him boorish, crass. If it were me, I'd leave this one. :/ As to the job, I'm not getting anything clear at all as to why (other than that it has nothing to do with you, your qualifications or your resume), but I don't think that one is going to come through. Already had someone in mind maybe? Budget cut? It just doesn't feel like it has anything to do with you.
I'm sorry... IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 06, 2016 10:29 AM
Yes I can see the boorish part that would come into play. Our schedules are 100% different and he's in a situation that will cause some problems/drama as well. Not sure why I keep meeting these people....why can't I just meet someone who's normal that I can relate to and not have all this drama and back and forth! UGH Thank you so much!!! Do you have any questions? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1727 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 06, 2016 11:06 AM
Ummm...hmm,I have a business lunch Wednesday. What will B's impression of me be? What will S's impression of me be? What will be T's response to the change of plans inre: the project? Do you have any others? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 06, 2016 12:00 PM
What will B's impression of me be? I got book, mice, moon, ring and clouds. B is going to think you are knowledgeable but hard to get a read on. They will be satisfied with you and what you present but also a little leary if that makes sense. What will S's impression of me be? Moon, lilies, bear, book and roads. S will also feel you are very knowledgeable and also things you are on top of your game. You are someone who knows what you want and not afraid to go after it. S will also be satisfied but feels like you have many options. What will be T's response to the change of plans inre: the project? I got ring, bear, tower, man and woman. I do feel T is going to be protective of how it was and not like this change right off the bat. I think there is going to need to be persusion to get T on board with the changes. Are the changes a cycle? Feels like they are a bit exhausted by them. Hope those all make sense. when do you think I will hear from L again or see him? Is this back and forth going to just keep being a cycle with him? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1727 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 07, 2016 01:24 AM
I get the sense you could see him pretty much whenever you'd like...just as soon as you're willing to back down and compromise your position. That said, I also get the feeling that's really not a wise precedent to set or trail to tread. Up to you though. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 08, 2016 07:57 PM
He told me he was done because of what happened over the weekend IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 09, 2016 10:14 AM
how was your lunch on Wednesday? IP: Logged |