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Topic: I'm Too Emotional for an Accurate Reading
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Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 617
From: Michigan, USA
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted May 31, 2016 04:46 PM
  
TW: Sexual AbuseI was sexually assaulted on Saturday the 21st, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone close to me about it. It has brought up a lot of my past trauma and everytime I try to do a tarot reading it doesn't work out. Can someone please give me a reading about how to tell my boyfriend? Or how I should approach this situation? ------------------
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace."
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lilypad18
Knowflake Posts: 1860
From: my mother's uterus
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 31, 2016 04:57 PM
I'm really sorry for what happened to you... 😔😔😔😔 I hope you get out of this soon and feel better..I did a reading for you, this are the cards I got: Hierophant - Queen of pentacles - 4 of pentacles So, with the hierophant I think he won't take it bad, as in getting mad or something like that. He will understand you completely and try to help you all that he can. You have to do this in a calm way, telling all the details, being realistic (as in telling the whole story, not leaving anything to his imagination or things like that), and act as in "these are the facts and this is how I can resolve this problem, would you be willing to help me?", always respecting him, as well as respecting yourself in the process of telling it. And with the 4 of pentacles don't try to force him into anything, just tell things as they are in a calm way, and let happen what has to happen. Also, don't try to control yourself too much; if u want to cry, cry, so whatever you need, but still remain as the queen of pentacles you are I hope this helped IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 4617
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 31, 2016 05:52 PM
I remember i read your other thread on the astrology forum but i didnt know that there was a sexual assault, i think you said your ex boyfriend touched you in the car but he stopped after you said no. ? IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 617
From: Michigan, USA
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted May 31, 2016 06:24 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
I remember i read your other thread on the astrology forum but i didnt know that there was a sexual assault, i think you said your ex boyfriend touched you in the car but he stopped after you said no. ?
No I told him strictly platonic meeting and he picked me up. Bringing me home jr took a detour and he touched me and almost forced himself on me while I repeatedly said stop and to get off of me. He finally stopped when I had tears in my eyes. I would say that is definitely sexual assault ------------------
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace."
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Orange
Knowflake Posts: 4617
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 31, 2016 08:06 PM
yes, I see..if you felt violated, then you were violatedIP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 405
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 01, 2016 02:55 AM
Wow I'm so sorry to hear that. It's so strange. 3 days ago the same/similar thing happened to me. You are not alone. I went through a little shock and confusion and I felt disrespected but I had to tell myself "what happened to me does not define me, it was not my fault".I think you should share it with someone and get it off your chest. I haven't shared it with anyone close to me either cuz I'm too embarrassed but I shared it anonymously online. There's a lot of people that can help and understand you. I think maybe it's because of Mars going retrograde into Scorpio. Dark things are happening. IP: Logged |
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