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lilypad18
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posted June 03, 2016 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so, I have a few questions that Id like for someone to answer me. I can do your questions in half an hour.

Choose whatever one u want:

1. My uncle is in some project rn, with money involved, and Id like to know how will it turn out for him

2. Id like to know if I should follow C's advice or listen to myself instead

thanks!

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FruityLlama
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posted June 03, 2016 07:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lily, please help, what do I do about my boyfriend? I will answer yours in about 30 too

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lilypad18
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posted June 03, 2016 07:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey fruity! gimme 5 min to take the cards and Ill see what the cards say!

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lilypad18
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posted June 03, 2016 08:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, I asked first what are his feelings for you

Sun, clarified by the fool- 5 of cups - 2 of Pents

So, the feelings he has for you are rather fun than romantic. I mean, he has feelings for you but, more than romantic, they are warm, fuzzy, meaning he is comfortable by your side. But at the present, looks like he feels alone in the relationship, he feels as if this relationship, more than fun and beautiful things, has become a task. A task rather than enjoying, and that's why he probably feels alone in this relationship. Of course, this is could or could not be ur fault. This spread only shows his feelings, which could be based on the reality ur relationship is experiencing or not. And I'm prone to say that it's just the way he perceives it... with the sun here, clarified by the fool. I think he has way too many expectations from ur relationship, not willing to actually commit to the lows that a relationship has too

Now, I did another spread for some advice for you

The Magician - Moon - 7 of Pents

I think this spread points CLEARLY to, first, think about everything that is going on with your relationship. Second, to trust your intuition and guts. Third, to know that you have all the abilities needed to overcome every problem, you just have to make an efficient use of them, use them in a good way, in the best way that it is for you.
So, the seven tells u to slow down and see what you have got from this relationship so far; what you like about it, what u don't, what you expected, etc. All those questions. And from there, trust what your intuition is saying it, follow your emotions about what's going on.
And last, you have the control and power over it. If u want this relationship to end, you put it to an end. If you want to solve things out, you have the power to do it, but first you have to trust yourself and be confident in what u think it's best and how u think it's best to do it.


I hope this helps!

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FruityLlama
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posted June 03, 2016 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Lily, I understand. Especially how he feels alone but that isnt my fault as in, he is very independant and focused on work at the moment, and I feel like ive become a burden. I am always there for him at every beck and call, whenever he messages me etc. I know thats bad, he has taken me for granted most definitely. He sort of blunders his way in, not thinking about anything but what he has to do next and im left feeling cheap and nasty and used.
I will try to resolve things but its like we go in cycles like this and I feel heavy, sad and alone also.

Okay ive done your spread lily, i dod number 2 first:

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FruityLlama
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posted June 03, 2016 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
2P
6S
8P rx
World
7C rx
7W

Okay my first thought looking at this intuitively was that C's advice is MOSTLY worth listening to. But its not all complete. You need weigh out, using your gut clearly what they say that is the right thing to do. But you also have the right answers within you. Step back and think about what C says that sits well with you and what doesnt. Just dont give to wishful thinking on your part though and dont be too hasty or impatient with yourself to decide. There is alot of weighing up to do.

Hope this resonates! It was a terribly 'in between' spread aha

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posted June 03, 2016 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay for question 1:

6P
Chariot
KingC rx
KnightS
AceW

He could expect some windfall payment, onvestment, unearned cash or just at least some really good help to get the project going further. There could be some rivalry going on or something secretive going on- trying to decipher the King here. The knight, if this isnt a person supports the possibility of something unexpected, so unexpected payment or whatever as said above. This will all result in a new job offer or an idea for some development, something like that. It looks pretty positive, and things will get off the ground

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lilypad18
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posted June 03, 2016 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks fruity!

some questions, what di u mean by wishful thinking?

and, could this spread say also that, C has some good points, he gives good afvice, his intentions are good and so, but what I really need to follow is what I feel is right?

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posted June 03, 2016 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well 7C rx pointed to wishful thinking and slight impatience but again maybe the reversed is the wrong interpretation there. Perhaps it just supports the idea that you need to make an intuitive choice- yes, basically i think this spread is pointing to that. But be aware of some outside factors/ideas that might be quite useful. And certainly, C has good intentions etc. I think, to summarise, you know best, always, but it is always useful to hear other sides of the story because other people will be coming from a different perspective. And its always useful to look at that too of course

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FruityLlama
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posted June 03, 2016 08:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also wishful thinking- i kind of got the idea of imagining something unrealistic. Having unrealistic ideas. I should have said that really, yeah wishful thinking was the wrong phrase aha

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lilypad18
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posted June 03, 2016 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilypad18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
okay, I really get it now hahah thanks a lot fruity!

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