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Topic: Can anyone please give some insight into this?
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MillyX
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From: canada
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posted June 03, 2016 08:01 PM
  
Edit: Changed my mind Personal issue I would rather not share.IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2016 12:24 AM
I actually read what you wrote. And I started to write but I got so angry. I don't know the reason. Maybe it's because of his guilt. Maybe it's because of his emotions and he sees how he hurt you and Did You Wrong. But I have a feeling that it's not so much him that it's more of you on why you to keep bumping into each other. Maybe some lesson you need to learn. I don't knowBut I also think he's changed at least he feels that he has and a dramatic way and wants you to know that it wants you to see that. He's not the person that he was in today he would never do that, is his thinking Sorry 😏 IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 04, 2016 12:36 AM
Thank you Cherful. I get this angry vibe from him when I cross his path. For the most part when I see him I act unfazed by all of it.I act like I never knew him, that nothing ever happened. Because it's in the past, he was upset because I didn't want to stay friends with him after that incident.
The lines were blurred that night. I definitely learned my lesson from this person it's to DRAW BOUNDARIES and say no. However, I feel like he sometimes purposefully comes to me. He used to pass by my work and pass by my cash when and I would act like I never knew him. I never acknowledged him. He also works where I live and it's awkward because ai could be walking and I feel someone stare at me and it's him. I don't like this person however I am willing to forgive and forget but I just don't get the vibe that he has remorse over this. I remember right after the incident he said he did not feel like he did anything wrong. IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 04, 2016 12:40 AM
Alot of things were left unsaid though and I am wondering if the reason I keep bumping into this person is because he has something to say.IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
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posted June 04, 2016 12:40 AM
Hasn't it been a while though? And I say that in the terms of he could possibly think differently now. If you're willing to forgive and forget that means you haven't and you haven't completely healed from it... Perhaps this is making you purge, by seeing him over and over. Which would help you heal. But I'm still getting a feeling from him that is a bit remorseful. But of course I could be wrongIP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 04, 2016 12:52 AM
Of course I haven't 100% healed from it but I just don't focus my energy on it because I don't want to. I guess I am angry a bit because from the get go, I had a bad feeling about him. He said he never was interested in me but that night we were drunk he told me that he lied and always wanted to get inside me. It's the fact that this person is so good at lying and manipulating others...He is a smooth talker. I guess seeing him constantly makes me confront the issue because I have ran away from it. I sort of blank it out a bit because he was a mistake. I guess it's this whole what you resist persist kind of thing, but still I don't feel like he is a good person and I'll believe he is changed the day he decides to come up to me, talk and apologize. I mean he bumps into me alot, he can come up to me and talk if he wants to. IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 04, 2016 12:56 AM
Out of curiosity: Do you see any resolution between me and T? Will I have a conversation with this person in the future?IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 04, 2016 12:58 AM
I think he's also working on that issue he wants to say something to you and that it's more of Look at me now I've changed. And I totally understand where you're coming from. This kid might be a narcissist. Or at least he was. He sold you aside of him him that wasn't real. He's a good manipulator
UOTE]Originally posted by MillyX:
Of course I haven't 100% healed from it but I just don't focus my energy on it because I don't want to. I guess I am angry a bit because from the get go, I had a bad feeling about him. He said he never was interested in me but that night we were drunk he told me that he lied and always wanted to get inside me.
It's the fact that this person is so good at lying and manipulating others...He is a smooth talker. I guess seeing him constantly makes me confront the issue because I have ran away from it. I sort of blank it out a bit because he was a mistake. I guess it's this whole what you resist persist kind of thing, but still I don't feel like he is a good person and I'll believe he is changed the day he decides to come up to me, talk and apologize. I mean he bumps into me alot, he can come up to me and talk if he wants to. [/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 04, 2016 01:05 AM
So he will talk to me in the future? If he is willing to come forward and apologize truly from the heart, I am willing to listen so we can get this over with.IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
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posted June 04, 2016 01:13 AM
Not soon. You might have to open that communication.
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Originally posted by MillyX:
So he will talk to me in the future? If he is willing to come forward and apologize truly from the heart, I am willing to listen so we can get this over with.
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