posted June 12, 2016 10:34 AM            

Your question?

posted June 12, 2016 11:05 AM            

how sweet.

posted June 12, 2016 11:13 AM            

queen of swords, 3 swords, knight of swords, king of wands, 6 cups

Clarified by; ace wands, ace cups, queen pents

I think first perhaps a little worried/nervous on how to react to things as I think they weren't expecting a reply or something(ace wands makes me think unexpected as its a fast card as with the knight of swords), but afterwards happy to interact, it made them feel nice. Knight of swords is typically gemini, so i think they also enjoyed the back and forth. I think in the end they felt it was nice and friendly.

So in short at the start the interaction was unexpected and didn't know how to react but they felt happy to offer this interaction, I think they enjoyef it and felt content in the end. I guess the king would be him. The two aces also makes me think of fresh energy.

Does any of this make sense? Let me know you thoughts

posted June 12, 2016 11:26 AM            

yes I think it makes much sense. I got the feeling he enjoyed it, too.
I was probably acting differently than from before, maybe more spontaneously, and well there`s of course the memory of how we last met, and I think our interaction now was a good carefree counterbalance to that. Not to mention it WAS communication. lol
Seems I am not doing the "hiding my head in the sand" policy anymore, at least not for now.
In a way however, doing that podcast from home with his best friend even though they were just chatting, it was quite a personal thing to do, and well with some personal information (nothing too personal of course), and I think he liked that my response was positive.
Just how I liked to see that the man has good taste in some things.

except for jelly beans.

It`s funny how similiar we are in certain respects, and apparently we share a sense of humour. Well Mercury in Sag HAD to show its face eventually I guess.

posted June 12, 2016 11:50 AM            

I wonder what he thinks of the oldfashioned screwballcomedies, you know the one that Spencer Tracey and Katherine Hepburn used to do?

Well I always liked that kind.

posted June 12, 2016 12:33 PM            

clarified by: Page of Cups - chariot - 3 of wands

I think you will fall in love while at least one of you is still in another relationship, that is falling apart, or just freshly separated.

Alternatively it might mean that in the beginning there will be attempts to keep a distance between you to spare you pain for some reason, but the romantic feelings (Page of Cups) cannot be avoided.

however then in the middle of the spread there is the card of togetherness and practical belonging. You will have a very committed relationship, and feel that you belong together and are one family. This will be a very conscious decision though, after the stormy start.

posted June 12, 2016 12:54 PM            

clarified by; the world, two wands, king pents

I think a the start there will perhaps be 3 of you together and also possibly trying to figure each other out, so perhaps even abit aloof/stand offish. The walls eventually come down an there is some nice friendly chatting, i perhaps just make the 2 of you for a while. I think there might be some anxiety/alot of thinking at that point, perhaps on just what to say, but it comes from abit of standoffish to being comfortable. I pulled another card after the 9 and got 6 wands, so I think it shows progress. So progress from standoffish to friendly and relaxed atmosphere but perhaps on the inside alot of thinking on what to say.

Let me know how it does go

posted June 12, 2016 01:21 PM            

for me honestly, things are alright at the moment.
He`s a married man and I wouldnīt be sure I could give him anything at all even if he was free and seriously interested in me.

I have severe doubts about my ability to have normal relationships. lol (actually IP ulled some cards on that yesterday, what I could even give/ offer him and got: Page of Cups - Magician - lovers: I certainly did not expect that spread. lol)

But anyway, I think I am just so okay with it now, because in a way him being taken already gives me some feeling of "safety" (so things couldn`t get TOO real, if you know what I mean?).

And having some nice encounters with playful banter, maybe a bit of a flirtative vibe (yes, it`s there), that`s absolutely okay with me. It`s enough. (except sometimes the intensity that seems to be generated between us is a little disconcerting).

But I feel centred, though of course meeting him again in person, might feel different, maybe with a little insecurity how to act towrds him, as things have changed in the meantime, and well,pretending we donīt know each other might not be an option anymore.

posted June 12, 2016 02:33 PM            

The thing that is lacking for me is the physical aspect, talking about things sexual as well as practically sharing life with someone else. You know like every day life.

I am honest enough to see that I have a tremendous lack (mostly of experience maybe) in these regards

and I always want to exchange with you.

Maybe you could pull cards on that, too?
How I would really "function" in a real life relationship, you know with all the aspects present?

posted June 12, 2016 03:34 PM            

clarified by; 4 pents, ten pentacles, two pents

judgement and the fool popped up while shuffling

I think the cards show you would being decisiveness, balance yet alot of adventure to a relationship. I think alot of chatting, sensitivity, fun, strength and comfort, you would be the rock. There are home oriented cards and adventurous cards, so I think you would bring alot of adventure yet alot of stability too. 10's and 9's are the high numbers so I think they also represent abundance.

Let me know your thoughts

Pls dnt quote might edit later

posted June 12, 2016 04:22 PM            

And you posed a good question. If we exchange again, I want you to answer this one for me too.

But first to your spread

Queen of Pents - 7 of cups- 10 of swords - Ace of Wands - 6 of swords

clarified by: 2 of swords - Star - Fool

I think he sees your connection as being at a total crossroad, or a point where it changes totally.
To me it seems like in the past he didn`t quite know what to do about you or the connection, there was a decision to be made that he did not want to make or something he did not want to see.
There was of course a crushlike feeling, but it seemed not entirely real, and he was not sure what to really do about it.

Which led to the 10 of swords in the middle, I think it represents the end of this phase, of this indecisiveness, though it might also mean experiencing pain, feeling isolated, alone, maybe, but with the STar as clarifier, while there is still some distance (he is in a different coutnry? or far away now, right?) there is also the promise of healing, of friendship and mending the isolation, even though it might take some time.

posted June 12, 2016 04:41 PM            

I will answer this question for you tomorrow. Im quite tired now.

Pls dnt quote

posted June 13, 2016 03:52 PM            

5 wands, 6 cups, the hermit, the high priestess, the star

clarified by; queen of pents, king of swords, 8 wands

the 9 wands popped up while shuffling, then followed by 5 wands and king cups together

I think he views it as a very strong connection with a grounded/familiar feel to it. But I think also perhaps he feels he thinks too much on it or that its a little complicated. 5 wands popping up and again in the main spread with the other cards there makes me think of feeling conflicted but theres also an underlying passionate feeling? Hermit with the king makes me think its something he may reflect on and also try to think on it logically. The HP and the star makes me think of distance with the 8 wands i think perhaps is frustrating.

So in short he views it as a strong connection, i think perhaps he also might feel conflicted about it at times. I think he tries to look at it from a logical perspective but with the hermit shining the light on the 6 i think sometimes perhaps there is also a sentimental view. He also feels there is a distance and i think he might feel frustrated at times.

Let me know what you think, or if at least you think the cards might resonate.

My question: How will my appointment go tomorrow(its with a consultant-im not asking on any diagnose or anything just the vibe of the appointment)?

Thanks