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EmGem
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posted June 12, 2016 08:27 PM
  
I went out with the girls.
Apparently guys would look at me with that "I can't touch that, she's too good for me" look. I didn't see it but my friends did. We were having a conversation about guys not approaching me afterwards. And this is what they said. That I intimidate guys because I have this blatant rawness about me.
I just thought they thought I was too much of a short ass and didn't think I was pretty enough.
Does intimidation towards men show in my chart? Is it Lilith around my Venus?? 😕  IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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From: intimate sky dot net
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posted June 12, 2016 08:56 PM
The Scorpio rising with Uranus there is dynamite. Scorpio rising is intimidating. With Uranus it's about 20x IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted June 12, 2016 09:01 PM
wait, didnt you talk before about having a very strong connection/relationship with a possible twinflame? Or was it somebody else..IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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From: intimate sky dot net
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posted June 12, 2016 09:02 PM
You deserve such a nice one. They're holding off for good reason! Be patient   Happy birthday IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted June 12, 2016 09:26 PM
Thanks ladies. I didn't realize Uranus was so potent. Isn't it just Aquarian energy?Thanks Yun 💜 It's funny you say be patient. I'm hearing that word a LOT at the moment with regards to my situation. Orange, I do have a very strong connection with someone else that is requiring a lot of patience. Could be TF but definitely soul mates. We're both in love but timing right now...
I was just curious why no guys approach me. I've always wondered. They always go for my friends. I wish I had more male friends to balance it out a bit. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted June 13, 2016 11:31 AM
First, happy belated birthday!I have a few things to say about the guys not approaching you. This is all practical advice, nothing related to Astrology. First, guys find it extremely hard to approach a girl if she's surrounded by her girl friends. Of course your friends are going to say you intimidate the guys. That's what us girls do, we say whatever it is to help our friends feel better. We often make excuses for why guys are being dumb! But the truth is, if you're surrounded by your girl friends, there is very little chance they'll come up to you. Unless you make the first move. By making the first move, I suggest making eye contact with a guy, coyly smiling, looking away quickly, and then remaking eye contact and smile. That sends a clear message that you are interested. Or better yet, just walk up to a guy and start talking to him  Maybe you're unconsciously giving off a "I don't want to be bothered" vibe. Next time you go out, smile, don't cross your arms over your body, and make eye contact! It will work! IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted June 14, 2016 05:42 AM
thanks polkadotstars!My friends are blatantly honest with me. Truly authentic friendships. We tell it like it is  They were approached by guys though and were surrounded by girlfriends?!
I also just remembered that a clairevoyant last year told me that I intimidate guys.
I just want more male friends and to have a bit of a laugh really.
Maybe I'm giving off the "I'm not interested" vibe who knows 
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Gemini Blues
Knowflake Posts: 1141
From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
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posted June 14, 2016 01:32 PM
I've got a somewhat similar chart to you. Our birthdays are a day apart, we're both Scorpio Rising, 8th house Sun, Venus in Cancer Mars in earth (mines in Taurus)...Edit, I see Mars is actually late Leo, Virgo Moon... Moon conjunct Mars is another "intense" aspect... You are 8th house Sun. It is possibly the rarest of Sun placements. It lets you see people for who they are. F Scott Fitzgerald had it, as did JFK I believe. It is an amazing gift for lovers, healers, diplomats, artists, and detectives, but maybe a little uncomfortable for the folks you might encounter at your local nightclub or dive bar. People naturally open up to you. I bet you have had the experience of someone meeting you and within an hour, they've shared their life story or some deep secret? Yeah, 8th house Sun. You can see where that can be a problem in a casual group setting. The other problem I have... flirting. Gemini, I should be great with this, right? I've even got a Leo Moon to help. But it's too strong. Women can tell that when I give a complement, I mean it. So, when I flirt, it's too intense. This is both good and bad, depending on the situation. And finally, the "not interested" vibe. It's the intensity thing again. It's hard for me to show "just a little" attention. So, women don't see it and say, "hmmm, let's see if I can get his full attention". They either feel it and don't need to get it, or they don't so they don't try. Any of this sound right to you? IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted June 14, 2016 02:13 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
You are 8th house Sun. It is possibly the rarest of Sun placements. It lets you see people for who they are. F Scott Fitzgerald had it, as did JFK I believe. It is an amazing gift for lovers, healers, diplomats, artists, and detectives, but maybe a little uncomfortable for the folks you might encounter at your local nightclub or dive bar. People naturally open up to you. I bet you have had the experience of someone meeting you and within an hour, they've shared their life story or some deep secret? Yeah, 8th house Sun. You can see where that can be a problem in a casual group setting.
Umm this is SO unbelievably true. I'm an 8th house Pisces sun. I always get people telling me their life story after meeting me briefly. I didn't realize it comes across as Scorpio until as of lately. I kinda like it But I can see how it would come across as intimidating. Thankfully I have a Leo rising to balance out all the Scorpio/8th house activity (which is a lot) in my chart.
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted June 14, 2016 06:23 PM
Happy belated birthday!!  An 8th houser...that could do the trick ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted June 15, 2016 01:08 AM
Thanks Leeloo 🙏💜Oh the perils of an 8th house sun! Gemini blues, you have described me so well. When I flirt I give it 100%. When I'm friendly I'm super friendly. Very passionate especially with moon/Mars. People DO tend to tell me their deepest longings, secrets, fears etc. I attract them like magnets. I HATE small talk. I can do it very well but it does absolutely nothing for me, a waste of my time to be honest. So yes either I'm very interested or very not interested. So basically, it will take a strong man to be able to sustain my intensity lol.
I mean, I can be intense but I can be very playful too.
I have sun parallel Venus, Mercury and Jupiter too. IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
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Registered: Dec 2014
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posted June 15, 2016 02:01 PM
Happy Birthday!  IP: Logged |
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