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Topic: Why do I always attract passive guys?
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MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 1157 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 15, 2016 02:38 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 84585 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2016 10:46 AM
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Emsie Knowflake Posts: 976 From: Hungary Registered: Jul 2012
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posted June 16, 2016 11:35 AM
I'm not an expert in chart reading, but what really struck me is that Mars Rx. Especially that it's opposed to your Aqua Venus.From my personal perspective: My natal Mars is in Sag, and the latest Mars rx period made me very passive and thoughtful about my actions and reactions. It is often advised not to initiate any fights during Mars rx, because who initiates also loses. There were verbal attacks from others, but I didn't respond to them as I felt like I did not have time and energy for any bs. All I wanted to do was retreating from troublesome people and situations. Normally, Mars is a very active and manly planet, but when in rx it's not that active after all. IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 822 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 16, 2016 10:41 PM
Venus opposite MarsPeople with this might have trouble getting what they want in love. On one hand you want to express your Mars in Leo which is demonstrative and acts boldly, but also you want to keep your femininity of Venus in Aquarius which is charming but detached. Leo and Aquarius are both masculine signs too so it seems correct that you assume the 'pants' in the relationship. But oppositions remember can be tensions that manifest in reality due to our own inner conflicting nature. So this plays out in other people. So the inner conflicting nature that Venus opposite Mars has is that they are struggling to express their own masculine/feminine energy. They may see-saw between trying to be overly masculine at times and trying to be overly feminine at times. This can actually confuse others (though it's not your fault) You just need to try to balance these energies within yourself. The ruler of your 7H (Pluto) is in the 7H and it trines the Moon. So this may be why you come across emotional types that might use manipulative tactics which I think you're very aware of (b/c of your Moon in Cancer). IP: Logged |
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 1157 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 17, 2016 07:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: I'm not an expert in chart reading, but what really struck me is that Mars Rx. Especially that it's opposed to your Aqua Venus.From my personal perspective: My natal Mars is in Sag, and the latest Mars rx period made me very passive and thoughtful about my actions and reactions. It is often advised not to initiate any fights during Mars rx, because who initiates also loses. There were verbal attacks from others, but I didn't respond to them as I felt like I did not have time and energy for any bs. All I wanted to do was retreating from troublesome people and situations. Normally, Mars is a very active and manly planet, but when in rx it's not that active after all.
thanks a lot! yeah, I was thinking Mars R maybe has something to do with this too.
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MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 1157 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 17, 2016 07:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquagembaby: Venus opposite MarsPeople with this might have trouble getting what they want in love. On one hand you want to express your Mars in Leo which is demonstrative and acts boldly, but also you want to keep your femininity of Venus in Aquarius which is charming but detached. Leo and Aquarius are both masculine signs too so it seems correct that you assume the 'pants' in the relationship. But oppositions remember can be tensions that manifest in reality due to our own inner conflicting nature. So this plays out in other people. So the inner conflicting nature that Venus opposite Mars has is that they are struggling to express their own masculine/feminine energy. They may see-saw between trying to be overly masculine at times and trying to be overly feminine at times. This can actually confuse others (though it's not your fault) You just need to try to balance these energies within yourself. The ruler of your 7H (Pluto) is in the 7H and it trines the Moon. So this may be why you come across emotional types that might use manipulative tactics which I think you're very aware of (b/c of your Moon in Cancer).
woah, thanks, thanks i appreciate it very much.. This make sense. I have to find the balance, I might still not know how but I know I can. IP: Logged |