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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 11:50 AM
So I put my two weeks in at my job in Denver and I was going to stay with my friend for at least two months in Chicago while I work at my previous job in Chicago. My friend called me today and said she can only do one month. This totally sidetracked me. And I'm a little worried. Should I stay here and Denver until August 31st and that's if my job will let that happen or do I continue to go but if I do go to Chicago how will it all work out? I'm trying to find another job hopefully outside of ChicagoIP: Logged |
harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 1718 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 02:54 PM
Hi cherful. I can exchange with you if you would like?IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2097 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 02:58 PM
cherful if ud like to Im in tooIP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 03:16 PM
Totally. I just feel like I'm at a Crossroads. I can't believe she did this but yet I can't believe she did this. So I don't know if I should stay with her for a month. I don't know if I should just stay somewhere else for two or three months. I just don't know what's going to happen. Like when I'm going to find a permanent job in another state. Chicago was just supposed to be a layover so I can rest and some money in my old job and stay with my friend
quote: Originally posted by harmonicvibes: Hi cherful. I can exchange with you if you would like?
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 03:17 PM
Yes please. Same type of questions I had mentioned above. I'm just totally at a Crossroads.
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: cherful if ud like to Im in too
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lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2097 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 03:18 PM
great! brbmy Q is: -Does T miss me? IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2097 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 03:30 PM
ok so I pulled three cards for Denver and three for Chicago Denver I got 4 of swords page of wands and 6 of wands Chicago Wheel of fortune 5 of swords Queen of wands so I'd completely stay in Denver till August... you'll be less worried and everything will go okay. when August finishes you'll think to yourself what a good decision you took in staying in Denver if u go to Chicago you'll have a lot of stress, whenever the queen pops up in my spread its a woman getting mad and kinda furious, so this will be you. you'll feel kinda defeated and there'll be a lot of changes, a lot of surprises and not beautiful surprises, which will force you to constantly put on with new strategies to solve problems that arise instead of having a good as* rest the good as* rest will only be allowed in Denver. the 6 of wands speaks for itself and with the page there you'll have more motivation than in Chicago to do another type of things IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 03:35 PM
I can't say I pick up feelings of missing someone. But I do think occasionally he may think of you from time to time. It almost seems a bit recent from your last connection with each other. Would that be correct? But I get a sense that he's not missing you because he knows he's not going back to you like there's no future with you. But again he does think about you but he knows not to get his emotions involved to where he couldn't miss you I put my notice in in Denver. I'm supposed to be finishing June 29th. Can I ask you what my direct report Pam thinks of me leaving and what my program director Vogel thinks of me leaving? If I were to ask them if he would be okay to stay longer, what do you think their response would be?
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: ok so I pulled three cards for Denver and three for Chicago Denver I got 4 of swords page of wands and 6 of wands Chicago Wheel of fortune 5 of swords Queen of wands so I'd completely stay in Denver till August... you'll be less worried and everything will go okay. when August finishes you'll think to yourself what a good decision you took in staying in Denver if u go to Chicago you'll have a lot of stress, whenever the queen pops up in my spread its a woman getting mad and kinda furious, so this will be you. you'll feel kinda defeated and there'll be a lot of changes, a lot of surprises and not beautiful surprises, which will force you to constantly put on with new strategies to solve problems that arise instead of having a good as* rest the good as* rest will only be allowed in Denver. the 6 of wands speaks for itself and with the page there you'll have more motivation than in Chicago to do another type of things
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lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2097 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 03:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: I can't say I pick up feelings of missing someone. But I do think occasionally he may think of you from time to time. It almost seems a bit recent from your last connection with each other. Would that be correct? But I get a sense that he's not missing you because he knows he's not going back to you like there's no future with you. But again he does think about you but he knows not to get his emotions involved to where he couldn't miss you I put my notice in in Denver. I'm supposed to be finishing June 29th. Can I ask you what my direct report Pam thinks of me leaving and what my program director Vogel thinks of me leaving? If I were to ask them if he would be okay to stay longer, what do you think their response would be?
aha.... and can you tell me if I have some chances of making him like me? I mean, if I involve myself in here, do I have any chances of developing something romantic here? IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 03:54 PM
As of right now it doesn't look like he's thinking future forward in terms of a relationship with you. I don't think a relationship is on his mind right now, period. Could you invest yourself and spend more time with him and possibly develop something... I can't answer that right now because as of right now, where it stands, that's not where his mind is at. If you spend a month with him and you want to ask that question again, his mindset will probably change and I could probably give you another answer. If you like this guy I say go for it. As you know energies can always change based on the actions that happen. Maybe he doesn't know you enough right now to be like yeah I think I want a relationship with her. But maybe in a month with quality time with you he would be like wow I really like her I want to see where this is going quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: aha.... and can you tell me if I have some chances of making him like me? I mean, if I involve myself in here, do I have any chances of developing something romantic here?
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lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2097 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 03:55 PM
Pam: Empress page of cups hermitPam is really happy for you and thinks you'll have a lot of opportunities coming when u leave, but she may not be too demonstrative of it. Those feelings and thoughts run in her head but she doesn't express them Vogel: Vogel (I suppose it's a He) doesn't like that u leave 5 of cups wheel of fortune 7 of pentacles it's like he's thinking about what will happen next at work without you working there. and now feels he likes it, now he doesn't. Mutable thoughts about u leaving. plus the 5 of cups clearly shows he doesn't like it really much and what would they say Pam: empress fool lovers clarified by Queen of swords Pam would be happy too if you stay longer and would immediately organize everything so that us stay, but I think she would show you first that you can't be that changeable and have to make it clear what you want, u know what I mean? Vogel: reversed tower - 6 of cups - 9 of cups Vogel would feel really relieved in some way, I don't think he would tell u anything relevant, in any case he would be okay with you staying longer. I actually don't really understand that Rx tower here... IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2097 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 03:58 PM
aaaaha, I get itthanks a lot cherful! IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 04:11 PM
That's pretty spot-on. Pam actually told me she was very happy for me and she believed that with qualifications I would be able to obtain something very easily. Vogel was actually a female however she is like a male. That's her energy. She's the one that I had complications with. Health-wise I know I need to leave Colorado. But my heart is really in Chicago at this moment. It was just so shity but my friend did. I want to continue with a Chicago thing but of course I'm just scared of it. Thank you!
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: Pam: Empress page of cups hermitPam is really happy for you and thinks you'll have a lot of opportunities coming when u leave, but she may not be too demonstrative of it. Those feelings and thoughts run in her head but she doesn't express them Vogel: Vogel (I suppose it's a He) doesn't like that u leave 5 of cups wheel of fortune 7 of pentacles it's like he's thinking about what will happen next at work without you working there. and now feels he likes it, now he doesn't. Mutable thoughts about u leaving. plus the 5 of cups clearly shows he doesn't like it really much and what would they say Pam: empress fool lovers clarified by Queen of swords Pam would be happy too if you stay longer and would immediately organize everything so that us stay, but I think she would show you first that you can't be that changeable and have to make it clear what you want, u know what I mean? Vogel: reversed tower - 6 of cups - 9 of cups Vogel would feel really relieved in some way, I don't think he would tell u anything relevant, in any case he would be okay with you staying longer. I actually don't really understand that Rx tower here...
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harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 1718 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 04:12 PM
Okay interesting. So I asked if you should still go stay with your friend. Right now; there is some heavy emotion I think you feel a little hurt because this was already planned puts you in a bind. Despite its cut back by a month; the cards are saying to proceed forward with your plans. You will find a place to live, will have your job to make steady income I even see a new job start for you as well. The last card represent you going with all you plans emotions, calmly traveling from the West I assume your in Western USA traveling East being Chicago is east of where you are. So I think things will be ok Queen of Cups Ace of Wands Knight of Cups
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lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2097 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 04:15 PM
u are welcome! I'm happy it was spot on and I hope everything turns out right for uIP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 04:15 PM
Ty. What's your questions? But can I ask should I stay the one month with my friend or should I just find somewhere else for the two to three months that I may need? The correct time in Denver and I'll be going to Chicago. Chicago just supposed to be a layover for a couple of months and hopefully find something in DC or like Nashville that I'm happy with.Why did she do this? She did this the day after I put my two weeks in. We've been talking about it for weeks. She was all set all happy and then boom she goes and she does this QUOTE]Originally posted by harmonicvibes: Okay interesting. So I asked if you should still go stay with your friend. Right now; there is some heavy emotion I think you feel a little hurt because this was already planned puts you in a bind. Despite its cut back by a month; the cards are saying to proceed forward with your plans. You will find a place to live, will have your job to make steady income I even see a new job start for you as well. The last card represent you going with all you plans emotions, calmly traveling from the West I assume your in Western USA traveling East being Chicago is east of where you are. So I think things will be ok Queen of Cups Ace of Wands Knight of Cups[/QUOTE]
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harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 1718 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted June 18, 2016 04:20 PM
My question is how does Ivan feel about me? Will him and I reunite again??? Also, why are him tania friends again on face book is there something romantic happening? No quote will edit after
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 5132 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2016 04:33 PM
Harm... I don't see anything romantic happening between those two right now. I think it's more confidence booster for both of them. Like floating back and forth. I don't even see them meeting up. But he does like the attention. I don't see him settling down right now I don't think he's going to be committed to one person right now. So I will keep my options open if I were you. But I do see some curiosity towards you period like wanting to see what your all about. I think that you guys will be communicating if you're not already. So you definitely have a leg up from the other girl. If you're willing just to hang out with him and chill and not expect a relationship in the summer then I think you're okIP: Logged |