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blindpainter
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posted June 21, 2016 08:29 PM
  
Can anyone help me? I feel horrible, depressed andd suicidal. I have no friends no job and everyone hates me i don't know what to do please helpIP: Logged |
Julz87
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posted June 21, 2016 08:45 PM
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Debby4
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posted June 21, 2016 08:50 PM
Ok! What do you need help with? Knowing that you are loved, worth something, or knowing that everyone, including YOU, brings something to the table even if it's just a story to tell! Let us know. I am more than willing to help you out!  IP: Logged |
blindpainter
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posted June 21, 2016 08:57 PM
Thank you guys, i am so lost i don't even know how you can help. I just feel so horrible and i try to be happy but nothing ever changes. I don't know what to do with myself :'( i feel like a huge burden to everyone i feel like i shouldn't even be around anymore. Im sorry i know im not really asking any questions but i dont know what to ask i feel like theres no chance for meIP: Logged |
Julz87
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posted June 21, 2016 09:09 PM
There's always a chance BP. I'm sure you're not a burden, and from what you are saying it sounds like you're trying, don't give up - it may take a little while to see great change and you are still trying it will come. Nothing bad ever lasts forever BP keep that in mind always.
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DannyCappy
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posted June 21, 2016 09:24 PM
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LaughingQuiet
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posted June 21, 2016 10:38 PM
Hello BlindPainter and DannyCappy,Most people will have experienced days like this.
Neither of you are useless. Nobody is useless. I am one of those who believes we are all here for a reason. Do you volunteer at all? That is sure to make you know that you are Not useless. Maybe try a 'Befriender' programme or something like that! It can be good fun. You might make more friends at different voluntary programs. Have you ever heard of Roseroot herb? It's said to have a better effect on most people who take it than when they took lab-crafted anti-depressants? Although it doesn't suit everyone. I'm sure you can get it in a health store. Of course, you would need to make sure you aren't allergic to it first and get an allergy test done. Consult a naturopath or another qualified health-care provider who could evaluate whether you are a good candidate for roseroot and can prescribe the best dosage and brand for you. blindpainter, I'm wondering if you like to paint or colour because you have the word 'Painter' in your username? If you don't, you could try working with colours. Especially with pastel's. Pastel's are said to be soothing for the mind and psyche. Maybe wear something yellow during the week. Not a bold yellow, one that is soft and gentle. If you don't have one already, get your hands on one of those Mindfulness colouring books you can buy in bookshops and online? I have one and it's great to have. Including as part of a lunch or break in a busy (or not so busy) day. It keeps the mind active when you don't feel like going for a walk. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted June 21, 2016 11:37 PM
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DannyCappy
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posted June 21, 2016 11:39 PM
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Debby4
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posted June 22, 2016 12:29 AM
I would definitely consultant a professional. You may be depressed. :c
Also you may not need to ask questions. You may just need to talk with someone and let all of your emotions pour out. Maybe talk with yourself first, weird I know but try it, and be honest with yourself. Cry, scream, break stuff, do whatever make you feel better. What's upsetting you now?
What's making you feel useless?
Can you do anything to help?
Can the people around you do anything to help?
Can people over the internet do anything to help?
Etc.
I really hope you get out of your funk and realize how useful you are, how much you bring to this world, also you never know who's day you make just by being around. c:
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Valentine
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posted June 22, 2016 01:14 AM
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Originally posted by blindpainter:
Can anyone help me? I feel horrible, depressed andd suicidal. I have no friends no job and everyone hates me i don't know what to do please help
You are Loved, please accept the advice that's been given you in good Faith. There is always Hope. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted June 22, 2016 01:51 AM
hi blind painter i have evidence of godIP: Logged |
LaughingQuiet
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posted June 22, 2016 12:17 PM
Hi DannyCappy, I'm glad to be of help. You and blindpainter would probably also benefit from what Debby4 has said. I'm trying to quote Danny4's post into this the way Valentine quoted blindpainter but I can't get the quote feature to work for me. For blindpainter and DannyCappy, here is a link to a short list of recommended self-help books that you might find useful:
www.spring.org.uk/2008/01/6-self-help-books-for-depression.php I don't know what you religious views are, but Soren's words of their evidence of God can provide comfort as well. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted June 22, 2016 08:15 PM
LaughingQuietThanks a billion! Blindpainter You did not come back here.Hope you are alright!! 💕 IP: Logged |
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