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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 5171
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 11:29 PM
  
a friend said I could stay with her when I moved to Chicago. She was super excited and she really needed the money and of course when I got super excited she went back on her offer. She said I can only stay a month then she sends me a text saying more like a week instead. Literally this is after I turned in my resignation. I personally feel of she's always doing stuff like this. Pulls the rug underneath my happiness. My question is why did she do this? What the hell is this girl's problem?
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furrybunny
Knowflake Posts: 1086
From: NYC
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted June 27, 2016 11:42 PM
i'm not sure but did she say why exactly u can stay only for a week. I know the feeling of people sabotaging things when ur happy :/ sorry u feel that way.i pulled emperor 4 cups and prince of wands
I'm getting the feeling a male figure is involved. maybe her roommate/ landlord or a guy she might be interested in. just doesnt feel intentional or malicious on her part. maybe if u offer her to pay her alittle rent itll help? let me know if this resonates. i am new lols IP: Logged |
Enneline
Knowflake Posts: 5217
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 11:49 PM
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 5171
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 11:56 PM
Thank you. I did offer to pay her. There is a guy that she likes and he likes her but yet she doesn't really like him because he has some issues... But yet this is her only option and she has not dated in over 5 years. So there's probably some truth to that. But a good friend want to be like yeah quit that place you can just stay with me and then the day after say sorry you can't stay with me anymore.
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Originally posted by furrybunny:
i'm not sure but did she say why exactly u can stay only for a week. I know the feeling of people sabotaging things when ur happy :/ sorry u feel that way.i pulled emperor 4 cups and prince of wands
I'm getting the feeling a male figure is involved. maybe her roommate/ landlord or a guy she might be interested in. just doesnt feel intentional or malicious on her part. maybe if u offer her to pay her alittle rent itll help? let me know if this resonates. i am new lols
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 5171
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 11:59 PM
Enneline... I think both the reasons are probably accurate. But I do think she's a false friend and he has a bad habit of this crap. You can tell someone go ahead quit your job you can stay with me and then the day after you quit so sorry you can't stay with me. I don't know what's worse of a friend doing. I'm so ****** off. Anyways. The future that you want with this company or person is not going to happen like you want it to. Is this like a temporary assignment or like a gig instead of full-time employment? I see some involvement but it's more like it I guess third person involvement. So u are there but you're not really permanently there... But that could also be a metaphor. Like you're visualizing yourself getting this in your visualizing yourself walking down the halls but I don't see it happening the way you would like it too. I think you'll hear from them after 3 days. So maybe around 2 weeksIP: Logged |
BeagleTango
Knowflake Posts: 123
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Registered: Jan 2016
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posted June 28, 2016 05:44 AM
Hi Cherful,
I can exchange with you when I reach home in 3-4hr.
For now, my question:
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Thank You!
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 5171
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 28, 2016 11:31 AM
Beagles....sure. I'd like to know when I'm gonna do about my living situation while I'm in Chicago?I picked up that he needed a sympathetic listing ear. He feels misunderstood about something, Don't see it being related to u. But he was lonely, needed to have someone who understands himself. So he call u, hoping he could talk about his issue IP: Logged |
BeagleTango
Knowflake Posts: 123
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Registered: Jan 2016
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posted June 28, 2016 12:29 PM
@cherfulStrength-9.Coins-7.Cups
Fell out while shuffling: Knight.Cups
Your strength & patience appears to help you during this period of uncertainty in your living situation.
Money wise, you appears to be very confident, even though you may not be earning as much as before. There will be some attractive choices in regards to your accommodation and can be quite confusing to choose. But trust your instinct and you'll get the one that suits you.
There's a possibility that a man will be there to assist you in your accommodation. I hope it turns out well for you. It's sad to know how someone can turn their back on a friend after they have agreed to help out. ----
Thank you for the reading!
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