posted July 04, 2016 01:10 PM            

This one I found on another website, he said that this spread is very good when you want to ask how someone feels about another person, situation, etc.. just anything in general, to get a better understanding.

I will want to do only feelings towards another person.. much easier to start off.

First off, only 2 people.. no more than two people. I should say one person since my energy has been up and down, but only two people. I probably won't be able to do it two days in row, so if you are able to wait then you can join this.

Second off, it may take me time to actually get to this since I have another person to read on so, it will take me time.

Third off, once I'm done with this reading, it's your responsibility to give me feedback, or else don't post.

1.Intuitivefish
2.andstuff

No more after two please, unless I open this back up. This is an experiment so I need as much feedback as possible.

posted July 04, 2016 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I would kindly ask for this. I can also exchange in return
I will give feedback I always do.

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posted July 04, 2016 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Hi ILP

how does this work again? You asking about our feelings and us giving you feedback? Sounds cool, I can do this if you feel like including me

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posted July 04, 2016 01:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Okay so how do you want to ask about?

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About A.
My initial is "I".

posted July 04, 2016 06:58 PM            

1.The most general emotions, i.e. surfacing emotions; How they feel at first glance and reaction:

On this card shows three swords. It's like as if someone was hurt from the past, or it's like you two broke up. I see this card as in hurting deep inside or may feel that they hurt the other person. So I see that he knows that something had happened between you two that had caused pain, he feels that way.

3 of swords

2&3. More indepth motions and read respectively (two influencing three), hidden and misunderstood emotions [ they might not quite understand], emotions too complex for words or to speak about, emotions evolving from 1.

On the first card shows a woman with wings on a horse, she's looking back at a man that is at gravestone. It seems that he had lost someone that he loved dearly. I see what is hidden is that something about his feelings are starting to change and I think it's still continuing to change, with this card I'm not exactly sure what is it changing to. The next card shows a woman with a cup in her hand, it kinda looks like she's offering the cup. I see this that, since his feelings are changing, he may actually be more open with you, he may even try to be more romantic in a way. Do you ever notice that? He tries to be friendly with you and tries to be the first to do things with you. Since this is hidden, I can tell that he doesn't really like showing his sensitive side much, does he?

Death + knight of cups

4.What the person tells the world about how they feel which isn't always the truth and/or absent from the complete truth; What is shown about how they feel:

It seems he may tell the world that he's a strong person, he's able to get through any pain that he goes through, because he may 'think' that he been through alot already. He may tell the world that he's being honest with his words, but in reality he may not know how to cope with the pain and being alone. I still see this card as in being sensitive a bit as well. This is suppose to be pointing to you, but either way.

Queen of swords

5.What they truly feel but dont tell anyone; What they wish they could tell and if they do tell someone this is what they speak of, this is a rare occurence ( should be read in comparance with 4.):

On this card shows 5 people with wands in their hands, it looks like they are about to fight. I sense that he may struggle with telling you how he feels.. it may seem to be challenging to him, so I do see that he struggles with telling the real truth. He may even feel frustrated that he can't be totally honest, but if he was to tell someone, he would say that it's something that he can't really express.

5 of wands

6. Emotions that isn't realized; Not ignored but instead have not comprehensible to them at this point in time; What they need to acknowledge:

On this card shows a young woman with a lion. I see this card as in being patient and needing to understand each other more. He needs to understand that there is need of having the courage, and that he is able to handle his emotions well.

Strength

7. The blockage of emotions; What prevents them from their wishes (which is in conjunction with 8.):

On this card shows a man on the look out with a wand with fire on it. It seems that he's being guarded about something. Does he not trust too easily or he has his guard up when it comes to being close to another person? This could be that since he have been hurt in the past, he may think he will get hurt again.

9 of wands

8.Wishes in regards to their emotions; What they wish and hope for emotionally in regards to the question:

On this card shows a man with his arms crossed while sitting at a chair with a desk. The man doesn't look satisfied or happy at all. I think he doesn't want that to happen, he doesn't want someone to lose interest in him or if he feels something for the other person, he doesn't want everything to stay the same, he would want some type of movement going on. I don't think he likes boredom at all either.

4 of cups

9.(Sometimes we wish for things we know we wont get and when this occurs we over come our aspiration with expectations and this is posisition nine.) Expectations about the maturation of emotions, how they feel it will turn out:

On this card shows a woman that is sneaking away with 7 swords. Usually this card is not always good to get, but I don't think so in this situation. I think he expects to avoid telling you how he feels, I think he's afraid to actually confront you about he feels.. he may need to find the courage in him to do so, or he may find another way to approach you about it, trying to find an easy way out.

7 of swords

posted July 05, 2016 03:22 AM            

Lets go card by card :

- Yes he was hurt in the past, he also did the hurting but I know of his past and know this is true.
- he does hide his feelings yes, I do see a change in him in the way he expresses himself, he is being a bit more mature about it, yes he is being more open at times, telling me how he feels even about other things.
no he isnt used to being senstive.
-no he doesnt know how to cope and he goes into depressive episodes. he overthinks things.
- yes he struggles a lot, he doesnt actually say a lot with words but tries to show it though music or gestures.
- the strength when it comes first shows me how accurate cards are because of him being a Leo also. A lot of patience has been needed with him and I showed a lot of patience to finally get to a more normal part with him.
- he is very guarded about his emotions, has his wall up pretty good, he has issues also from childhood that make him not trust many people.
- this just makes sense, he doesnt like boredom and likes to have aa lot of things happen and activeness
- yes I do see this in him. he does have lucid moments when he does say or do something with his emotions but those are not regular and more scarce. His safest way is through music, sharing songs, sending...

posted July 05, 2016 11:51 AM            

Glad it made sense, and may be the spread would help some with your situation.

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posted July 05, 2016 07:17 PM            

I hope this make sense.

1.The most general emotions, i.e. surfacing emotions; How they feel at first glance and reaction:

On this card shows a big shiny sword. I would think that she can be calm and collected. She could be the type to communicate and try to be honest with her words. Since this is a sword, I can see that this doesn't really show emotions, it's just the mental state. I think that she can be a bit harsh when she tells the truth, so being the sword, they can cut both ways if not being careful.

Ace of swords

2. & 3. More indepth motions and read respectively (two influencing three), hidden and misunderstood emotions [ they might not quite understand], emotions too complex for words or to speak about, emotions evovling from 1:

On the first card it shows 3 people working together. I would think that what is hidden is that there is a need to build something, it's about working together to reach your goals, to be able to earn the rewards in the end. I think that you two can work together, or may be get along? But the next card, that is the devil tells me that it might not be such a good idea. May be she feel that there may be some jealousy here or something that is not very healthy in a way. There could be someone that likes to be the controlling type? There is also another way to see this card as in having some type of bind together once you two do work together on building something. Does that make sense? .. I can't tell about the the devil in this.

3 of pentacles + the devil

4. What the person tells the world about how they feel which isnt always the truth and/or absent from the complete truth; What is shown about how they feel:

On this card shows 2 women putting up decorations for a small ceremony. This card is about feeling of home, the feeling of being in the same community. In reality she feels that you two aren't in the same community, I think that you two are different, may be not from the same area of course. She may feel that it would be exciting to get to know you or talk to you, but in reality she may feel the opposite of that.

4 of wands

5.What they truly feel but dont tell anyone; What they wish they could tell and if they do tell someone this is what they speak of, this is a rare occurence ( should be read in comparance with 4.):

What she truly feels is that, this could be something new to her. She may feel that there are things to still explore about you. She may actually think that this is something that could go pretty well if she took the chance. It's about letting go of your fears and just jumping in without caring too much of what others think.

The fool

6. Emotions that isnt realized; Not ignored but instead have not comprehensible to them at this point in time; What they need to acknowledge:

She may need to acknowledge that she needs to be more open and not so closed off. She needs to show her emotional side sometimes, to show people that she's not always cold but has feelings too. So I think it's important for her to be able to show herself as being open.

Ace of cups

7. The blockage of emotions; What prevents them from their wishes (which is in conjunction with 8.):

With this card, I would assume that she is the type that likes her space. She likes to be alone and she is okay with being alone. She may think that she have all she needs right in front her, even if others don't really think so.

9 of pentacles

8. Wishes in regards to their emotions; What they wish and hope for emotionally in regards to the question:

On this card shows a man being sad. May be she doesn't want to be disappointed in the long run or may miss out on some type opportunity. This may had happened before in the past where she missed out on something and regret it before or she went through some type of an emotional loss.

5 of cups

9. (Sometimes we wish for things we know we wont get and when this occurs we over come our aspiration with expections and this is posisition nine.) Expections about the maturation of emotions, how they feel it will turn out:

I see that this card shows a man that is sitting in a chair. This man is usually the type to be stable and have grounded foundation. I think what she expects is that she will finally be able to handle her emotions more as in being more grounded with herself. She wants to show that she is able to not let her emotions control her and that her foundation is very stable.

The emperor

I hope this make sense. I have to say when I read the first few cards, I felt a bit off.. like something was missing or she doesn't know you alot like I thought.

posted July 08, 2016 01:20 AM            

can I be the one sitter?