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Emsie
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From: Hungary
Registered: Jul 2012

posted July 08, 2016 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I need some help figuring out a love situation. Currently I have a temporary job, and there's a guy at my workplace who I really like. It caught me by surprise... His initial is R. I feel a certain connection to him, but I just don't know what exactly the deal is. From my perspective - he started to act very strange, today I said hello to him, but did not get any response. Someone said he's a very reserved guy.
Could someone give me enlightenment about this situation? (It certainly triggers my ego, and it hurt me)

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Orange
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From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009

posted July 08, 2016 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I asked - How does R. feel about you

and I got

Child - Anchor - Rider - Tree - Crossroads

It looks like R. is a bit immature in those things called flirt and romance. It seems he doesnt have much experience in that area. His attitude is an act of overcompensation. Anchor + Tree shows that he is pretty set in his ways, reserved, slow to change and he feels awkward when his cage is rattled. The crossroads shows that he is unsure about you and uncertain if you really like him or you are just playing. The Rider in the middle shows that despite him acting awkward, he is craving excitement and it may very well be that soon he will start opening up more and pay more attention to you.

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Emsie
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From: Hungary
Registered: Jul 2012

posted July 09, 2016 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much Orange! I also feel that he might be as confused as I am. I totally agree with you about this overcompensating thing. He could have been hurt before, I guess, so I'm not surprised. I mean, he looks so shy and reserved - just like me. I have the feeling that this all could be mutual, because I am a bit caged in as well, and he just appeared on the scene one day, I felt attacked, so I became kind of defensive. To be honest, this triggered ego-plays in me, so I try to mask my interest as much as I can, I just don't want to make a fool of myself like what if he isn't interested in me at all, and things like that. o.o Another funny fact is that I don't have much experience regarding romance as well, so this will take some time, I guess.

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