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posted July 24, 2016 11:12 PM            

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Want to do some practice

Leave your questions

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posted July 24, 2016 11:59 PM            

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ok, great.
What is your question?

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posted July 25, 2016 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
ok, great.
What is your question?

Can you see how my guy . is feeling right now, we had an argument recently and I wonder if we will be able to continue the relationship

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I see him being very closed off. It actually bothers him to even think about the argument. I see him focusing on other activities, lots of physical movement as a way to forget about the pain he is feeling in regards to you.. Can you continue? I do think it is in your hands... It will just depend on how you go about things. This guy has a sensitive spot, although he does feel more airy than emotional... he feels like the type who will more easily run than to confront that pain.. So, if you want to repair things, it actually almost feels like all you need to do is just make a move to make things okay again, reach out.. I don't feel like you necessarily need to delve into the argument or why it happened, but sort of extend an olive branch to show you are over it ? Does this resonate?

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posted July 25, 2016 12:41 AM            

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yes, very much so!
Thank you, MB.

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posted July 25, 2016 12:56 AM            

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i feel like him blaming you is his way of just not wanting to talk about it, not wanting to get into it. He just wants it to be done. I do feel that he still cares, but it feels like reconnection will be more from forward movement as opposed to moving backwards, if that makes sense?

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posted July 25, 2016 01:53 AM              

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Hi Blyss, great to see you here.

My newly budding relationship ended abruptly - would you be able to say what this experience was supposed to teach me? And the big question - do you see me meeting anyone else soon?

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posted July 25, 2016 01:58 AM            

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Oh no, sorry to hear that dear. Let's see.. I see him having not come out of fear. He basically took the easier route. I think it can happen with relationships that develop over the computer, it's like you get closer bc you really are at a safe distance, I feel he chickened out a bit, sort of like there was a lot on the line of how the meeting would actually go and he chose not to deal with it.

If I do remember, I think it was seen for you in previous readings that you would meet someone in person, right? I am still feeling that is the case. I think the lesson here for you is really just learning to open up emotionally, learning to take risks and to do things even though they feel slightly uncomfortable. You should be proud of yourself that you were in fact willing to go through with this meeting! it is not uncommon for people to get too nervous and chicken out! This man did not step into his big boy shoes, so he wouldn't have been man enough for you anyways!

Brush it off love, you are learning how to open up and make connections, I definitely believe there is a man out there for you and you are only getting closer and closer to meeting him

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posted July 25, 2016 02:01 AM            

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Hi miss+! Hope you are doing well. I can exchange in the morning if you want. If you can answer my Q : Will Sean ever apologize for the way he has treated me? Does he at least feel bad for the things he has said etc. This person has hurt me so much I want to move past it but its hard.

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posted July 25, 2016 02:04 AM            

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Hi miss+! Hope you are doing well. I can exchange in the morning if you want. If you can answer my Q : Will Sean ever apologize for the way he has treated me? Does he at least feel bad for the things he has said etc. This person has hurt me so much I want to move past it but its hard.

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Hey dear, am doing well thanks! As far as Sean, I am not sure about the apology... It is most definitely possible in the future, but I would not sit around and wait for it by any means.

To me he feels angry and emotionally immature. He doesn't feel to have the capacity right now to acknowledge what he did, let alone apologize. It doesn't have anything to do with you, and acknowledging it to you doesn't necessarily mean it will just be made better....

I have been in similar situations and I know how much you may want the validation of having him admit what he did was wrong... but don't put the power for your healing in his hands. Take it back. Look at what inside you allowed yourself to be so hurt by his ignorance, bc ignorance is what it was!! It's like a little baby hitting you, they don't know better, it shouldn't make you feel lesser about yourself!

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posted July 25, 2016 02:07 AM              

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Thank you Blyss.
Could I please ask another question - please let me have yours as well.
I have been looking for a builder to extend my kitchen now for over a year - do you see me finding someone. Should I approach someone who has already given me a quote (all expensive) or will it be someone new?

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posted July 25, 2016 02:16 AM            

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Thanks miss! I'm sort of annoyed at myself for spending so much time and putting so much of my energy into someone that does not respect me.

I am angry at him for painting me as a sl%t when I am not. I am FAR from it, and although I know who I really am on the inside, his words did hurt me. Sometimes words do so much damage, more than physical hurt. He sees me as someone I am not, due to some dumb mistake that I did in the past. It was due to that dumb mistake that we met & i wish he would leave it in the past but he will forever see me as that type.

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posted July 25, 2016 02:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Thank you Blyss.
Could I please ask another question - please let me have yours as well.
I have been looking for a builder to extend my kitchen now for over a year - do you see me finding someone. Should I approach someone who has already given me a quote (all expensive) or will it be someone new?

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hey dear, sorry I posted a response but it must have been lost? anyways, i do feel you may be able to go back to a man who gave you a quote previously and do some haggling? perhaps if he can do it in a slow season he could reduce the price a bit. I feel that there is someone you've met with who would be willing to work with you a bit.

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posted July 25, 2016 02:29 AM              

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Thank you, Blyss, that's very helpful. Do you have any Qs?

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posted July 25, 2016 02:35 AM            

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Thanks miss! I'm sort of annoyed at myself for spending so much time and putting so much of my energy into someone that does not respect me.

I am angry at him for painting me as a sl%t when I am not. I am FAR from it, and although I know who I really am on the inside, his words did hurt me. Sometimes words do so much damage, more than physical hurt. He sees me as someone I am not, due to some dumb mistake that I did in the past. It was due to that dumb mistake that we met & i wish he would leave it in the past but he will forever see me as that type.

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forgive yourself my dear we all have done it and doesn't make you any less of a person. Just see him for what he is. He is insecure and jealous and he is trying to hurt you because of it, that is the truth. I am sorry you are dealing with this... someone who loves and understands you would NEVER hold your past over your head.

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posted July 25, 2016 02:39 AM            

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Thank you, Blyss, that's very helpful.

Do you have any Qs?

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thanks love, let me know how it goes! I'd love to have some cards pulled on this boy I've been speaking with named C. I had a dream a while ago saying "C is your soulmate".. I wonder if it is this same one (I know another by the same name)

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posted July 25, 2016 02:41 AM            

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Im feeling overleary nervous today. I woke up this way.
I have no reason to.

Do you get why? Anything abot today like might something might happen?

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posted July 25, 2016 02:46 AM            

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Im feeling overleary nervous today. I woke up this way.
I have no reason to.

Do you get why? Anything abot today like might something might happen?

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I think mostly you have some heavy energy around you now that needs to be dissipated. I think it's making you more sensitive to picking up other people's stresses as well. I think only some minor annoyances could happen, but I think that if you do something now to get your energy flowing you can avoid any annoyance that would come from small disturbances. I think you're extremely sensitive to energy and when you get thrown off in the slightest it can make you really sensitive to any negativites around you, if that makes sense? I think taking some time for self care, doing whatever makes you feel better be it a bath or a walk should help

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posted July 25, 2016 02:47 AM            

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It makes sense but thats not it. Im always sensitive and pick up others energy not just sometimes..
This is different.
Thnx

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posted July 25, 2016 02:57 AM            

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It makes sense but thats not it. Im always sensitive and pick up others energy not just sometimes..
This is different.
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ok dear well that is still what I am getting! I understand, I am sensitive especially in person with picking up energies, but I definitely can get energies lodged in myself and I get confused and nervous. Nervousness comes from the heart, picking up on something. I just feel that what you're picking up on is not really something that YOU specifically need to be worried about, I think its just because you're extra extra sensitive now so it is feeling stronger and more personal.. Anyways, that is just what it feels to me but i wish you luck in working it out!

here is advice from a yogi I admire

Fear comes from the heart. If ever you feel overcome by dread of some illness or accident, you should inhale and exhale deeply, slowly, and rhythmically several times, relaxing with each exhalation. This helps the circulation to become normal. If your heart is truly quiet you cannot feel fear at all.

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posted July 25, 2016 03:01 AM            

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Thanks on advice. Its not fear.
I know something related to me is gonna happen.. so I had this feelng before its not the 1st time.

Thanks again.

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posted July 25, 2016 03:20 AM              

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Re C: 3 of wands, 4 of wands, Queen of cups

This is looking very hopeful. Great to have 4 of wands in the present position. Your relationship with C will spell satisfaction, stability and good times. The Queen of Cups is again emphasising the previous card and that you will develop the confidence to take risks in love and life.

Nice!

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posted July 25, 2016 03:26 AM              

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Blyss, just noticed you speaking of meditation. There is an inspiring thread in Universal Codes where someone has described their kundalini experiences. It is worth reading:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/004630.html

Linda, whose thread it is, said that my heart chakra had opened when I posted on the thread a couple of weeks ago. Wow! I was pleased.

ps. Blyss, could you say if either of these two builders I had quotes from look promising - Paul or MIchael.

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posted July 25, 2016 02:41 PM              

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posted July 25, 2016 07:18 PM            

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thanks sweetheart!!

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