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Topic: Father has mental problems?
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Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1062 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 26, 2016 07:51 PM
I'm posting this thread because of a discussion I had with my mom regarding how my dad has been acting. She's been saying that what's been happening has been so bad that she "doesn't want to be married to someone like that" and that there may be something going on with him mentally, which is enough reason for me to post this. A lot of it is surrounded under a job he's been planning on doing for a church regarding their hardwood floors. My dad is a hardwood floor contractor/installer and does everything from install to finishing, and people will call my Mom if they want him to install hardwood floors and setup everything with her so that he can go there and install the hardwood. Well, basically what's been happening is that he's been becoming extremely frustrated out of nowhere over issues that he's been fabricating out of his own mind apparently. At first, he was really happy to do the job since it was a commercial job and he's wanted to do the floors for a church like this, and everything was going good at first. Suddenly, the priest sends us a picture of what he wanted it to look like and it turns out that it was totally different than what they expected with the angled floors and different wood sizes, and so the price involved in setting such up was going to be much higher. Well, the priest kept trying to figure out if there was a way around the current price quote and see if he could find it cheaper when there was no other way, which could've possibly irritated him. But then out of nowhere, he starts slamming churches and saying things like "They think a nice hardwood floor is going to bring them closer to god! I'm sure god's thinking 'oh yeah, these guys are going to heaven because they have a nicer looking church.'" When the priest said nothing of such directly and through his emails. My mom states it is as if he literally fabricated this issue out of his own mind and made it as if it was a reality when it really was not. Today, he was in a good mood and called my mom to inform the priest of the wood being delivered to the church and everything that was going to be set up regarding it all (I don't know the technical specifics). He actually was in an overall good mood, but when he left to go do a bid for another person, apparently he came stomping in the house all angrily telling my mom to have the priest sign the contract or he won't do the job. My mom couldn't do that because the priest was out of the country at the moment, so he couldn't sign the contract as my dad wanted, but my dad said that regardless if the contract is not signed he wouldn't do it, and stormed off angrily. I think the more pressing issue here is this sudden, erratic explosions of anger he's been having that make no sense whatsoever. Ever since the 10th of July, according to my mom (our first day back from our trip to Ohio), he's been acting like this, and it has been so bad that she wouldn't want to be married to a guy that was like that. What surprised me is how he came in angrily without any reason to (no one directly provoked him in the first place), and spouted off these insults out of thin air. I was wondering what you guys thought of this, and what may be prompting her to think of the situation in such a negative light. I'm honestly surprised that this is how she's been feeling, but then again, I'm not around my father 24/7 so I don't know what he's doing all the time. Here's his chart. Thanks in advance to all who are willing to make a helpful contribution ------------------ Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First 8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 67674 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 27, 2016 02:24 PM
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aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 589 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 28, 2016 08:24 PM
There's Mars quincunx Uranus. Maybe this could be a source of anger that's more spontaneous in nature? Natally, I just know that Jupiter opposite Uranus can hold senseless judgements when it comes to certain things which may seem...odd to others. They tend to be a bit rebellious and nonconforming too so if they believe something to be true than they won't stray from that and everyone else around may be "wrong".
Is there something else that could be happening in his life that's causing frustration? IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 589 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 28, 2016 08:26 PM
**I meant to say 'Natally' for both aspects**IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1062 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 29, 2016 09:22 PM
Well he just seems frustrated with people all the time, and often is upset over his job, which he often claims to hate. He's currently on a trip at the moment, which should help him out and calm him down, but he is easily irritated and becomes quite unreasonable when angry. He's also very frustrated with finding insurance and health care, considering that it took ages for them to find a hospital/university that was going to help my mom out when she was going through her state 4 breast cancer. There's just a lot of stressful stuff going on, and with his Mars in Gemini, he can't restrain from releasing it. ------------------ Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First 8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1756 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 30, 2016 09:25 AM
I don't read charts especially well at all, so to this point I've taken that as my 'free pass not respond' here - especially in light of the fact that I don't generally do health translations...but I keep being drawn to respond to this one.I can't help feeling, every time I see even just this heading, that there's an underlying neurological progression here. I really hope I'm wrong, but I can't not say anything, as it hits me every time I see this topic and the content only supports that inclination. Encourage your father to see his doctor, please. And as difficult as I understand it is, please encourage your mom to be patient but persistent in efforts to get him to do the same.
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aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 589 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 31, 2016 05:37 PM
have you checked his transits? he may just be stressed about the job. but i wouldn't call it a 'mental' problem just yet. maybe to you or your mother it may not seem like a big deal but in his mind, it's a source a stress? IP: Logged | |