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dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 31, 2016 02:16 PM
  
You have been very accurate in the past for me. And didn't know if you'd like to exchange. So L and I have been seeing each other still...has been going good until this week and specifically the last couple of days. So of course he's blocked me again. So is it over? IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7084
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 31, 2016 04:08 PM
darn it, Dusti, the first card I pulled was CoffinCoffin - Fish - Stars - Mice - Man so this is how it goes - every time he blocks you, he thinks - "This is it, I am done! I cant deal with this any longer. Cut!" But then again, you have managed to get under this man's skin ( Fish). You easily get on his nerves, like a direct plug into his nerves, and the only way for him to deal with it is to cut it. But he likes you and he likes that you are submissive to him. It turns him on. So no, I dont think it's over. The Stars in the middle shows you have an unspoken bond, like an invisible cord that connects you. But it won't be easy either. Mountain showed up while I was laying the cards, the card just turned over on its own, and laid on top of the Man card. so I am not sure this is the IT relationship for you. IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 31, 2016 05:25 PM
This all makes complete sense! No I don't feel he is IT for me either especially with all this unbalance and we are both libras so this unbalance for me is bad! But there is a draw there for sure on both parts as much as I would like to say there isn't. I just know I can't keep doing this... and for now I am going to do some reflection on myself on why I am doing it with him and why I'm allowing it to happen because it's not healthy for me or him. Thank you so much! You hit the nail on the head for sure and once again I feel 100% accurate. Any idea on time? I know that's a hard one. How are you doing as well? I know last time we spoke you were having a hard time with the loss of your beloved dog....has it gotten any better? I think about you often and always send good energy your way. I'm always here if you need a friend to talk to and would gladly give you my email if you'd like. Any news from your ex as well? Has he pulled his head out of his rear and come to his senses? IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7084
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 31, 2016 05:49 PM
hey there Dusti,I am not good with timing. time is very fluid to me. I am sorry you have to go thru this. You never know what the life lessons are in everything we deal with but it does serve a purpose. I am going thru a similar thing with my guy, we pull and push and it's exhausting and hurtful, but hopefully there will be a middle ground where we both meet, not just one or the other doing the extra mile but both meeting in the middle. I am getting over the depression after the dogs passed away. I still dont go in their room because it carries their smell and the sheets they slept on are still on their bed, but the passing time is doing its healing number. Thanks for asking and thanks for the positive energy, my Libra girl ( i have Venus in Libra, btw). :-)
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dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 02, 2016 06:48 PM
You will get to the point where you can go in there. You aren't at fault for what happened and they know that...now you need to forgive yourself but that takes time. Hopefully you stop beating yourself up over it. I had a blast from the past contact me telling me he missed me and wants a relationship with me. R himself and at a time when I'm weak over all this with L but I don't know if he can be trusted. He wasn't the most consistent person either.....but was more stable than L! What to do... IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7084
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2016 07:05 PM
I remember R, he was the sport coach, right? I'll pull some cards for u later. What should be the question? Can you try me and see if you can see one question of mine, pls - Today i put another one of my houses for sale/rent. Its a quite expensive one. When will it go out? I prefer selling but rent is good too.
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dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 02, 2016 09:35 PM
Yes he's the basketball coach. I'm curious as to if he really wants a relationship and if so, will he put the effort in. Will be right back with yours! IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 02, 2016 09:51 PM
Will your house sell quickly... I suck at timing too! cage, mask, clown, curtain and ladder. So I feel like something at first is going to keep this from happening, I almost feel like someone is going to come along and be really interested in the house but there is going to be something they are "hiding" that is going to hold them back from being to move forward as fast as they or you want. These are going to be revealed though and the last card, the ladder is about success and goals so the goal will be met. So yes it will sell quickly but not as quickly as you want if that makes sense. I asked if renting would be a better option and got Anchor, turtle, butterfly, scissors, fox So it looks like renting would place restrictions on the house first and foremost and requite more patience(anchor and turtle). The butterfly is about transformation but with the scissors and fox I feel like it would be a bad transformation here for the house and not in your best interest. It looks like the renters may not be the best ppeople either with the fox and would require quite a bit of cunning to cut them out of the house so to speak from what the cards are showing. If you can wait and sell outright, I would do that....less trouble from what it looks like from the cards IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7084
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 02, 2016 10:53 PM
thanks, I'd like if I could sell it instead of renting it, yes. as about R.. Stork - Snake - Book - Tree - Fish it looks by the cards that he is going to change his opinion regarding a relationship. He is just bored right now ( Tree) and needs something sexy ( snake). I think he is unpredictable at this point. IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 03, 2016 06:32 AM
Exactly what I thought and sounds just like him.....ugh. men just suck and I think I need to let both of them go and move on! IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 04, 2016 04:27 PM
So I ended things with L completely... just too draining for me. And ended things with R. IP: Logged |
luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 608
From: Boston ma
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted August 04, 2016 09:52 PM
Can I join?
I ran into c.c who we had a thing 5 years ago and he's telling me he's always been in love with me and etc but I'm not sure if I'm pushing him away because I'm afraid of commitment or my vibes are bad about him helpIP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 09, 2016 08:48 PM
Orange how are things going for you? Is the depression any better? Things any better with your guy? IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7084
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 09, 2016 09:04 PM
Ah! I just thought of asking you about how things were with R. and I see you beat me to it...
Any developments with R. ?
How are things on your end?
Wanna swap cards? I dont really have a burning question but i wont mind it
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dustib
Knowflake Posts: 2827
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 09, 2016 09:30 PM
Would love to! I had met someone new, D, and things seemed good then he poofed and ignored me today. Why and is it done? Seems to be a thing with me.... What is your question? Or questions? And men suck IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7084
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 09, 2016 09:35 PM
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And men suck
Deer balls! OK... D .
I asked How D. feels about you right now House - Garden - Tree - Mice - Mountain Tree is in the center and in a new connection, Tree means the initial sparks has started to wear down. Garden means he is not looking for a relationship but rather needs fun in his life and wants to hang out with you for drinks and pleasure. Mice and Mountain at the end of the spread means nothing but issues and blockages with guy.
I dont think things will go well in the longer run, dusti. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7084
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 09, 2016 09:42 PM
yes, it seems like a thing with you, you do attract them like bees to a honey, but then something snaps.
They always come back, thou, I noticed...IP: Logged |
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