posted August 07, 2016 07:00 AM            

so in regards to ur question I directly asked if she is a genuine friend, and I got:

Page of cups - 10 of pentacles - Hierophant - Empress

This woman is definitely genuine in her intentions and in letting you get involved with her grandkids. I think she saw that u have potential with kids, that u are a kid at heart and with good vibes that would be really beneficial for her grandkids. As a hierophant herself, I think she has at the same time protective feelings towards you, it looks like she may feel that she is more mature than you or more wise, and see you more as a young heart which inspires her at the same time and makes her want to teach you a lot of things, to smother you and nurture you, just like a mom.
Since I just asked about her, if she is genuine or not, with these cards u can be more than sure that shes genuine: Page of cups = innocent, Empress=best at heart, and Hierophant always does the right thing, so she wouldnt want to hurt you or smthing bad to happen to u.

Does this resonate?

posted August 07, 2016 10:58 PM            

The first card I’d say is you. You are exercising your practical nature and probably wanting the car to run your errands, that you are growing and learning about these issues (driving). A young person starting her journey. The second card: My initial impression is that it meant thwarted hopes as in you could never get the car when you wanted it. When I consulted my book it also can mean danger or deception. Just wondering: are you the sort of person who would be over confident regarding driving, maybe overestimating her abilities? Basically the card is saying, let it be. Don't be too attached to the car. Last card I think means you can get some help from a kind older female, not sure if your mother but basically a helper of some sort. If you have a driving instructor, are they an older female? I’m not sure who the Queen of Cups is, I thought maybe your mom. She should be helpful to you.

I drew a clarifier for the situation and got the Knight of Wands, charging on his horse (your dad). Is he a hot-tempered sort of bloke? Running around on all sorts of 'adventures'? Maybe he is impatient and there could be some arguments over who is to use the car, sort of thing. There could be some friction resulting from this especially if he has an unpredictable schedule.

So I asked, what should Lily do? And got the Moon and 6 of Swords. I’d say this means to realize that this situation is not going to be resolved quickly (Moon) and that there will be some difficulties/hurdles before getting to the next stage. Things are progressing but you may feel it is dragging on a bit. The 6 of Swords means to play around with questions, clarify things. I’d be asking: what sort of car would I be comfortable with, am I confident in my abilities, am I comfortable driving his car? Should I be looking around for other arrangements, another vehicle? I don’t know if you really need the car but if you do, is there any other sort of arrangement you can come to? Is there anyone else who can help out? An older female relative, perhaps?

If you are stuck with dad’s car, can you and he come to some sort of arrangement regarding usage? Both of you will have to be very organized to cope with unpredictable schedules. Don’t forget, the car comes with extra costs and responsibilities that you will have to handle. You will need to show him that you can be trusted with the car. Can you afford all this? Think things through carefully. Do not rush this situation.

posted August 08, 2016 06:07 AM            

yes, in any case my mom could offer some "help" with this situation and yes, my dad is the one with a really quick anger

this basically says to move on and not expect too much.. thanks a lot sweetheart! I was having some lil hope but seems that it is better if I dont have it

posted August 08, 2016 07:53 AM            

Maybe a nice way to think of it is, if dad lends you the car, it's a nice bonus. But not to rely on it, as such.