posted August 14, 2016 12:59 PM            

I need to know,how to heal from past quarrel and ending of friendship. I was the one who ended it and not nicely. But she (S) was horrible person to work with..selfish etc.

posted August 14, 2016 02:20 PM            

Take a bit of time to reflect on it. What led to the end of the friendship (and yes it is REALLY finished), also what did you contribute to it, what did not fit between you, and of course what did not fit about her for you, but then change your perspective, straighten your shoulder, count your blessings and leave it really behind. with the 6 of wnads coming up, maybe fill your time with occupations that make you feel enthusiastic and where you can feel very successful, surround yourself with people who appreciate you for the person you are, and really move on from the past. And after that analyzing period, don`t think of it anymore. At least not overthinking it.

posted August 14, 2016 02:24 PM            

I would say, first of all don't try to control your emotions too much and be patient with them, if u feel bad things then feel them. Don't pressure urself into feeling that easiness when u ain't ready yet. If u THINK u need to feel something good for her or something like forgiveness, kill those feelings too. Also, I'd say kill every hope u have in reconnecting the friendship, if u have it, and stop thinking about her; it's over and she can't hurt u no more. But if u happen to think about her and feel bad, just feel it, don't entangle urself with ur thoughts in those feeling. Have patience with urself.

posted August 14, 2016 02:43 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
hi! I can help

my question: am I doing good to myself if I completely cut off my family from my life?

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You now. IIII DES DENIERS

Clinging to material goods for security, power and stability.

What you need to know about the future situation if you cut of family from your life. AS DES DENIERS

The essence of, well-being, security and prosperity. Enough said

What you need to remember. II DES DENIERS

The juggling of material resources. The struggle to maintain balance in shifting circumstances. So maybe you need to consider how your decision affects your financial / material situation too.

Something that you need to learn to be able to better deal with the situation. CAVALIER DE COUPE

This is the Lovers in the tarot cards. In your situation I would say you need to learn to make decision and stick to at it. Not pondering forever between two options.

The outcome as per the advice of the previous cards. VIII DES COUPES

An inevitable ending. Walking away from a situation or relationship that has run its course. Allowing yourself to experience the grief process.

Hope this resonates

posted August 14, 2016 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Death - Hanged Man - 6 of wands

Take a bit of time to reflect on it. What led to the end of the friendship (and yes it is REALLY finished), also what did you contribute to it, what did not fit between you, and of course what did not fit about her for you, but then change your perspective, straighten your shoulder, count your blessings and leave it really behind. with the 6 of wnads coming up, maybe fill your time with occupations that make you feel enthusiastic and where you can feel very successful, surround yourself with people who appreciate you for the person you are, and really move on from the past. And after that analyzing period, don`t think of it anymore. At least not overthinking it.

it`s dead.
Your life goes on without her, and you have no ties in what way ever to her, and not responsibility, and no you donīt need to forgive her or reconcile with her. Sometimes people are just meant to be out of our lives.

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posted August 14, 2016 02:51 PM            

My question:
What intentions does P have in terms of the future of our connection? What does he want it to be(come)?

posted August 14, 2016 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
thanks Val,u! I actually didn't really understand the first part; does that mean it'll be difficult for me to get prosperity if I do this step or that it'll come to me?

oh, and the lovers part resonates 100%

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posted August 14, 2016 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
the 6 of wands looks like a great victory to me!

My question:
What intentions does P have in terms of the future of our connection? What does he want it to be(come)?

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What intentions does P have in terms of the future of his and Ceridwens connection?

TEMPERANCE

It suggests that P keeps to the middle path, try to keep calm and maintain a balance in his emotions. Temperance likes to grow, and knows that the best way to make real progress is through considered, moderate change. Like: Let's just take it one day at a time, and see what happens.

FIVE OF SWORDS

Whitout not knowing your situation my guess would be P feels like he is fighting a losing battle. He might like you a lot, but feel that for example because of the age difference or geographical distance it would be very difficult to make it work. Or perhaps he thinks he has no chance in keeping you. But he's trying nonetheless.

THE WHEEL OF FORTUNE

Feelings of fate can be especially strong. I'd say that the person's feelings are changing and that they're realizing that it's about time to make a decision. He knows the situation is either going to have to move to the next level or end.

What does he want it to be(come)?

TWO OF CUPS

This card indicates the love or deep friendship binding two people. This is all about emotional partnerships and how mutual support and understanding are brought into them.

posted August 14, 2016 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Valmu,

Do you have more questions for exchange?
If u feel like doing more, i'd like a clarification on my relationship with MR.

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Sure why not Is S attempting to cause damage to me somehow in the future? Is she succeeding?

posted August 14, 2016 04:18 PM            

The question would be what is the purpose of my relationship with him.

posted August 14, 2016 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Valmu,

The question would be what is the purpose of my relationship with him.

Brb with yours

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Relationship now: FOUR OF PENTACLES

Someone that's unavailable emotionally. One of you may be clinging on to your relationships and not letting go. This relationship from the outside looks good, but it is not growing, not letting it grow or flourish. One partner may feel over powered or smothered.

What is the purpose of Oranges relationship with MR?

SIX OF SWORDS

Hmmm...hard to interpret.. This card represents a journey from troubled to smoother times. It may represent an emotional problem, such as depression or sorrow. There may have been a lot of drama in a previous relationship (with someone else). My feeling is that this relationship (purpose) may take both parties into and through prior trauma(s). Whether this will work well or not, probably depends on your combined desire to work through things and to support each other in a sometimes difficult journey. And is there third person involved? Another woman or it may be even a kid?

What helps you? KNIGHT OF SWORDS

You need healthy kind of selfishness. Thinking about yourself first and acting determined.

Let me know what you think. I am not sure about this reading, I felt disconnected somehow. But Anyway I feel that there is third person involved don't know why. Hope this helps anyway

posted August 14, 2016 05:06 PM            

The cards make perfect sense to the situation, all of them. I cant explain in details but just know that you got it right.

Can you pull one more card and see what the is the card for the outcome?

posted August 14, 2016 05:13 PM            

S. has moved on. She is out in the open now and doesnt hold a grudge. I see your worries in regard to her but you shall relax about it. A man will help with a remedy for the situation.

Ship - Garden - Mice ( Dog) - Tree - Man

posted August 14, 2016 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
ahhhhh, Valmu, you are so right, my dear.

The cards make perfect sense to the situation, all of them. I cant explain in details but just know that you got it right.

Six of Swords is also a card that he talks about a lot, in relation to me. He is like - come on, bring me the 6 of swords.

Can you pull one more card and see what the is the card for the outcome?

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posted August 14, 2016 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
May I join?

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posted August 15, 2016 10:37 AM            

My question is: apparently S wants to continue our cooperation partly. I don't want to. What happens if I let her work with me again?

posted August 15, 2016 11:12 AM            

The first card was the king of cups, so either there is a male involved in this or could be one of you trying to be in control of their emotions, being kind and gentle towards the other person, this could mean trying to be fair and having or making peace with each other. I'm not sure if you two are friends, but the 3 of cups came up next so this could talk about friendship or there is another person that is involved? Or may be you or her have friends that are friends with her or you, dont know how to explain lol but either way, i would say friendship and socializing with each other and towards other people .The last card is the page of pentacles, I would take this as in taking it slow and it could mean working together as well. There is still some learning on having to trust the other person and being trusted. So with this being a page, this is new in a way. So I would say that it could mean that to one of you, its still too early to trust the other person until you know for sure about them.

Hope this make sense.

King of cups - 3 of cups - page of pentacles