posted August 22, 2016 01:49 AM            

I have shared with some of you before the incident that occurred when my ex husband and I first got together. Essentially, he attempted to sneak someone across the border in a car and got BOTH of us arrested at the border. I did know what was happening, I cried and begged him not to do it. He went to go meet with some people, I went with him, and we ended up being taken to a hotel where we had no choice BUT to do it. It was an awful situation and ended with both of our arrests.

As we got arrested, he told me not to worry, that he would take the blame. He never did, and I refused to place the blame on him either. (I was 20 and naive)

Anyways, on our first court date, (we were still incarcerated and they were setting our bail). His lawyer stands up and blames the ENTIRE thing on me..... He says that I am the mastermind and that my ex was the innocent bystander!!

My ex told me that he never told his lawyer to say that! I immediately believed him.

Today, it just randomly occurred to me that he may have been lying. Do lawyers just randomly say things about a case without having spoken with their clients?? I think perhaps my ex did not realize that we would be in court together, so maybe he thought he could blame me without having to face me....

Of course, I could be wrong. But, it is hard not to wonder if I was utterly delusional about the entire relationship.

posted August 22, 2016 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by luckystar25:
Il exchange with you

Can you tell me if I should just give up on d.m or not? Ugh

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Well, I asked if you should stay connected with him and got 4 of cups, showing that there will be continued disappointments.

posted August 22, 2016 02:22 AM            

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Originally posted by luckystar25:
He knew the lawyer was going to say that .his fears made him give in bevause his lawyer did bring it up to him saying blaming the other person would save him but he feels far too ashamed to tell you the truth

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