posted August 24, 2016 10:07 PM
I have not been able to focus lately.
My house went on the market and sold in less than 24 hours. My realtor thought it was going to take a few weeks. We put in an offer on a home but lost it to a higher bid.
Rent around here is astronomical or doesnt allow dogs.
We close and have to be moved out in less than 2 weeks.
The BIL lives far from our current lives (childrens school, activities, my job etc) but it looks like we are going to have to stay with him temporarily. I hate it, I do not like imposing on people.
I am beginning to have doubts, depression and anxiety.
I cant even get a clear thought in my head when asking for answers.
I have been looking at older homes (50-100+ years) but the SO wants a new home (blah! I dont like the new homes in this area). Ive tried mentioning to him that maybe we should build so I can get the older home look and feel, but he can have the "new", but I dont know if our budget will allow such a venture.
This whole ordeal has caused a huge rift between us that we have begun to mend because we ultimately dont want something so "silly" to tear us apart.
Could someone please give me a reading on what is to come with my future housing situation so I may get some peace of mind?