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Topic: reading request? Bf problem
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eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 406
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 29, 2016 01:40 AM
  
Sorry i cant really exchange. I can look at charts and tell you what i think (but im not much of an intuitive reader) or will give advice in general.I havent reached out to my bf for a couple days after a fight we had. Because i just felt so conflicted, introspective, hurt. But now he seems to be avoiding me. Probably giving me a taste of my own medicine? Mad that I've been avoiding him? Now im just wondering what path I should take? Should we end the relationship? Do i need to apologize? Is there something I'm not doing that i should be? *also posted about the details in sweet peas in the rain* IP: Logged |
SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 1807
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 29, 2016 02:42 PM
Hi, I looked into this for you and I hope you're doing well.Why he isn't talking to you is honestly because he is still pi*sed off and frustrated. Like there's dark clouds brewing around him right now, hes too flighty and impatient to deal with the situation right at hand, so in a way it's good that you don't talk to him for a while because it would only result in more hurtful exchanges. Advice for you in regards to breakup is to think it through when you're feeling much calmer, you need healing and patience to sort this relationship through. It's also pointing to you being not in control of a few aspects in your life, which results in this energy carrying through to your relationship too. Once you're able to be more grounded with yourself you will start to feel like these issues can be easily resolved. Your bf cares about you too btw, he does think about the future with you, which is a really good thing. Just that there are aspects of you that triggers him because emotionally you two are different, if you looked at the synastry between you two it would reveal more. But yes this relationship is worth keeping (although it needs work) in the long run, hope this helps! IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 406
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 29, 2016 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
Hi, I looked into this for you and I hope you're doing well.Why he isn't talking to you is honestly because he is still pi*sed off and frustrated. Like there's dark clouds brewing around him right now, hes too flighty and impatient to deal with the situation right at hand, so in a way it's good that you don't talk to him for a while because it would only result in more hurtful exchanges. Advice for you in regards to breakup is to think it through when you're feeling much calmer, you need healing and patience to sort this relationship through. It's also pointing to you being not in control of a few aspects in your life, which results in this energy carrying through to your relationship too. Once you're able to be more grounded with yourself you will start to feel like these issues can be easily resolved. Your bf cares about you too btw, he does think about the future with you, which is a really good thing. Just that there are aspects of you that triggers him because emotionally you two are different, if you looked at the synastry between you two it would reveal more. But yes this relationship is worth keeping (although it needs work) in the long run, hope this helps!
Thank you so much!!!! It all sounds very accuate. I wrote him a long letter about whats been on my mind, why I got upset etc. Do you think i should send it? He hates when I'm not communicating with him, but it sounds like I should give him more space? Our sysnastry is kinda meh...
His saturn tightly conjunct my moon
Sun/pluto widely conjunct my moon
Moon opposite moon wide
And some venus mars trines
My sun tight sextile his sun
Sun opposite venus double whammy Composite is worse
Sun conj neptune in 3rd
Mars conj pluto in first
Venus in 9th
Moon in 10th
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