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posted September 11, 2016 01:27 PM            

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Wanted to write here so you see it.

I think this Mercury rx has been quite hard on all, so I would expect by end of it you will sureley hear from him. I am sorry on my timing but its hard from just energy.

thank you on the reading. It resonates, as I dont really feel like going I dont know more than half the girls there .. but maybe I will have fun.

if you have more questions, let me know.

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posted September 11, 2016 02:02 PM            

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Oh no sorries needed, I know timings are always hard to get, very changeable with the circumstances and energies around... Besides, you mentioned maximum 2 days and 2 days are not over yet. It's just that me and him usually speak everyday, so this to me is a bit odd and I don't really know what to think of it.

I'm glad it resonates, but please go with an open mind. I may always be off.

I have a fun one actually, if you're around and up to it.
A bit over an year ago, I was having a class in which there was also this guy that I felt immediatly attracted to. I mean, there are attractions and attractions, but this one... Well, let's just say that I feel strongly drawn to him lol. He's almost the definition of what my "type" is like. Well, it looks like he also got in the same masters as I did... So I was wondering if you see any chance that I somehow may interest him aswell throughout this time. His initials are JF.

Please post yours too, I'll be around!

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posted September 11, 2016 02:11 PM            

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Sure this does sound fun.

Id love to ask about something at work. I will have a parents meeting. Its a big deal and needs to be held professionally. I hold this in my new work place with my colegue.
Its on 14th this month.

How will it go?

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posted September 11, 2016 02:18 PM            

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What I get is that you may need to make yourself kind of present to him. Like say Hi and be friendly as I feel he may have a friend or 2 around him at time. I get if you try to show your presence and not shy away yes he will get an interest in you. Now I dont quite feel anything big right away but there may start some glirting once you show you see him around.
I get to try and say Hi and smile or ask things to get it going. Then it should follow by him doing the same

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posted September 11, 2016 02:24 PM            

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I see you being a bit nervous about it, which is understandable, but the parents will be very impressed by you. You will do very well and leave a good impression on them. You'll take things very professionally and actively, they will see you as someone who gets things done, rather than just saying you will. I don't know if you'll discuss future activities or something like that, but it seems that something that is being planned may be a bit delayed after this meeting or it will be discussed at the meeting. I'm also getting you will not quite like something that this collegue will do. Not that she will do something with bad intentions, just probably an attitude that you don't agree with, but will easily shake off.

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posted September 11, 2016 02:28 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
What I get is that you may need to make yourself kind of present to him. Like say Hi and be friendly as I feel he may have a friend or 2 around him at time. I get if you try to show your presence and not shy away yes he will get an interest in you. Now I dont quite feel anything big right away but there may start some glirting once you show you see him around.
I get to try and say Hi and smile or ask things to get it going. Then it should follow by him doing the same

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Yeah, there are some people that he knows there, so he may be around them more... But I'll try to do that. It might be easier since we already know each other from that class. I just wanted to know really if I have a chance lol. Since things with P. are always so up and down, I don't really have much to lose by trying to look for other fish in the sea, huh. Thank you!

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posted September 11, 2016 02:35 PM            

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Thank you. Yes the meeting is on plan for the year. Like we tell them what we intend to do during the year.
Yes i am nervous already.

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posted September 11, 2016 03:04 PM            

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You'll do just fine. They will trust you.

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posted September 11, 2016 03:12 PM            

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😊

Im here a bit more if you have more to ask

And thanks

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posted September 11, 2016 03:17 PM            

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Hum, just curious... Do you see anyone coming my way in the romantic sense, besides P.?

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posted September 11, 2016 03:33 PM            

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I also have a Q . If anything stands out in next week for me?

In terms of a relationship not just yet. I do however get flirting and dating which may be a few dates as I do get you still having P around you and your mind being in that.
There will be fun energy around you and this will give you a better light peace of mind which may even get P to make better steps towards you.
So I get exciting energy coming to you.

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posted September 11, 2016 04:04 PM            

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Sounds good to me, I'll take that.

I see you mostly involved in work, you being focused on there... It seems there will be an increase of interaction between you and the people you work with, so perhaps you may get to know them a bit better and create more closeness between you. I tried to see if anything significant with A. would happen, but I don't think so... It feels pretty much the same to me, you wishing for an outcome but still struggling with the reality. But you will be able to free your mind a bit from it by focusing on the work environment.

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posted September 11, 2016 04:05 PM            

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Thank you. 😊

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posted September 12, 2016 08:53 AM            

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Mercury messed sth up

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posted September 12, 2016 09:03 AM            

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Did something happen IF?

Me and him already had contact, but I'm kinda mad to be honest. So now I'm the one giving the silent treatment, otherwise I'm afraid I might start an argument and that's not good at this point.

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posted September 12, 2016 09:12 AM            

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Somehow there was a double post happen without me even trying to post.

Oh I see. Ok so my timing was ok then.
But not positive.

Do you have a question?

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posted September 12, 2016 09:21 AM            

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Oh, I see lol Mercury doing its thing, as usual.

Your reading does fit what he's told me and I feel he's being sincere... What is hurtful to me is that I saw him online quite a few times throughout the weekend on a social app. So that makes me feel like he didn't really have a desire to talk to me, since he apparently was talking to others.

I don't really have a question, no... I'm just a bit hurt. But thank you!

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posted September 12, 2016 09:32 AM            

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Im sorry dear, I know exactly how it feels and it does hurt. I hope he changes his way. Maybe it can be good at times to show you dont like the way he treats you, even verbalise it maybe.
But this is opinion right now, not insight.

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posted September 12, 2016 01:11 PM            

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I also think that is the healthy way to do things, yes... But you know, I feel like I have verbalized so much so many times already, I'm tired of it... I don't want to feel like I'm pointing fingers all the time, specially when we just came out of a tough period. I guess I'm trying to avoid more drama, but can't help feeling hurt.

I can tell though that he is aware that his attitude wasn't cool and that I'm not exactly happy about it... He apologised and keeps saying that he didn't mean bad... At least there's that.

Uhhh, these guys!
Let me know if you're around IF, I actually have a question at the moment... Not about him, though. Please feel free to ask too!

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posted September 12, 2016 01:24 PM            

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Im here . I was about to write to you also.

Whats your q

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posted September 12, 2016 01:25 PM            

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Wanted to ask, what are recent thoughts A has about me?

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posted September 12, 2016 01:45 PM            

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I'll do yours in about half an hour, I'm just going to grab something to eat now.

So there's this friend of mine E. who showed up unexpectedly at my neighbourhoud today. I already had plans, but ended up going for a coffee with him for a bit. He felt a bit uncomfortable to me... Almost like he didn't want to be there - but not that exactly, as he was even the one suggesting to hang out... He just felt nervous for some reason. And that made me a bit uncomfortable too lol. He used to have a crush on me up until recently, but now he has a girlfriend who he dearly cares about and we carried on with a good friendship... We have met many times since then and he was even my shoulder to cry on many of those times.
So I'm just wondering what is going through his mind about me, I'm not really getting the reason behind these weird vibes.

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posted September 12, 2016 01:55 PM            

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Well at first I get yes he was nervous but not as much as it seemed. There is still attraction there he felt for you and he realizes this when he sees you but stops himsels because he knows its not "right" as he has someone but he was glad to have seen you. He was curious about your life.What I get is him trying to hide his attraction is why he came across as nervous. I do however feel he wanted to say something or ask something but like he chose not to so I feel this feeling of him stopping himself is why he felt so nervous.
I dont feel any bad energy, that the nervousness was "bad" but more a feeling of lot having seen you for long plus the above gave you both the nervous energy

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posted September 12, 2016 02:44 PM            

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Okies, back!

About A., uh god, I get struggle with him... He really wishes to have the connection he had before with you but he is really controlling himself right now on his moves... He suffered with this separation too. He is not giving up though, he just doesn't know how to take things forward from here. But he wishes to have you back in life, he's just too stuck on the worries and all the negative that happened. I feel him thinking he's not sure that you both can turn this situation around. It's like he is frozen with indecision on what to do. But there's still progression to come, I feel that too.

About your reading, now that I think of this, it makes sense... His energy transmitted a lot of "holding back". He used to be more touchy and physically caring with me, so it could be that he was trying to block that. At first when he began dating, I still felt some attraction of him towards me, but I thought maybe he was already over it by now... Well, it's good to know that there wasn't anything bad, at least.

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posted September 12, 2016 02:48 PM            

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Thank you Adimi, this makes sense. Its funny though, I am the one that should be like he is yet I am the one who opened the door to him.
Oh well..
thanks

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