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ILovePoems
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posted September 25, 2016 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The other day my ex added me on facebook (I didn't accept or declined it). He blocked for like 2 years I think and I sent him a message the other day and he answered. So I asked did he sent the friend request on accident or, cause I thought he didn't know he sent it. He saw my message and ignored it, but didn't take the request back. I'm not sure what he meant by that.

I pulled myself and got Ace of pentacles - 8 of pentacles - 3 of wands

I'm assuming that the 8 of pentacles is talking about work, but he should of answered me after work, so I'm not sure why he didn't answer.

I just want to know why he took his sweet time to unblock and then add.. I mean there has to be a real reason. :/

The 3 of wands is something I don't understand..

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Saille
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posted September 25, 2016 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saille     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the 3 of wands is him waiting for you to either accept his request or decline it before he answers you.

The 3 of wands is about a guy either waiting for his ships to come in or watching them sail out with his fortune.

So the ball is basically in your court...

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ILovePoems
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posted September 25, 2016 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you. Knowing him I don't think he will answer if I decline.. I just wish he would of answered me so now I'm even more curious.

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MinceyMouse
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posted September 25, 2016 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
3 of wands- you're the one with the power. Nothing is set in stone and there are many diff. paths to take here- you decline, you accept, or you do nothing. 3 options. 3 sightly different outcomes. It doesn't say what exactly you should do, so listen to your heart about this.

Personally, I would add him but put him on the 'restricted' list (or another list where access to your wall and pictures are minimal), and then go on talking to him to see what he wants.

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Saille
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posted September 25, 2016 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saille     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally I would add him.

My ex unfollowed me on insta, but didn't unfriend me on facebook so I called him out on it by saying "did you not unfriend me on facebook b.c you still need to see my pictures to get through the day?" eh told me he would unfriend and block my number. He unfriended, but still hasn't blocked my number. My favorite thing is that I didn't unfollow him on insta though because regardless of him following me or not following, it didn't affect my life any differently.

So if adding him as a friend wo';t trip you up, go for it.

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ILovePoems
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posted September 26, 2016 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you both, yeah I have 3 options lol I'm not even sure if will accept it. I was close to moving on and then he comes around. I don't even have feelings like I used to anymore. But will think on it.

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