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Topic: Can I have a love reading, please?
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Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 10:55 AM
My very recent relationship might be ending and I am confused about it. I don't know if I should stay in it and work on it, or take the recent development as a heads up. I like him a lot and would LOVE to continue this, but the way it is now I don't know. Can someone shed some light on this, please? Thank you in advance! IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 3329 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 11:59 AM
I am a beginner. Please read it with a pinch of salt.I pulled some cards for you and got: Page of water - knight of water - Release With those cards it can be that the relationship begins a new phase. Although there is a need to balance the emotions this phase or situation will end. It is time to move on. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 01:56 PM
GK, Thank you so much for the reading! Yes, emotions definitely need to be kept in check, especially mine. Since this started I've been on an emotional rollercoaster ride with this man. I jumped to conclusions and I overreacted. I got terribly anxious about our connection. This stems from the past and I need to let go of it. Indeed, this phase needs to end. I talked to him earlier, right before I saw your reply, and cleared matters. We're good again now. He's clearly into this for real. Phew! Also, if you have a question you'd like to ask me, I'd love to give you a reading in return.
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GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 3329 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 02:50 PM
YESSS! To talk things out can be a very tough thing in a relationship and you did it. I am very selfish at the moment. I drink a lot of tea. Made an appointment by a dentist and work with a light worker on my chakras. I Can you ask the cards please: How will this personal journey affect my life? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 5759 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 07, 2016 02:53 PM
Can you give me the person initials? IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: Can you give me the person initials?
Yes, they are I.C.S. He uses the first two most frequently, like another identity. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 03:39 PM
GK, I used the Osho Tarot cards for you and drew: VIII Courage - XVIII Past lives - 6 of Rainbows (Compromise) The spread talks about a difficult path, that requires strength and courage in the face of opposition, as well as confronting subconscious behaviour patterns stemming from other lives (karma). The last card sustains being true to your inner truth and not compromising it and yourself for other people. All in all, it will be a rewarding journey, but the Tarot insisted to warn you that it won't be so easy, though it is worth it, no doubt. I wish you lots of luck on your path, GK! IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 5759 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 07, 2016 04:13 PM
I asked what would happen between you two. I used Gypsy.I do see that you two or one of you will be communicating to the other person. I'm not sure why I got the house card after that, but it could mean trying to communicate and feeling comfortable with telling each other things? Or may be there's family involved? Lol i got the reunion card and this usually mean reconciling or bringing something back that was gone out of someone's life or may be between you two connection. The last card was friend.. it's weird to see this card but this usually indicates someone that is like a friend or friendship, being nice and generous. May be it means to be close? Letter - House - Reunion - Friend Also reunion means balance lol Does this make sense? IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 05:46 PM
ILovePoems,Yes, the reading makes sense and pretty much describes the situation. We communicated about the issue, and each of us told the other how things looked from their perspective and how it made them feel, and we patched things up. We ARE friends, first and foremost. I see him as my companion, he sees me as a team mate. Friendship and open communication are at the base of our connection. And now that we dissolved the misunderstanding, things are good again. We talked on the phone for 1.5 hours just now, and we didn't argue one single minute. The House card might mean indeed that we're being very open about everything, it creates a deep sense of intimacy. Thank you for the reading! It made me feel really nice reading it. Do you have a question for me? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 5759 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 07, 2016 05:57 PM
Ah okay, thanks for the feedback. Well I'm glad that you two have communicated, to be sure that everything is better. and no wonder the friend card came up xDUm I have a quick question, - IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 06:04 PM
Did you guys had some sort of argument?What is this about? World Starting point: Magician Outside influences: Death Answer: 10 of Swords I took the liberty to ask how does he see you, and got the Knight of Swords. I get the feeling that he's kind of uncomfortable in your presence to see you as a friend, he sees you as sharp and intimidating, unforgiving maybe. Does that resonate with you? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 5759 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 07, 2016 06:13 PM
Hmm I'm not sure. We didn't had an argument so not sure why he would not like my presence. o: the 10 of swords scares me lol thanks for the reading.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 07, 2016 06:23 PM
I didn't get the impression that he doesn't like your presence, he's intimidated by you. Maybe he sees you as more than a friend? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 5759 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 07, 2016 06:39 PM
Oh, well I don't know. May be the knight of swords says that when I'm around people I say what I want to say and I may come off a bit harsh but I don't like it when someone disrespects me... but I don't say that to him. I'm actually afraid of him to be honest xD but either way, thank you. IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 3329 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 08, 2016 04:59 AM
Thank you very much for the reading!It does resonate and I like the rainbows at the end of the spread. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 23, 2016 10:59 AM
Hello, everyone!My relationship progressed nicely, though there were some arguments as well. The main issue now is my jealousy. We both hate it, but I can't help it. He's very close to his ex and it drives me crazy. It's not unfounded, I assure you. I guess I am taking it super personally, like an insult to me, which I am sure it is not. For the past hour or so I've been thinking of calling him to say it's over, I deserve more than this. I remember our conversations about this and him asking me to be patient with him because I will probably get more than I wished for with him if I do. Yet I feel like he will never love me... My questions are: 1. Is it true or are my insecurities talking? Will he ever love me (assuming I will repress my recurring desires to end this)? 2. Should I continue this relationship, meaning will it ever become the relationship *I* want, assuming I can have the patience which I might not? Leave me yours, I will try my best! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29657 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 23, 2016 12:39 PM
1. Devil - Queen of Cups - 4 of swords I think it is mostly your insecurities speaking, however, there is another possibilities that the Queen of Cups represents his Ex, and then there could still be a strong attachment (could be from her side), so I am going to ask, what he feels for his Ex romantically. 4 of swords - Temperance - Queen of Cups I don´t think there are romantic feelings, but he feels a deep friendship-bond with her probably.
Somehow I feel I did not really connect to the second question for some reason. The first cards I pulled were Ace of Pents - 8 of cups- Wheel of Fortune. Either I really did not connect to it, or it means that a tangible start has been made, but that actually the future is unwritten yet. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 23, 2016 12:50 PM
Thank you, Ceri. The Queen of Cups is her, she is Pisces. She is everpresent in our relationship, so of course she showed up in the spread. From what I can grasp, from psychics and the spreads I did myself, it's in my hands. And I definitely don't know what to do! I would totally stay with him, but this is driving me nuts! Let me know your q. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29657 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 23, 2016 01:04 PM
Yes, I can understand this is driving you nuts. And it`s hard, well the 8 of cups in the second spread, speaks volumes about you thinking about leaving, but with the Wheel coming up, something seems to change before long. Something that might make it easier to see what to do hopefully. I don`t know how close he is to his ex, but I also wonder why you doubt his feelings for you? has he given you reason to? Probably the answer depends a little on what he is doing with his ex. my question would be: What does P want our connection/ interaction to become? IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 23, 2016 01:14 PM
He kissed her two nights ago, and he told me before he did it. I suppose in the community we're all part of it's not a big deal. I mean, he left with me, not her. But I wonder if I'm just too traditional for this kind of sh€t. I left the house for a little while, I will do yours in an hour max. I am on my way back. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29657 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 23, 2016 01:24 PM
Well, I would be quite hurt by this! But I am not in your kind of community. However if you feel jealous and degraded by his actions, this is clearly not right for you and you deserve something better! Being treated like his priority no uno, for example. Of course it depends on what you agreed in sexual terms, if you are monogamous and exclusive ... or not. But seems you have some talking to do with him. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 23, 2016 01:32 PM
In any case, I just had an epiphany. I did it again, I made him a priority, when he still sees me as an option. He has not made a commitment to me, yet, even though I am the only one he is seeing. But he never said it out loud. And he explained it to me, he told me his situation. Told me about them, and that he is in a transition period. He asked me to be patient with him, because I might get more than I wished for with him if I do. I've been so silly and rushed into things. In any case, being with him will allow me to work on my relationship issues. It's not like he doesn't treat me good when we are together. And the sex is really good! Seriously, the best I've ever had. It also started out badly, he asked me to be patient that things will work out. And they did. In all honesty, I have no way of knowing how things will turn out, but if I walk away I know for sure that they won't. Plus, it's not like suitors are waiting at my door. Well, a few are, but I wouldn't be interested in them if I was single. So I am going to try. God help me. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 4456 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 23, 2016 01:36 PM
Ceri, we are monogamous, both of us. Neither are having sex with other people. But in his eyes it's not a big deal to kiss someone else. At the time it didn't bother me, I was a little drunk and things were cool with the three of us. It started to get to me only today when I thought back to it. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5616 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 23, 2016 01:39 PM
I am also thinking you got to stick a bit longer and give him a chance to work over it.It's only fair. And he promised he is working on it. Just be firm with him thou and dont let him relapse. My 2 nickels IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5616 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 23, 2016 01:41 PM
waittttt....he kissed her?? NNOOO...me is not liking that. But thats me IP: Logged |