posted October 25, 2016 04:04 PM            

You left a request in my thread a while ago, just following up

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Originally posted by tntl:
Hi andstuff!
Thank you for the offer. I'd be curious to know what I can do about my insecurities/lack of trust in my relationship with my boyfriend, J.O, - if I am indeed wrong to have them in this case.

Let me know if you'd prefer a different topic.

Thank you in advance!

EDIT: Oh, I just noticed someone beat me to it. Nevermind then!

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Anyway, what I got is 2 pents -The Hanged Man - the Fool

It feels like it's still new and brewing and you have no idea where it's going and how it's going to unfold, things are uncertain. Perhaps you should try to stop fearing change and uncertainty.

The question I asked was if there is any inner reason for your feeling of insecurity/anxiety. I don't have much clue if you're wrong about this. just a hunch though - I feel like there is nothing whatsoever wrong with you. There is a possibility that he is the one who makes you feel suspended on purpose or involuntarily, but you have to trust your intuition on that one or get to know him better.

I asked about lack of trust specifically and got 7 wands aka Valour, so I'd say give this a chance so far. You have the strength/power/resilience in you to face whatever ensues, just don't forget that.

Just another hunch - if you feel like you're the only one who has to adapt, perhaps compromising your needs and disregarding who you fundamentally are, then just be cautious about your boundaries if you really like J.O. very much.

Hope you find this useful.