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posted October 27, 2016 01:21 PM            

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Hi, could we exchange?
my q: I have just discovered that my ex, J, was telling little lies all along. Do you get any sense of him being a habitual liar and a bit of a player?

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posted October 27, 2016 01:30 PM            

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will do this when I finish up something I am doing.

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posted October 27, 2016 02:03 PM            

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Feels he was saying little lies, some seemed to him that they were white lies but he tried to make himself seem more manly or just to stand out in some way, I feel when he was more in groups of men he embalashed some details about him that matter to men and while in groups where there were women he embalashed details that mattered to women, so it was selective lies I get. It wasnt in a manner to hurt anyone but I feel like once he said a lie he had to hold on to it and not change his story. I dont feel it being big lies but more as "embalashments"

Hope this helps

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posted October 27, 2016 02:09 PM            

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Yes, thank you. He was just an idiot, basically, which fits. Does he have any regrets or does he think our relationship was not for him so it was ok for it to end?

Do you have any questions?

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posted October 27, 2016 02:15 PM            

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Some regets but he feels selfish so it was like Ok it ended I will move on. So yes its more like it wasnt for him but it was good thing like yes he did have nice times but I dont feel him dwelling on it. Sorry.

- the report I sent in to work now, what will they think of it?

- are any coworkers jealous of me or what they hear about me?

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posted October 27, 2016 02:17 PM            

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Thank you on your offer but right now I dont have questions in that field. We have a speach therapist at work so thats more her domain. But my report was on a child with some special needs.

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posted October 27, 2016 02:37 PM            

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Just thought I would let you know . Thanks for the reading.

Re your report: 3 of wands, 9 of wands, Queen of cups
3 of Wands refers to work, in an extremely positive way. Your report will be well thought about, so you can hold your head up high and feel secure in your knowledge. They will think that you are able to truly hold your own in a difficult field. Also you can empathise with children which is very desirable.

Re how will your co-workers feel about your success:
judgement, queen of swords, 8 of pentacles
The judgements they make of your work will be fair. The Queen of Swords is a pleasant card here - it reveals that you have plenty of experience and you get success because it is your due. They will be happy to share your expertise. They realise that you are diligent and hard working and that is OK with them.

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posted October 27, 2016 02:40 PM            

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Thank you.

I had a feeling of 1 or 2 not liking me because of the way they are around me but Im glad its not so.

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