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posted November 04, 2016 09:15 PM            

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I just wrote you a reply under Orange's thread and made a mistake. Have a read.

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posted November 04, 2016 09:19 PM            

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Another mistake UGH! It's under Adimi's thread. I think

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posted November 04, 2016 09:21 PM            

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I think he's talking to a 25 year old....no proof other than they are friends on Facebook all of a sudden and he liked her pic today. That's good for me though since he's not on there liking the pics I post of myself.... I did tell him today what I need in my life from a man and it's either you can do it or not and if not then please leave me alone. It hurts but I have to stand up for myself! It's hard where there are feelings involved though

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posted November 04, 2016 11:19 PM            

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Hi Dustib

Yes I know it hurts big time. Save yourself the grief and just block his e-mails. Try to busy yourself with your work and other projects. Exercise if great for getting rid of stress. These feelings for him will go away eventually but don't beat yourself up but checking his face book, etc. because it only makes it harder. You did say that you want the whole package and he is not willing to do it. Be strong girl. XX

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posted November 05, 2016 12:55 PM            

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I ended things completely with him today and told him I can't do it. I told him I knew about his dating profile and how he told me he didn't want a relationship yet is looking for one. He said he's changed and until he figures out what's going on he's not going yo bring anyone along for the ups and downs. Told him that's an excuse.

I did tell him if he found the old L that he could contact me and I might be around but I didn't want to hear from him if not. I know I'm crazy to ask this...but will that ever happen? Can you pull and see? I know that guy is still there somewhere and this change in his work has freaked him out but I am standing my ground

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posted November 05, 2016 02:39 PM            

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Hi Dustib

Here is your reading

bear, man, mountain, *cross

The bear symbolizes a male I feel since it is shadowing man. It is showing the relationship you have with him is and has been troublesome in his mind for some time. There were problems there long before he got this new job. he is feeling a lot of obstacles with the mountain. The cross as your clarifier is showing there are a whole string of obstacles ahead of him and burdens. So I feel he may try to contact you in the future but read my last thread to you Adimi. He would only keep you on the sidelines and see other women. You would be very insecure in this relationship wondering about that. The choice is yours but I don't see a change in him towards you.

I pulled these cards to try to get some more clarity.

man, fox, snake, ship

O.K. here we see the man shadowing the ship. He will be leaving. Not just travelling for his job I'm afraid as we see the fox next to the snake. The fox denotes a man whose intentions are unscrupulous shadowing snake. The snake is showing a person that has negative character traits and is seen as being manipulative and slippery in nature. I wish it was more positive for you but the readings I am giving you all point to him leaving.

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posted November 05, 2016 03:03 PM            

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Just wondering if I could ask for a reading if you are up to it. I understand if not. Take care.

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posted November 05, 2016 03:12 PM            

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sure what is your question

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posted November 05, 2016 03:16 PM            

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Thanks sweet girl

I would like to know where my relationship is headed with J. I have been told that he is not "well resolved" regarding myself.

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posted November 05, 2016 03:26 PM            

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I got curtain, snake, hands, candles and clover.

first off I do see where J is just focused on the friendship as that is the focus card right now. Yes there is a connection between the 2 of you with the candles card, it can mean a twin flames or soul mate connection but doesn't always have to go into a romantic relationship but we also have the snake card which is about complications and the curtains is about secrets yet that haven't been discovered. Now the clover as the future card can be a card about luck/reconciliation but can also be a fast card. Right now I would focus on the friendship as that is the only thing that J is focused on. Is he the one who said the well resolved thing to you? And I'm not even sure what that means honestly....I do think that yes in the future things will change between the 2 of you. Remember we have pulled the cloud/depression card many times regarding J. Focus on what he is saying now and take the friendship. You at least have that and none of the crap I have....

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posted November 05, 2016 03:43 PM            

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Hey Dusti

Thanks for my read. It was another reader who said that things are not well resolved with him. I know he is still highly sexually attracted to me but because of our cultures, sexual activity and public displays of affection are frowned upon. So he is very conflicted in his mind. Yes or no haha. I am fortunate to have a friendship with him but would love to know IF it is going to go further.

Take care of you and talk anytime. XX

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posted November 05, 2016 03:54 PM            

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thanks! just trying to wrap my mind around things. I know L has been honest with me about how he's feeling and I respect him for that. I don't know if he's talking to a 25 year old....I did call him out on his dating profile today and told him I am done and to leave me alone unless he can be the man I met. I KNOW he if he wants to be, he can be. I am not settling for less....it hurts. I have had several tell me he will come back and I want him too IF he is the person I fell for. But time will tell....I'm not holding onto any hope though.

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