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Topic: Why? Exchange
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Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 17, 2016 02:10 PM
I have been pulling cards to myself for years and they are always telling me it is not the time love will come to my life. At the moment it's time for temperance, before that it was hermit ;( Also I feel that universe is shutting doors when I meet someone I like? Why? I don't think it is fair anymore ;( Leave for q. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 718 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted November 17, 2016 02:21 PM
I don't necessarily see those cards as meaning what you are perceiving. I like the definitions from psychic revelation; temperance- Love: Often, before you can really have peace and wisdom in your relationships, you need to have peace within yourself. Look at what you feel guilty about, mistakes that you feel you've made in your past. Then forgive yourself, and let them go. It's the only way you can truly make progress.
hanged man-Love: Again, the theme can be one of letting go. "Letting go" of an unattainable lover, for example, will bring about the possibility that someone that you can be with will "be there" for you. But that is only one example. You may need to "let go" of a vision of a particular kind of relationship as being "the only way that you can be happy." If you're in a long-term relationship, it too may well be at a crossroads. If you think the relationship is fabulous, be sure and find out "where your partner is" with the state of affairs. IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 17, 2016 02:32 PM
Thank you yes I have noticed that "letting go" theme popping up. And yeah..I might be too fixed of what kind of partner I'm looking for or waiting for. And I have been lingering in heartbreaking situations in the past. But now I'm not. And I have been wondering all the time why should I be more ready than people are in generally when starting relationships? As I feel that is what universe or God or whatever is asking for me. Why should I be learning by myself, alone ;( I'm also scared that this way to prepare me to meet someone awful like there is not good things waiting for. Edit: I wouldn't mind waiting for a year or two but this situation has been going on closer ten IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 2167 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted November 17, 2016 03:03 PM
Hi valmu woukd you be up for exchsnge?IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 17, 2016 03:11 PM
Hi yes I'm. The question is same as above IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 2167 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted November 17, 2016 03:31 PM
Ok valmu, I think more so problem is with others not you. Your a stable mature grounded individual your in control tend to take on leader roll. It intimidating to the men you meet if anything they are learning from you. You tend to meet individuals who are less mature than you most emotional not as stable. Reason yoy have not found someone is simply because mo one come around tjat is worthy or can offer what you want. That committment potential build a family etc.
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harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 2167 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted November 17, 2016 03:33 PM
My question is how would Brandon feel if I apologized? Would he respond how would he react?IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 17, 2016 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by harmonicvibes: My question is how would Brandon feel if I apologized? Would he respond how would he react?
Here is your reading How would Brandon feel if I apologized? Tree + dog: very good combination, seeing you as a soul mate or oldest/ dearest friend Tree This symbolizes life, strength and health. It presages new hope, growth, desires, knowledge and self-development. Follow where your heart takes you. Dog A good loyal friend is with you. There may be generosity, protection or fidelity, but there is hard work, honesty and an inspiration to others. If it represents a person, they always have money but may be a little selfish and stubborn about parting with it. How Would he respond? Ship + The Violation of Borders : keeping it to himself, keeping own counsel, not sharing his reactions. Ship This relates to a long journey whether it be travel or an extension of time. It may mean you are moving forward with your life - your circumstances will seem brighter. This journey carries yours hopes, dreams and desires. It may also presage something that will happen in three days. The Violation of Borders This may represent your day to day dealings, where they do not appear as they seem. Or someone who is shifty, wily, crafty, elusive or having a misleading charm. Could be someone who undermines your defenses. How would he react? Snake + Rocket: an unexpected visit or you will hear news from him some other way Snake Stress, worries and hidden fears. It may be alerting you to something that will surface, which until now has been contained. Rocket The Rocket brings news to you whether by letter, phone or email in preparation for the change ahead. You may be looking at this from a position of power or control. IP: Logged |
harmonicvibes Knowflake Posts: 2167 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted November 17, 2016 04:01 PM
So in short him and I will reconnect or no??IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 17, 2016 04:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by harmonicvibes: So in short him and I will reconnect or no??
Yes it seems so if you apologize he will be feeling positive feelings but will keep those feelings (his reactions) to himself at first. But then he is going to pay you a visit or take contact some other way. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Registered: Jan 2016
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posted November 17, 2016 05:04 PM
I could try to pull for you but I pretty new at this and I think this question is difficult :/ I just wanted to share that I feel exactly like you !People has been getting Temperance,Hermit for me too (urg these cards are ******* annoying) and now the high priestess which I don't know exactly what she's been asking me to do. All it says is wait,wait,wait and I feel really SAD.
Anyway I rather to believe God is preparing something good for us By the way I've been thinking. I want so much a truly love but if God give that to me while I am not prepared I could ruin it.Maybe he's just KNOW! but knowing that don't prevents me to feel pain and rage.Now I think I will just ask God to help me to evolve the things that I need faster.I will pray for him to GUIDE me.
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DannyCappy Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Registered: Jan 2016
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posted November 17, 2016 05:13 PM
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Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 18, 2016 06:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by DannyCappy: I could try to pull for you but I pretty new at this and I think this question is difficult :/ I just wanted to share that I feel exactly like you !People has been getting Temperance,Hermit for me too (urg these cards are ******* annoying) and now the high priestess which I don't know exactly what she's been asking me to do. All it says is wait,wait,wait and I feel really SAD.
Anyway I rather to believe God is preparing something good for us By the way I've been thinking. I want so much a truly love but if God give that to me while I am not prepared I could ruin it.Maybe he's just KNOW! but knowing that don't prevents me to feel pain and rage.Now I think I will just ask God to help me to evolve the things that I need faster.I will pray for him to GUIDE me.
Thank you for your kind words I actually had period of a time when high priestess appeared to me too At the moment (well couple of years) i haven't prayed because i noticed it will make me even more desperate. I'm much more calm when i am not in this beggar position towards HIM. When he will not provide. As i said this situation has been going on more than ten years. Im in therapy now and hope it will hope me overcome my fears and emotional as well physical violence that I experienced when i was child. I think these experiences are main things that i should "let go". As i fear people will hurt me even thou I long to be touch. But i don't understand why I should be ready as a human being to be loved. Or what is the reason God is shutting the doors to my face. Literally. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Registered: Jan 2016
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posted November 18, 2016 11:54 AM
Did you figured out what she wanted from you? I think we should work our intuition but I don't know how to do that and besides the intuition I don't what more she wants.I'm sorry to hear that,I also had problems at home when I was a child. ( not violence towards me though) but and I'm glad you are on therapy.I think is gonna help you a lot! In fact I wish I had the courage to do that too. I absolutely understand you cuz Ive been less time alone than you and yet hurts a lot.I question the same things you do.. why do I need to learn all the things ALONE??? but as I said Im trying to remain positive because if I don't then I will cry the whole day. Plus I don't know if you do that but I feel terrible because I question GOD! I feel angry and forgotten then I feel calm and I regret everything and is a vicious circle.My mind is a total mess. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 13 From: Registered: Oct 2016
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posted November 18, 2016 05:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Valmu83: I have been pulling cards to myself for years and they are always telling me it is not the time love will come to my life. At the moment it's time for temperance, before that it was hermit ;( Also I feel that universe is shutting doors when I meet someone I like? Why? I don't think it is fair anymore ;( Leave for q.
Are you looking to reconcile with someone from your past? I see a good sign to start a relationship. There will be a reconciliation, an attempt or a good healthy loving start w/ someone in romance ------------------ “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets." ------------------ "Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young." - Henry Ford Tarot Readings by Me Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Baby Yaga <3 ♍🌞 ♋🌙 ♒⬆ ♎💘♑🏂♍✏ IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 20, 2016 09:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by DannyCappy: Did you figured out what she wanted from you? I think we should work our intuition but I don't know how to do that and besides the intuition I don't what more she wants.I'm sorry to hear that,I also had problems at home when I was a child. ( not violence towards me though) but and I'm glad you are on therapy.I think is gonna help you a lot! In fact I wish I had the courage to do that too. I absolutely understand you cuz Ive been less time alone than you and yet hurts a lot.I question the same things you do.. why do I need to learn all the things ALONE??? but as I said Im trying to remain positive because if I don't then I will cry the whole day. Plus I don't know if you do that but I feel terrible because I question GOD! I feel angry and forgotten then I feel calm and I regret everything and is a vicious circle.My mind is a total mess.
No i didn't And now when i mentioned her to you she has been appearing in my readings again ..with the judgement card. Oh no.. so there is something else yet to figure out.
Therapy has helped me a lot. I will heartfully recommend that i you have been wondering if to go. I think you feel ready to take that step when it is right time. For me the inner pressure grew so big i had to start the therapy. I understand very well the harmful circle you are talking about my way was to take distance to God. I think he will undestand...it was for sake of my mind. IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted November 20, 2016 09:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: Are you looking to reconcile with someone from your past? I see a good sign to start a relationship. There will be a reconciliation, an attempt or a good healthy loving start w/ someone in romance
Aww..thank you EmpressMendez I'm actually seeking reconciliation or dreaming if it might be possible at some point. Or it would be just wonderful on the other hand to meet someone new and fall in love. I hope you are right. You anyways made me feel better Are you intuitive or is this reading btw? IP: Logged |