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posted November 26, 2016 05:28 PM            

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Care to exchange?

L contacted me Thursday and conversation was friendly. He still wasn't ready to take a chance but then something changed toward the end of the conversation. I'm wondering if he's being sincere and really ready to take a chance.

Thanks!

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posted November 26, 2016 05:31 PM            

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ooohh ? he wants to give it a shot? Thats great!

I am out running with the dog right now but will be back in an hour and lets exchange then.

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posted November 26, 2016 05:35 PM            

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Awesome! Thank you but yes I'm leary because throughout the whole conversation he didn't then changed his mind. So I'm wondering what you get

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posted November 26, 2016 07:44 PM            

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dusty,

the cards show that when he said that, he was sincere. he is craving intimacy, erotic sex and romance. All the cards for a relationship are there in the spread.
This is in regard to a question - was he sincere when he said he wanted to give it a chance

Heart - Lilly - Moon -Ring

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posted November 26, 2016 07:47 PM            

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my question is-

I am also craving intimacy. Do you see anything for me soon?

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posted November 26, 2016 08:08 PM            

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I asked if there will be any intimacy for you in the 3 months and got dinner, curtain, spoon, cherries and dancer. Yes there will be. Someone's coming that you are going to spend time with and with the spoon as the focus card, it's going to be a give and take relationship which is great. Cherries is about happy love affair and the end of the loneliness is coming for you.

So, L still has his dating profile up so my concern is him freaking out again or meeting someone on there although I think that's something he does out of boredom. Conversation is crappy today so is he going to freak out again and disappear or will he stick around and will conversation pick up?

Any other questions?

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posted November 26, 2016 08:40 PM            

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oh, i am happy about spread you have for me. Can you zoom in and see who that might be? LOLOL
what is the curtain about ? is that something behind the curtains?
any online links to your deck of cards?

well, the cards from the spread i did show that he is in a phase when he needs intimacy and romance. Hence he searching around for the right one. And because he cant find anyone appropriate, he might have decided to give you another chance. I can tell you for sure that if he was taken by the prospect of being with you, he wouldnt have kept showing up on the dating site. That's the logical side of it. But apparently there is noone there to capture his attention at the moment.

but lemme see whats next for you two...

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posted November 26, 2016 08:48 PM            

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the new spread shows that the cavorting will continue, i see a lot of written words exchanged between you two, he will be the one calling the shots still, and i see you going over to his house for intimate moments. The cards do not show actual commitment, but to your question if the connection will continue - yes, it will, and the texts will continue as well

Man - Bouquet - Letter - Tree - House

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posted November 26, 2016 09:01 PM            

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The curtain is about secrets but I just didn't feel that there is going to be any big secrets that would make you shy away from this person so I wouldn't worry about it.

I'm going to use the dream oracle to see what this person is like. I got spoon, tree, scissors, man and toad. So first off this man is someone who is very much someone who likes to give and receive which we got in the other spread. He's also someone who is very health conscious so I think he's someone who likes to work out and with the man card showing up which is about masculinity and strength and they mirror one another, this definitely is true. He is also decisive and is used to being in control but not on a bad way... I just think he's going to be the one who likes to have plans when he invites you out. He's also more into inner beauty than outer but beware of some false flattery early on. Sounds interesting!

The texts with other women? Will be take his profile down? My biggest fear is, he's contacted me out of loneliness and because he still has the dating profile up, will push me away again if someone he thinks looks better shows up. I hate that it's still up but nothing I can do about it....

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posted November 26, 2016 09:29 PM            

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dusty, great description of the man. i know who the guy you described is. you described him to a tee.

about L. - yes, he sounds uncertain, i wouldnt be glad to know he has his profile up, that means he is still looking. I guess at this point you just need to make baby steps and lure him in so he can forget about other prospects, make him happy and content. Give him what he wants, at least for now. That is only if you really want the man.

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posted November 26, 2016 09:50 PM            

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Awesome! I'm so glad you know who it is!!

Yes I want him. There is some kind of pull with him. I don't think he has met anyone from there or if he has, they haven't captured him yet. So I will just be me...that's all I can do and hope for the best.

He mentioned he doesn't know what's holding him back from being able to give me the commitment. Can you pull and see what it might be? That might help a bit so I know what I'm dealing with

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posted November 26, 2016 10:09 PM            

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what holds him back;

Bouquet - Rider - Ring RX

he is in a flirty kind of phase, he does want intimacy but he is kinda sporadic about it. The Rider shows he likes novelty and the excitement of meeting new people and discovering about them, he likes the mystery and he likes to be mentally challenged. The Ring came out in rx so that means he is kinda hesitant about commitment in general

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posted November 26, 2016 10:30 PM            

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Yes all makes sense. I think he talks to them but doesn't meet them....or does he? I did ask him about it, he's not on there much and is focusing on work but he's got it. Now he's lied about his age and many other things so I don't think he's looking for anything long term, and IF has said it's a boredom thing got him which makes sense but still frustrating! So I may not have a chance regardless of what I do from the sounds of it

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posted November 28, 2016 11:31 AM            

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Would you be interested in exchanging again?

L is frustrating me beyond belief and I'm curious what you might pick up!

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posted December 02, 2016 09:06 AM            

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Bump

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posted December 02, 2016 09:06 AM            

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hey hun

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posted December 02, 2016 11:34 AM            

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Would you care to exchange ?

L went silent again....grrr

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posted December 02, 2016 12:42 PM            

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ok, lets do. What exactly is the question?

Mine would be - financial improvement any time soon? I need to sell that darned house finally...urgh

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posted December 02, 2016 12:54 PM            

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Hmmmm what would be a good question. Why did he go silent or what caused him to....

Brb with yours

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posted December 02, 2016 01:04 PM            

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fox, turtle and fairy. Cards are saying you need to have patience and may actually need some help or advice with the fairy card. Pulled 2 more to see what else I could find out and got devil and compass so it looks like a change in direction may need to be considered. The fox card can be a card of insight so combined with all the other cards, I do feel you will definitely figure it out with some advice or help. I pulled the next card to clarify and it's the clover which is the luck/overcome card so I don't think you have to change much.

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posted December 02, 2016 01:09 PM            

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Why he went silent…

Coffin – Sun – Book
Heart on Book

So, it seems by the Coffin that he wanted some time-out. He wants to be left alone, it seems. Book is about hidden, secretive things and with Heart on Book I don’t know….I am wondering if he is flirting with someone else right now.…Sun shows he feels great thou.

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posted December 02, 2016 02:15 PM            

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Lol well glad he feels good....the bad thing is for him.....I'm done so he can have fun with this new person. Had it been work related that would have been different but for so one else, nah. I'm not a toy to be put on the shelf then pulled off when you have no one else around. Thanks!! His loss cause he won't find anyone else like me!

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posted December 02, 2016 08:53 PM            

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he certainly will not find another like you, because I know you are willing to put up a good fight for your man.

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posted December 02, 2016 09:20 PM            

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I just told him I was done and that he was a fool.

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posted December 02, 2016 09:29 PM            

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lets see what he will say....he may come back to his senses..

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