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posted November 27, 2016 01:43 PM            

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Opening a new thread the other one got long, I have a question or 2 if you wish to exchange more?

- I noticed that A has been in contact with L still 2 weeks ago, ( he got tagged in something, and replied with a kiss)
so I want to ask if they still talk or has it stopped?

yours?

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posted November 27, 2016 02:09 PM            

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Do A and L still talk?
I got mice, children, anchor. Clarifying card candles. The focus card is showing it's a thing of the past and with the anchor there are restrictions. The candles as the clarifying card is about seeking the truth so if there is talking, it is for the reason. There is still worry around that situation for A. I pulled another card just to double check and got the cross which is a card a out suffering / pain/sacrifices and if we pair that with everything else we do see that he's making sacrifices and worrying to figure out the truth in this situation.

So I mentioned going to see a movie to L and he instantly mentioned an investor lunch that he "forgot" he had but doesn't know what time it is. I had no intention of inviting him but is he being honest about this lunch since it seems odd he doesn't know what time it is and didn't mention it the other day when we talked about our weekend and just remembered it. I'm a little hurt that he may be lying to me just because he thought I was going to ask him to go to a movie with me... not a good sign if so.

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posted November 27, 2016 02:21 PM            

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Thank you, that makes total sense, with her being fake about her pregnancy so thats his worry and looking for the truth.

May I ask 1 more please :
- many said A does not belive her and such, that he thinks she is lying.. so my question is, if he thinks this, how come he was being nice to her, even sending "kiss" replies?
I noticed this 2 weeks ago so maybe it changed but its strange..

yours..

I do get he had some plan yes, but it doesnt feel to be a lunch but something that came unexpected and it does feel it slipped his mind, it feels like he said its a lunch to avoid you feeling jealous, I dont feel its a female interest but a friend or something along these lines, but not romantic, so it feels more he is trying to avoid the jealous part so he said a lie about what it was.
He didnt want to lie, but he felt it was necessary to keep peace.
It feels he does want to see you though, he is still kind of getting used to the idea of more frequent time with you so he is looking for some balance and how to react.

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posted November 27, 2016 02:37 PM            

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Why is he being nice if he thinks she's lying?

I got candles, spoon, anchor, apple, bird clarifying card ladder. Again we have the candles and anchor. He's being nice to get the truth. He doesn't have the truth yet and until he has gotten the truth and been successful and gotten the message he's looking for, he's using his wisdom to give her some niceness hoping it works to his advantage. But he's still restricting it and keeping it all into perspective. He's hoping to gain the knowledge he's looking for regarding this situation.

I am hurt that he would like. I don't care that he has friends..never have. And I know he has friends that are women. So much worse that he's lying. When will he ask to see me again? I think he knows that I know he lied though as I told him it was odd that he didn't know what time his investor lunch was....and not sure how to handle being lied to. It's a big deal even if he thought he was doing it for the right reasons...

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posted November 27, 2016 02:42 PM            

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Thank you!
Does he have any feelings still for L? Anything I would worry about?

Quite soon I get a 10 within 10 days or the 10th but you will hear from him in the mean time its just in that time I get there being plans to see eachother. His freedom is valued to him and he will give small before he gives more and starts to open more

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posted November 27, 2016 03:18 PM            

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I got clover, circle, butterfly. The feelings he has for her now are nothing you need to worry about, he thinks of her as quite frivolous. Any other feelings he had for her are gone/completed as the circle is the focus card. I pulled another card to confirm and got the devil...his feelings are very limited and have been released. So nothing to worry about.

And yes L does value his freedom. He has this crazy notion he's going to lose it with me even though he had it before when we were together. So it's reminding him of that....I'm guessing he didn't have it in his last relationship maybe.

Is he over his ex? I'm wondering if that is part of why he's having a hard time being able to commit

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posted November 27, 2016 03:30 PM            

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May I ask just one more, On thursday, I will have a parent meeting it will be in work shop form, making stuff together,
How will it go for me ?

- He is over his ex yes, but she has given him these fears and overly fears, she was so on him trying to know his every move that it drove him crazy, so now he jumps at anything fearing it will lead into more of the same, this is why he acts the way he does and its not so personal to you, but its past experiences that lead him to be touchy and nnow he wants everything his own way with him making the rules, but he will see he needs to budge if he wants to let you in.

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posted November 27, 2016 09:07 PM            

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I'm sorry I just saw this!

I got package, arrow, fountain, man, dragon and clarifying card cherries. It's going to go better than you expect. I see you're going to be surprised by how well it goes actually and it will be a positive experience. Looks like you will enjoy it and also enjoy the change of pace from how it's normally done. With the arrow, it looks like goals are met with no trouble.

Interesting that he has never mentioned anything about his ex other than they are still friends and still talk occasionally. But he said they ended things in good terms but you are the 2nd person to describe the exact same situation..... and I think the relationship ended later than he told me and he moved out of her house and not his shared housing with his buddies like he told me when he got his apartment. He said it ended in Feb, I think it ended in August area. Which explains so much more....

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posted November 28, 2016 10:51 AM            

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Would you care to exchange again?

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posted November 28, 2016 01:33 PM            

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Feedback :
He contacted me!!!

Yes I would.
Whats your question

Mine - will there be more communication with A this week?

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posted November 28, 2016 05:59 PM            

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Yeah! So happy to hear he contacted you!!! I will pull as soon as I get home.

I have feedback too! L invited me over tonight!

Is he talking to anyone else right now?

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posted November 28, 2016 06:27 PM            

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We actully didnt even chat today. I sent my reply 2 hrs later and that was that for today.

Latey I dont get L talking to others. I get temptation in him but not talking with others. You is starting to get under his skin.

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posted November 28, 2016 11:12 PM            

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Will you communicate more this week?
Hands, dancer, curtain, candles and ship. Yes there's going to be more forward movement. He's missing your friendship and has things he wants to tell you. We have the friendship card and also the twin flames card....both cards we see a lot with you and A.

Is L still sexually attracted to me? Normally when we are together he can't keep his hands off me...tonight there was nothing so I'm a bit worried.

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posted November 29, 2016 03:06 AM            

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Thanks.

Yes he is today he tried to be respectful and sweet but you took it the wrong way feeling unattractive but look at it as him being less physical more into you as a person.

How does he feel reconnecting with me?

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posted November 29, 2016 09:22 AM            

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I got candles, dog, sun, joker, curtain and clarifying card ring. Main focus card is the sun which shows he's definitely happy about it. We once again have the candles which we get a lot for the 2 of you and the dog which is about loyalty and he's missed that because he knows you are a loyal person. Joker card again which is anything can happen....I think you are going to see a few surprises from him in the coming days as well. He's definitely feeling a bit more complete by contacting you because of the twin flame connection as I'm sure you feel the same thing even with just a bit of contact. It may sound crazy to some but people having that connection will understand that.

So did I upset L by asking him if he was still attracted to me? I texted him this morning a simple good morning text and he has yet to respond

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posted November 29, 2016 12:38 PM            

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thank you

Yes he did find it offensive, he thought you knew how he did find you attractive and felt like now you maybe also dont find him attractive as he thought that it was very clear but now he feels insecure, so yes he does find it offensive.

Something about work, a comment made by my boss got to me, now I think she is not satisfied with me/my work.
What does my boss JD (female) think of my work
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posted November 29, 2016 02:30 PM            

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I got dog, lock, compass, pyramid, bottle and clarifying card parrot. First of all, JD knows you are loyal and stable in your work and knows you always stay on the path you are supposed to. The cards are saying the day that things happened, she was just annoyed due to gossip in the work place(parrot) and was feeling drained and exhausted. I think I did a reading before for you didn't I where I thought she was going to have an argument or say a harsh word? JD knows your are stable(pyramid) and has already reconsidered what she has said(compass). I pulled 2 more to verify how she feels and got heart and rabbit. She's very happy with your work and feels lucky to have you on her team.

So I apologized to L for being selfish last night for assuming as I did. Hopefully that will help repair the damage? He's pretty quiet which is understandable....talk about open mouth insert foot. Will he reach out to me today?

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posted November 29, 2016 02:42 PM            

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She wasnt harsh though and there was no argument or anything even close to that.
She only made a comment.

But I do think I know who "gossiped" so it makes sense
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posted November 29, 2016 02:44 PM            

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Today possibly later in the day almost night I would say but I feel it more for thursday/friday. It will come soon though just dont text any more let him come to you now.

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posted November 29, 2016 03:03 PM            

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Will do. Thank you so much for your time and energy! Feel free to ask anything anytime!

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posted November 30, 2016 03:43 AM            

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Thank you.
I do have something to ask if offer still stands.

This girl L around A, will she be an anoyance or anything to worry about for a long time?

I recently saw she still tries to get him, she even publicly wrote on a mutual friends status that A commented on, she wrote " A I love you,your parties also"
(A and the friend were discussing parties)
A didnt like or comment on that but it makes me wonder. So I hope he doesnt fall for her BS.

Will be able to exchange in few hrs after work.

Thank you

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posted November 30, 2016 02:19 PM            

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So I asked if she is going to hang around for awhile and got house, cross and compass. there will be a change but for now though the suffering will continue. Pulled another 2 cards to verify and got candles and comets so as soon as the truth comes out she will move on. She feels secure right now unfortunately as you know.

L is still silent...what is going thru his head right now as things seemed to be good then he's pulled back again.

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posted November 30, 2016 02:27 PM            

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Does A react in any way toward her when she writes such comments, I mean like does he even care/does it affect him?

Yours...
He is trying to seem tough, thats what I get, that he kind of now wants to be cold a bit to show that he is in control and he isnt wanting to hurt you but he wants to get back to knowing its by his decison he comes back to contact you, if this makes sense.
What I get is a bruised ego that needs to decide that Ok she apologised no time to be stuborn any more. He really isnt trying to punish or hurt you its more along the lines of feeling in control

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posted November 30, 2016 07:19 PM            

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Mirror, knife, cat, ladder, spider and clarifying card scissors. Wow what a spread! It shows he used to but with a lot of reflection, he's made cuts(knife and scissos) to gain control of the situation and not let it bother him. So he's put it into a different perspective and is looking in from the outside now or else he would feel trapped. He's found the balance to not let the comments bother him at all.

Ugh L is really frustrating! I really like him but I really hate this. It almost feels like a game honestly.... it's just so complicated. I get that he wants to be in control and he's afraid of losing his freedom and I respect all of that but how long is his silent treatment going to continue? I'm just frustrated today. Everything seemed to be going good and contact was good, we were enjoying each others company... sorry I'm just whining

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posted December 01, 2016 02:05 PM            

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Sorry had a long long day, only now getting to it.
thank you

He doesnt see it as a silent treatment as he doesnt do it to be personal to you but he does seem to be busy and his priorities are not straight at the moment, so I dont feel him doing it to hurt you or does he see it as you, but in other words, he will start to talk to you soon, I get one option around this weekend but also around next week, tuesday is what I get.

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