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intuitivefish
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posted December 02, 2016 03:15 PM
  
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dustib
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posted December 02, 2016 04:16 PM
I do. I would ask about L but I think I'm almost ready to move on because of his silence sadly. He did contact me today like you said he would but I just don't feel his heart is in it. So I'm trying to find a new job and interviewed at a place this week. Will I get a call back for a 2nd interview and is it the right fit for me or will I be better off moving out of state? What questions do you have? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 02, 2016 04:39 PM
I am getting new tattoo done on wedn. and for a very specific reason I will show the pic to A,
what will he think of it?brb IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 02, 2016 04:44 PM
I am not quite positive you will get a call back for 2nd interview, however you will get a call back from them.
I dont feel there will come a need to go through with going out of state. What I rather get is that you will get a better oportunity for a new job in the state you live and the oportunity seems to come in a sooner time, I dont feel it this month, but it will be around Jan I get. so not far away. IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 02, 2016 08:35 PM
I got volcano, mask, clover, heart, dragon and clarifying card house. Is this a tattoo that will have some kind of meaning for him? This would explain the house card which is feeling of home/security/family. We have the volcano card....about feelings and the clover which is overcome, heart: love. But the dragon means he's going to be in control of his feelings and the mask is hiding or pretending. So plan on him hiding his feelings for awhile from you but in all honesty, he loves it and is overcome with the feelings he has. The dragon card is also about change so he will eventually change and show you his true love of the tattoo. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 03:22 AM
Yes it would be of meaning to him .
Thank you.I got another one. Why did he change his name on fb on to a different name?
( from 1 nickname into another)
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dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 08:46 AM
I got candles, turtle, apple, peacock, elephant. It looks like a mixture of things actually...more vanity than anything. but a bit of wisdom feeling like it was time for a change due to old memories with the name. There's 3 cards here for wisdom. So last night there was a conversation between L and myself that was probably not what he expected. I got a call for an interview out of state and I don't want to live in another state and he knows that but I told him about this interview and he is so happy about this interview and pushing me to go. I told him 1 sided feelings hurt and he even said he was a fool and when he realized what he lost when I was across the country, that's his loss. This is like out first real argument. Will he contact me? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 09:22 AM
Thank you!I actually feel you mistook his encouragment for pushing you. You hoped he would change and say Nooo stayy but he tried to encouraging which I feel was a let down for you but he didnt mean for it to be a push away but encouragent for you.
Yes he will contact you again. Feels within few days possibly 2 days but also it could be around TUesday. A few months back I sent A 2 songs. One from a singer he likes. Has he ever relistened to the songs ? IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 09:56 AM
I got cherries, clouds, falling, sun and cat. Yes but the songs also make him feel all over the place as well. We have cards of sweetness(cherries), happiness(sun), the clouds make him think of you.... not in a depressed way but definitely put him thinking strictly of you, feelings of being overwhelmed but in a good way with the sun and cherries(falling) and the cat is a card of creativity. So...when he's feeling creative these are the songs he's listening to, or when he's really thinking of you, these are also the songs he's listening to. Now the clarifying card is peacock which is vanity which means he isn't going to admit to this anytime soon but know that he keeps these songs close by. I did send a text to L and apologized for some of my childish behavior last night....I did behave a bit childish with some of what I said. Does he feel like there is a connection between us or am I crazy? Lol and Thank you so much! You are so awesome!! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 10:05 AM
A bit of advice. Please try to stop this what you are doing. You keep trying to push him into a reaction with your behaviour and all it does is make you seem insecure and unstable. No person finds this attractive.
Every man likes a confident woman and right now you seem not confident.
1st you acuse him of being not attracted to you.
Then you acuse him of pushing you away for encouraging you.
And then you wonder why he goes cold at times.
Im sorry but I wanted to point this out to you. As it will totally push him away.
Ok you apologise but now he will think Whats next she will do. He is starting to think this was supposed to be fun is being too much drama.Not what you asked but its what I wanted to relay on you Yes he does see a connection thats why he keeps coming back for contact and to see you IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 10:11 AM
And thank you. It resonates.IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 10:22 AM
No you are 100% right! And it is my insecurities getting the best of me and very childish. I need to just let go and enjoy my life and whatever happens, happens. It is not attractive at all. Now to just let go and try to walk away...if he comes back so be it and if he doesn't so be it. Thank you so much! I do care about it but I do need to focus on my career and not him like I said I was going to last night. If he wants to be a part of my life, he knows where I am. And if not, it will be his loss. I do appreciate the friendly advice. I am afraid he won't contact me but that's OK....I want someone who wants to be with me and I want to be confident in myself. So I do need to work on that! Thank you for being a friend and I'm always here if you have any questions!! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 10:28 AM
I added the part about a connection.You dont need to "walk away" all you need to is let things flow how they are going to.
He is not commited to you and keep that in mind. Meaning you have every right to meet others too.
Keep option open.
Also if he is not commited he doesnt HAVE TO contact you daily or so frequent.. he like you has a life as he wishes to.
Try to keep an open mind and be happy. He IS NOT what brings you happiness, you bring hapiness to yourself.
Let there be a natural flow and see how nicley it can flow.
Let him chase you 😉 IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 10:52 AM
I don't think he's the chasing type but I will do what makes me happy and worry about me. I have been too worried about hearing from him for sure and what's going to happen. I am worried that he will forget about me and walk away but I can't live like that. You are right.... thank you IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 11:49 AM
Every man is a hunter if you let them be 😉You want to ask more?
I promise no more advice just readings 😊 Does A check my Fb? If he thinks anything about it..? IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 01:58 PM
I love the advice, thank you! He did contact me today and told me his actions have nothing to do with me personally. He used to be so good at contact daily....will that ever happen again? I'm headed back home and will pull for you as soon as I get home. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 02:16 PM
Not right now, but in a soon time, not this month I would say for now, there will come a time when he will be more constant, after this year ends, Jan will start to be better Im geting, so it will come but not at this point right now. You will need to be just a bit more patient. IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 03:36 PM
Does A check your FB? Hands, circle and ladder. Yes...ladder is all about awareness and hands is about connect. What does he think about it? Volcano, rabbit, compass, hands, comet and clarifying card sun. Again we have hands card which shows this is a good way he keeps that connection that is unexpected. With the compass, it's showing him what path your on and so he's able to keep insight that way. He's happy that he's able to keep up with you that way and really it looks like he's let go or moved on. It's showing he's in control of his emotions and no one is the wiser to anything with these cards.....
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intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 03:39 PM
He moved on from me???
Why is he checking my fb if he moved on?
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intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 03:44 PM
Sorry but him moving on makes no sense with contact he made the other day plus I asked you that not long ago and you said he didntIP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 04:23 PM
No he didn't move on.....but he's able to check your Facebook and look like he's moved on. He has no intention of moving on! IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 04:24 PM
I am so sorry for not being more clear IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 04:25 PM
Ooh ok good 😊
Well we are not friends on fb so he cant react to anything in any wayIP: Logged |
dustib
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posted December 03, 2016 05:47 PM
He is keeping an eye on your Facebook though. So L is having some issues with is daughter again. I offered an ear to listen or to be there if he needs to get away for awhile...will he take me up on either? I know he's already stressed with work so definitely doesn't need this on top of that IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted December 03, 2016 06:09 PM
Im not getting him open up more on that issue or taking the offer sorryIP: Logged |
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