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posted December 03, 2016 09:12 AM            

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Well I want to know if he is the one for me. Or should I leave him. This Chinese guy... 10 years older to me. First time I agreed to meet a guy alone. On our first meet he kissed me... We kissed a lot. We talked and he wanted to start a relationship. That day I was saying it would be really difficult because I am ambitious and my career goals are important. We started talking everyday. He told me he talks to other girls but not frequently. I started liking him... thinking about changing my dreams and goals. But he is confusing me. Now he says I am too young and it would be difficult and I have to achieve those goals and that he is talking to a girl back in China to marry and parents are forcing him. He keeps on asking about the guys who like me and wants to see me or visit me all the time. He lives in another city. He told me he liked me first day but now he says he will leave me, still we talk a lot. I don't want him to leave me. What should I do? Is he the one or should I let him go!!! Please guide me... I am feeling hopeless and helpless. Please. I have been crying since 2 days continuously. Guide me through tarot card reading and suggest me something. I checked our synastry... His moon in cancer conjuncts my Mars in cancer. We are connected and something is always going on between us. We also talked about having kids. I feel we will meet again years down later even if he is married, we are connected. He won't be able to forget me... I always get 'before sunrise' movie image when I think of us. Though I could be totally wrong.

P.S. My maternal grandma passed in August and then yesterday paternal grandma passed away too. I am feeling so sad... These ladies raised me since my childhood. Pat. Granny used to live with us since the start. Within a year so much has changed. I got my first job,got out of my house, 2 deaths and my first kiss with him.

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posted December 03, 2016 09:19 AM            

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If you have to ask if he is the one for you, most probably he is NOT but lets see what the cards say:

The Tower
Page of Pentacles
Knight of Pentacles
2 of Wands
King of Pentacles
6 of Swords
4 of Wands
The Fool
The Chariot
9 of Wands

No cups cards. No feelings, no stability. The guy is not the one. His intentions are sincere but you are the problem here. You are not the one for him either. I see movement. He will go. You will stay. No future together for you, I am sorry.

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posted December 03, 2016 09:30 AM            

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How am I the problem here??? 😞
When will be in my first relationship...??? I am 23... I feel very alone at times. I want to be loved and cared. I want someone to take care of me. How many more years do I have to wait for my the one??? Please tell me Rosalind!!!

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posted December 03, 2016 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by ScarlettO'Hara:
How am I the problem here??? 😞
When will be in my first relationship...??? I am 23... I feel very alone at times. I want to be loved and cared. I want someone to take care of me. How many more years do I have to wait for my the one??? Please tell me Rosalind!!!

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You are too young and you are not ready to have a serious relationship. The Chinese guy seeks marriage and kids. You are far from ready for that.

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posted December 03, 2016 09:41 AM            

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When will I meet my the one Rosalind??? Maybe I am feeling this alone because of grannies leaving me alone....... I was their favorite... Now they are gone... I feel so alone and emotional and vulnerable!!!!!! 😶

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