posted December 05, 2016 04:45 PM            

recently a past lover has re-entered my life. We had a real friendly conversation and it made me happy to find out that he is happy.
After our chat i suddenly realized that i might have hurt/aggrieved him when we were casual dating. my friends used to tell me that but i could never believe it since we were never in love but we liked each other a lot. Now i feel the urge to write him a short reconciliation mail like "if i ever aggrieved you, i am sorry and i apologize". Somehow i really want to do that but one part in me is still shy about that.

so my questions are:

1. was Al. aggrieved by my behaviour in the past?

2. what happens if i write him a reconiliation/apologize mail?

3. what happens if i don't?

this is not about getting back together but i want a nice, final closure with no bad feelings at all left.

his name is Al. but i used to call him "R" and i am B.

posted December 05, 2016 05:05 PM            

1. Was he irritated how you cared while dating in the past.

He when dating felt very fortunate happyabout being with you like wow I'm lucky. He didn't feel aggravated but more so emotional like perhaps hurt feelings he didn't feel quite as mature as you in how he dealt with feelings in relations like you are. He felt hurt maybe a bit of trust issues but he never mentioned brought it to fore because he felt didn't know for sure if you were example uninterested talking to others etc. So he kept that under the surface so jot aggravated but more hurt emotional about it but he kept it under wraps

Ace of coins
Knight of cups
High priestess

My question is I don't know if I asked this before or not...will there be some reconciling rekindling of my relationship with JZ?

posted December 05, 2016 05:44 PM            

i pulled 8 of pentacles, page of pentaclse knight of swords tower 2 of wands and wof and 8 of cups and 6 of cups

-> sorry for so many cards but i felt i had to pull that many.

yes, you will be back in contact. Definitely. it might take some time however since pentacles are slow in action. the 8 of pents could mean that you/him will be tied up with work but then the message will come to you. However, with the knight of swords and the tower it could happen that after the first message, the 2 of you end up in a big fight; however, don't worry. That might be necessary for a new beginning. the 2 of wands and the wof and 6 of cups is a real combination for a total new beginning and a reconciliation. Nothing will be like as it had been before.

posted December 05, 2016 06:49 PM            

What will happen if you don't send a message to him

Things will continue going on as they are in your life and his. Freedom of worry, stress just as is. Cause I feel overall you two are healthy about the breakup nothing too much or too overwhelming You will go on growing and improving in your love life. It seems you are very attractive and still very attractive to your ex. He at this point if no message is sent like you both are moving forward in relationships dating endeavors. He still doesnt feel quite as mature as you are in matters of the heart. So if you don't he will continue on dating, nothing serious yet is coming into the reading but he will just be going along dating, flirting. etc

posted December 05, 2016 07:23 PM            

so all in all: he was a bit hurt in the past and would reply positively to my message if i apologize?

for your 3rd q:

posted December 05, 2016 07:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Enneline, are you still taking readers?

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sure

posted December 05, 2016 07:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Ok I'll take all 3 and leno or tarot for you?

My question is what will the February solar eclipse bring F (me)?

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What you feel would be most comfortable for you

posted December 05, 2016 08:01 PM            

1) Wheel of fortune + 5 of swords + 5 of wands + Sun + Page of swords

Oh yess he was most definitely aggrieved, seems like something sudden out of the blue happened. He felt one upped by you and had alot of internal conflict within h because of the events that transpired between the two of you. It took him a while to overcome he felt you were a bully to him and may be a bit harsh and impulsive with your words. (Enneline what you do girl?)

On the other one.

posted December 05, 2016 08:18 PM            

Rider + Anchor + Sun + Tree + Man

We have Sun at the center so good things surround if you apologize. This would bring about long term stability for the connection you share with AI, I get there will some form of healing for him if you reach out to him I do see that this is a man that has probably has probably left a long lasting impression on you. Either way reach out as it looks positive to move forward

posted December 05, 2016 08:18 PM            

-> sorry for the many cards but i pulled them like being hypnotized

oh wow, the Feb eclips will provide happy times.

i am not sure about the 4 of wands, i mean if its a reunion from someone from the past (i normally get 6 of cups for that) or if you meet someone online or you will come together with someone. Whatever, it will be most fullfilling, the 4 of wands is a great card, we all know that and since the 9 of cups follows, a true wish will be fullfilled
also, you will hear from someone, i am not too sure if its the same person as the one from the 4 of wands cards but defnitely a exchange of messages with the king of swords, an either intelligent or airy man that will enter or already has entered your life.
First one of you, or both of you, will be a but stubborn about real intentions and wha you want; maybe even being possessive about each other but there's nothing negative about it. the 3 of cups, a real celebration card is linked to it and followed by the 10 of pentacles. A happy commitment and family life.

So, WOW, the eclips will bring you good things only. An Union with a beloved person, a wish will be fullfilled, a sharp minded man will be entering your life to stay and i think also your family life and your interaction with your environment will improve and will be happy and will be stable.

I have rarely seen such a great spread in a long time Congratulations!

posted December 05, 2016 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Yes I'm F.

1) Wheel of fortune + 5 of swords + 5 of wands + Sun + Page of swords

Oh yess he was most definitely aggrieved, seems like something sudden out of the blue happened. He felt one upped by you and had alot of internal conflict within h because of the events that transpired between the two of you. It took him a while to overcome he felt you were a bully to him and may be a bit harsh and impulsive with your words. (Enneline what you do girl?)

On the other one.

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posted December 05, 2016 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
2) ok what would happen of you reach out to apologize

Rider + Anchor + Sun + Tree + Man

We have Sun at the center so good things surround if you apologize. This would bring about long term stability for the connection you share with AI, I get there will some form of healing for him if you reach out to him I do see that this is a man that has probably has probably left a long lasting impression on you. Either way reach out as it looks positive to move forward

On to the third...

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posted December 05, 2016 08:40 PM            

3) if you decide not to reach out.

Mountain + Letter + crossroads + Tree + Bouquet

posted December 05, 2016 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
4 of wands 9 of cups page of swords king of swords 4 of pents 3 of cups and 10 of pentacles

-> sorry for the many cards but i pulled them like being hypnotized

oh wow, the Feb eclips will provide happy times.

i am not sure about the 4 of wands, i mean if its a reunion from someone from the past (i normally get 6 of cups for that) or if you meet someone online or you will come together with someone. Whatever, it will be most fullfilling, the 4 of wands is a great card, we all know that and since the 9 of cups follows, a true wish will be fullfilled
also, you will hear from someone, i am not too sure if its the same person as the one from the 4 of wands cards but defnitely a exchange of messages with the king of swords, an either intelligent or airy man that will enter or already has entered your life.
First one of you, or both of you, will be a but stubborn about real intentions and wha you want; maybe even being possessive about each other but there's nothing negative about it. the 3 of cups, a real celebration card is linked to it and followed by the 10 of pentacles. A happy commitment and family life.

So, WOW, the eclips will bring you good things only. An Union with a beloved person, a wish will be fullfilled, a sharp minded man will be entering your life to stay and i think also your family life and your interaction with your environment will improve and will be happy and will be stable.

I have rarely seen such a great spread in a long time Congratulations!

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posted December 05, 2016 10:58 PM            

For #1. Was Al aggravated by Enneline during past behavior.

Three of cups, king of cups, tower
Clarified by moon

Al felt very happy when he was in your presence. Is he is a water sign? (king of cups) That would explain him being very emotional by your actions or comments which led to the tower. The moon is showing it left him feeling jealous perhaps.